He is survived by his second wife , Bonnie Mattingly Lacy , whom he married in 2002 ; his sons , Paul Jr. , of Stillwater , Minn. , and Steven T. , of Cambridge , Mass . ; four stepchildren , John E. Starner of Zanesville , Sheryl Williams of Cold Springs , Ky. , Rebecca McInerney , of Coshocton , Ohio , and Brenda Lepi , of Nashport , Ohio ; and 10 grandchildren .