I cant and wont give my energy to the things I cant control because its beyond me. I'm more gentle and less hard on myself. She was driving her daughter in Atlanta when their car was caught in gun violence crossfire, and her daughter was struck. One answer  surround herself with veterans. So be nice to yourself.
I cannot and won’t say their own name.
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(z0 / and
    :op1 (z1 / possible-01
             :ARG1 (z2 / say-01
                       :ARG0 (z3 / i)
                       :ARG1 (z4 / thing
                                 :ARG2-of (z5 / name-01
                                              :ARG1 (z6 / they))))
             :polarity -)
    :op2 (z7 / say-01
             :ARG0 z3
             :ARG1 z4))
I cannot and won’t say their own name .
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z2 :ARG0 z3
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z7 :ARG0 z3
z7 :ARG1 z4
z2 :ARG1 z4
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