In lieu of flowers , donations in her memory can be made to TRIO -LRB- Transplant Recipient International Organization -RRB- , Manhattan Chapter , PO Box 122 , Throgs Neck Station , Bronx , NY 10465 or to LILAC -LRB- Long Island League to Abolish Cancer -RRB- , C\/O Elly Rosen , 11 Cedar Drive South , Old Bethpage , New York 11804 .