In retirement , he lived in Lyme , N.H. ; he and his family also spent many summers in the White Mountains at Randolph , N.H . He is survived by his wife of 66 years , Eleanor Collier Crary ; five children , Ann C. Evans of New York City , Sarah H. Crary of Amherst , MA , Alexander D. Crary of Washington , D.C. , Jonathan K. Crary of New York City , and David H. Crary of Brooklyn , N.Y. ; and five grandchildren .