import java.io.*;
import java.util.ArrayList;
import java.util.InputMismatchException;

public class C
{
    static int p[];

    static int FIND(int x)
    {
        if(p[x]!=p[p[x]])
        {
            p[x]=FIND(p[x]);
        }
        return p[x];
    }

    static boolean FIND1(int x)
    {
        if(p[x]!=x+1)
            return false;

        while(p[x]==x+1 && p[x]!=x)
        {
            x=x+1;
            if(p[x]!=x+1 && p[x]!=x)
            {
                return false;
            }
        }
        return true;
    }

    public static void main(String[] args) throws Exception
    {
        //System.setIn(new FileInputStream("E:/Shreyans/Documents/Code/CODE/src/Stdin_File_Read.txt"));
        InputReader in = new InputReader(System.in);
        OutputWriter out = new OutputWriter(System.out);
        int n=in.readInt();
        p=new int[n+1];
        int m=in.readInt();
        for(int i=0;i<m;i++)
        {
            int mi=in.readInt();//number of q after
            ArrayList<Integer>al=new ArrayList<Integer>();
            for(int j=0;j<mi;j++)
            {
                al.add(in.readInt());
            }
            p[al.get(al.size()-1)]=al.get(al.size()-1);
            for(int j=0;j<al.size()-1;j++)
            {
                p[al.get(j)]=al.get(j+1);
            }
        }
        for(int x:p)
        {
            //out.print(x+" ");
        }
        int cnt=0;
        int x1=1;
        if(FIND1(1))
        {
            x1=FIND(1)+1;
        }
        for(int i=x1;i<=n;i++)
        {
            int pi=FIND(i);
            if(pi!=i)
            {
                p[i]=i;
                cnt++;
            }
        }
        for(int i=FIND(1);i<n;i++)
        {
            if(FIND(i)!=i+1)
            {
                p[i]=i+1;
                cnt++;
            }
        }

        out.printLine(cnt);

        {
            out.close();
        }
    }

    //FAST IO
    private static class InputReader
    {
        private InputStream stream;
        private byte[] buf = new byte[1024];
        private int curChar;
        private int numChars;
        private SpaceCharFilter filter;

        public InputReader(InputStream stream)
        {
            this.stream = stream;
        }

        public int read()
        {
            if (numChars == -1)
                throw new InputMismatchException();
            if (curChar >= numChars)
            {
                curChar = 0;
                try
                {
                    numChars = stream.read(buf);
                } catch (IOException e)
                {
                    throw new InputMismatchException();
                }
                if (numChars <= 0)
                    return -1;
            }
            return buf[curChar++];
        }

        public int readInt()
        {
            int c = read();
            while (isSpaceChar(c))
                c = read();
            int sgn = 1;
            if (c == '-')
            {
                sgn = -1;
                c = read();
            }
            int res = 0;
            do
            {
                if (c < '0' || c > '9')
                    throw new InputMismatchException();
                res *= 10;
                res += c - '0';
                c = read();
            } while (!isSpaceChar(c));
            return res * sgn;
        }

        public String readString()
        {
            int c = read();
            while (isSpaceChar(c))
                c = read();
            StringBuilder res = new StringBuilder();
            do
            {
                res.appendCodePoint(c);
                c = read();
            } while (!isSpaceChar(c));
            return res.toString();
        }

        public double readDouble()
        {
            int c = read();
            while (isSpaceChar(c))
                c = read();
            int sgn = 1;
            if (c == '-')
            {
                sgn = -1;
                c = read();
            }
            double res = 0;
            while (!isSpaceChar(c) && c != '.')
            {
                if (c == 'e' || c == 'E')
                    return res * Math.pow(10, readInt());
                if (c < '0' || c > '9')
                    throw new InputMismatchException();
                res *= 10;
                res += c - '0';
                c = read();
            }
            if (c == '.')
            {
                c = read();
                double m = 1;
                while (!isSpaceChar(c))
                {
                    if (c == 'e' || c == 'E')
                        return res * Math.pow(10, readInt());
                    if (c < '0' || c > '9')
                        throw new InputMismatchException();
                    m /= 10;
                    res += (c - '0') * m;
                    c = read();
                }
            }
            return res * sgn;
        }

        public long readLong()
        {
            int c = read();
            while (isSpaceChar(c))
                c = read();
            int sgn = 1;
            if (c == '-')
            {
                sgn = -1;
                c = read();
            }
            long res = 0;
            do
            {
                if (c < '0' || c > '9')
                    throw new InputMismatchException();
                res *= 10;
                res += c - '0';
                c = read();
            } while (!isSpaceChar(c));
            return res * sgn;
        }

        public boolean isSpaceChar(int c)
        {
            if (filter != null)
                return filter.isSpaceChar(c);
            return c == ' ' || c == '\n' || c == '\r' || c == '\t' || c == -1;
        }

        public String next()
        {
            return readString();
        }

        public interface SpaceCharFilter
        {
            public boolean isSpaceChar(int ch);
        }
    }

    private static class OutputWriter
    {
        private final PrintWriter writer;

        public OutputWriter(OutputStream outputStream)
        {
            writer = new PrintWriter(new BufferedWriter(new OutputStreamWriter(outputStream)));
        }

        public OutputWriter(Writer writer)
        {
            this.writer = new PrintWriter(writer);
        }

        public void print(Object... objects)
        {
            for (int i = 0; i < objects.length; i++)
            {
                if (i != 0)
                    writer.print(' ');
                writer.print(objects[i]);
            }
            writer.flush();
        }

        public void printLine(Object... objects)
        {
            print(objects);
            writer.println();
            writer.flush();
        }

        public void close()
        {
            writer.close();
        }

        public void flush()
        {
            writer.flush();
        }
    }
}