The family has requested that contributions in memory of Carol be made to : The Sag Harbor Historical Society , P.O . Box 1709 , Sag Harbor , New York 11963 ; The John Jermain Memorial Library , P.O . Box 569 , Sag Harbor , New York 11963 , or The Breast Cancer Research Foundation , 60 East 56th Street , 8th Floor , New York , New York 10022 .