He was survived by his loving wife , Ruth ; and their three sons : Elliott Brender , MD , his wife , Julie , and their two children , Jacob and Cady of Villa Park , CA . ; William Brender , MD , his wife , Amy , his three children , Jessica , Jared and Matthew , and his two grandchildren , Aaden and Mattilyn of Glens Falls , NY ; Colonel Arnold Brender , MD , his wife , Therese , and their two children , Dana and Joseph of Huntington Beach , CA .