Tara Starr Kole , the daughter of Adrienne Sires of West New York , N.J. , and James Kole of New York , was married yesterday to Michael Harkett Dore , a son of Marilyn and Michael Dore of Montclair , N.J. Albio Sires , the bride 's stepfather , was deputized by Los Angeles County as a marriage commissioner for the ceremony , which took place at the Hotel Bel-Air in Los Angeles .