Old woman:: "Schools shouldn't offer free lunches to kids, since that means their parents just take advantage, and don't bother trying to find jobs to support their kids." Me:: "So you think we should allow kids to starve?!" Woman's husband:: "You see [myname], if you give them handouts, these people don't work. When I got out of high school, if you wanted to eat, you had to find a job. Nobody has any work ethic anymore." At a party. Made me feel like I was talking to a compassion-less brick wall.