She is the daughter of Lois Gallina of Westwood , N.J. , and Thomas Najarian of Demarest , N.J . The bride 's father , who retired as an owner of several ShopRite supermarket franchises in northern New Jersey , is the manager of ShopRite Liquors of Fort Lee , N.J . Her mother is a personal assistant in Bedford , N.Y. Mr. O'Neill , 32 , is the coordinator of math at Chelsea High School in New York .