How to turn down a boy when he asks you out<br>Ask him why he's interested in you. There are boys in this world who just want you for your beauty, and body or because they want to be well known. Not because you're kind or smart or independent or brave or strong or courageous and etc.
The article writer believes that the reason for the boy to want to be with you will help in avoiding dating with him.
The main idea is 'how to turn town a boy who asks you out'.  As such we can surmise that  asking for why they are interested would be towards helping you with that goal
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