In lieu of flowers friends may contribute generously to the charity of their choice or to : Francis Beidler Forest , c\/o National Audubon Society , 336 Sanctuary Road , Harleyville , South Carolina 29448 ; Save Barnegat Bay , 906-B , Grand Central Avenue , Lavallette , New Jersey 08735 ; or the Trust for Public Land , New Jersey Field Office , 20 Community Place , 2nd fl , Morristown , New Jersey 07963 .