Although Elvira never married , she had a life long relationship with her sister , Ida Cavoli , who resides in Lakewood , Ohio , and her brother Dominick 's children , Richard , of Eden , N.Y. , Maryellen Phelan , of Chappaqua , N.Y. , Patricia Endreny , of Providence , R.I. , Susan Crosby , of Marlton , N.J. , and Diane Bohanan , of Albany , CA .