Choyamba ndifuse nawo kuti mwakhala mukutengapo mbali pa project ya chitukuko cha Sani? Pa chitukuko cha? Kapena ndifuseso? Kodi mwakhala mukutengapo mbali pa project ya chitukuko cha sani? Eye timatengapo mbali. Ndi ntchito ziti zomwe mwakhala mukutenga nawo mbali? Ntchito zolima chimanga, zolima fodya, swawa.  Nambala chani inuyo? Five, oho nanga ena pa zomwe takhala tikutenga nawo mbali? Timalima soya, mpaka mene wuonjezera mene alikukambira iwowa. Ena? Kadyedwe kabwinotu, oho ena? Mene akukambira azangawa madyedwe abwino zimafunika kugwiritsira ntchito ndithu kuti upeze mtendere. Kulimapo swawa, soya mbatata eya. Ndithu. Mongokumbutsana tidzitchula manambala athu pakufuna kuyankha mafusowa owo eya ndine nambala chani? Four eti? Kodi tikamati kadyedwe kabwino timathandauza chani? Kadyedwe kabwino mkonena kuti muziphika zosamalika, peza kale makolo amati wana akakhala mpakati mazira asamadye ndekuti akhala ndi mwana otani? Ometeka tsitsi nde zimene zija nzakale koma tsano takhala ndi zamasiku ano. Ana akumadya mazira akakhala mpakati. Oho ndinu a namabala chani? Number six. Ine ndine number 3 pakhomo padzikhala kitchen chimbudzi ndi bafa ndiye kuti posamalika, ndiye pokhala kuphikira za ukhondo zija ana amasangalala pamen kuti ukawaphikire koma chimbudzi palibe ndiya ana aja amasowa koti apite ndiye umaoneka kuti khomo lija si khomo loyenerezeka. Khomo limayenera kukhala lovomere zeka padzikhala chimbudzicho kitchen mpogona.  Nde wana uja ukamawaphikira thereÕre lija angakhale nkhwani ukamawahpikira nsima kuwapatsa amasangalala chifukwa akadya chakudya chija amathamagira kuti? Kuchimbudzi, ndiwo makhalidwe wawana. Ndiye ukatero pakhomo pamakhala posamalika popanda zina zilizose eya nambala five ahha. Nanga ena?
Mene nduneneramu nambala 4, ayi mpofunika ndithu ,  mene muno mutere atati amuleke leke muno mukhoza kuipa koma  koma poti muli munthu mukhoza kukhala mopanda, ku kitcheniso chimodzi modzi nde zimayendera pamodzi.  Mongowonjezera madyedwe abwino  timanenaso monga kudya zamagulu, maganizo omwe timapanga pogula kaya pogulitsa kaya pokonza kaya posungaso chakudya, kulimaso monga mene mwanenera, kuyamwitsa kupita kuchipatala ukhondo wamadzi komaso kutengapo mbali kwa abambo kuzochitika za pakhomo. Kodi pali kusintha kukonse komwe  kwachitika pa zaka zitatu zapitazi pa nkhani imeneyi ya madyedwe oyenera komaso maudindo amayi ndi abambo? Eya kudasintha number 3, kusintha kuli motere zaka zipita kumbuyoku ntchito zimathyola azimayi okha koma lero bamboo ndi mayi tikugwira mofanana oho. Eya, ena? Nambala folo, nambala 2, ndukhalira ndemanga mau akamba azangawa chifukwa kumbuyoku udindo munalibe. mzimayi mwina atha kukhala oyembekezera koma makasu athyoleko ndiwo, munthu wamkwazi atenge nkhuni makasu ali pa mbalipa oyembekezeraso mwanaso wina alikumbuyo.koma lero tupatsana udindo, obambo alikutengako mbali mwina ine nditha kuthyolako ndiwo koma thulo landio lija alunilanda akutengapo, makasu aja ali ulanda  mwina ine nditha kwanguseza nkhuni zokha kumapita kunya. Mwina mtakafika nyumba kuja kuti mtengo tsuko nipite kudambo abambo ali kusadzulako tindiwo tija. Number 2 mene zasinthira kusiyana ndi mbuyomu sintha kwake mkwakuti kale kale wana, wazimayi amapita ku tchire kukapanga chimbudzi kapena nditi kukabiba ku tchire ndiye Panopa zinangoti zimenezizi zabwera kuno kwathu ayi zisinthu zidasintha. Oloko mwana wa zaka ziwiri zitatu amapita kuchimbudzi ndiye kuchimbudzi kwathuso tidayikako kasamba manja. Akatha kubiba amasamba manja mkumapita kunyumba kumakasewera pamodzi ndi azizake, ndiye mwana ujaso timamupatsa kunyumbako asanafikeso po azizake paja mwina tiyikepo madzi athu akuti mwana uja amayenera asamba mumupatse zovala zabwino akhala pa gulu pa anzake. Ndiyetuona kuti maganizo abwino adabwerawa zinthu zidasinthaa  kwathu kuno ndithu  tuwona kuti ukhondo ukuchitika ndithu mudzi mwathu muno, pakhomo pathu timayeneraso kusetsa tsiku lililose tisanapite kumunda pobwera kumunda kuja timadzapeza kuti ayi pakhomo paja pali bwino. Mwana ujaso akamachoka kodya misinde amakataya kutchire podziwa kuti amama asamala kale, ndiye Panopa tili ndi moyo wabwino, ngakhale njala ili pakati koma aha zina zina tikuona kuti zinthu zili bwino ndithu. Koma bungwe lake ndi la CARE li lidatithandiza zedi. Number six motiso tikambepo kuti yayi zimenezi zidasintha chifukwa masiku akalewo titayamba kuti tupita kumunda timatchyoka wapansi kutenga khasu, lodala tatenga ndekuti lathu tatenga ndiye uku mwana tabereka kumbuyo ndiye timalema koma kujako talima timawerengerana mizere ndiye kuti itatutu itatu tilimandithu   koma pobwera kuthyokaso ndi nkhuni makasu aja mwana kumbuyo ndiye timathyoka nayo.  Kabwera kumudzi titenga tsuko uja kupita ku dambo kukatunga madzi kujigo, titabwerako tiyambe kudzula ndiwo zija tiphike tiphike nsima, kuphikitsa madzi amuna, amuna aja amangukhala ali phe koma tsanu lero, ayi zidasintha amunawo amapsyedako nyumba mpyephye ndiye kuti iweyo ukupita kudambo kujigo. Lero zidasintha mwina tere kuphikako ka nsima ndiye kuti ayi tere uona kuti zinthu zasintha ndithu. 
Mwanena mau okuti kupsyeda? Eya kusesa, eya oho Zikomo. Kusesa pakhomo, nyumba hahahah ahh. A number four, nambala mawu ake nawomwewa tere wanena nzangayu. mau ake niomwewa wanena nzangayu. kuti chitukuko chiliko ndithu. Nanga zomwe sizinasinthe pa zaka zitatu zimene zi ndi chani? Koma zosasintha nambala five ahh situzipenyaaah kweni kweni chifukwa kutengera mene udaliri moyo wakale ndi watsano udasintha zedi. Ukapeza mwana kumpenya litsiro ali naka naka pali anthu ake. Koma ana amasiku ano akangusamba komatu mwana ochepa koma ukampeza ali kakala kala kwama ndalero lero la chani? Lachiwiri. Aah mwanatu wanthete tu amakeso ah palije tsiku loti wangugona osasamba koma tsiku lilose alisamba ndiye timati bukhondo ndi uti? Umenewu chifukwa ngati munthu asamalira chiwiya chanyumba ndiye kuti zose amatani amasamala eya. Tsono ukhondo wa lero aaah tusiyanista ndi umo tidabadwira ife masiku awo ndi lero li, eya ndithu.   Ndimavuto otani omwe inu kapena ena akukumana nawobe pa zamadyedwe oyenera makomo kapena midzi? Number three, mavuto amadyedwe abwino omwe akukumana nawo ndiwo adati ine ndikhokhala chete, koma yemwe alikugwira gwira sangakumane nawo chifukwa pa nkhani ya chakudya chani chino chavutadi zedi koma bodza CARE yi idatiuza chifukwa idtiuza machitidwe oti tidzitani kodi? Tidzithandizidwa tilimepo timbatata, timbatatesi tili kudya titi timeneto. Number one CARE yomweyi mwina  anabwera mu august ka sptember anati musamadalire zinthu zongulandira, zongulandira mudzafa ndinjala zizakuvutani ndiye pali npano  aliyese pakhomo pake akonze dimba ndiye panali madongosolo moti tabyalamo ndithu, ndiwo  sitidaguleko timbatata tidatani tidadya ndithu. Panopa ka dowe ndithu timadya ka makomo mwathumu. Titaona kuwi owoo ndiye kuti mbungwe la CARE likubweretsa zinanazi zoti tidzidzala makomo ndiye kuti malangizo ena atabwera tidzizati tidakoza kale pakhomo pathu.
Kodi project imeneyi ya Sun yabweretsako mavuto ena aliwonse? Mavuto ma pathupi pamunthu kapena pamodzi Panopa sangalephere amakhalapo ndithu eya chifukwa ngati munthu anabadwa pa dziko la pansi anabadwira vuto komaso mtendere, chifukwa sungangokhala kose kwabwino munthu aaah kwina kumakhala kopendekera ndithu ngakhale akhala ochita bwino cha mtundu wanji uwona apita pakhomo pa mphawi ngati ine ayi mutandibwerekako mchaku aah chukuti kodi ah poti nali nacho pangÕono kwayakoni pangÕono nde timampatsa  munthu uja akakakonza ku nyumba kwakweko ndiye kuti amakhala kuti waombokerako pa chinthu chimene chijacho eya, ndithu. Ena ali ndi maganizo ena? Number two ndemanga  monga ali kukambira amayi awa kuti vuto masiku amenewo kusanabwere CARE yu timavutika zedi chifukwa nanga  sinaga panalibe langizi otiphunzitsa mene tingagwirire ntchito koma mene anati wabwer CARE mu alangizi alugwira ntchito ngati wa Sandram mau adakamba amayi awo okuti mwezi uwowo anatiuza tilime madimba tinalimadi madimbabo moti mwezi uwowo sitidagule ndiwo, aah ngati mwezi uwo tagula ndiwo? Angakhale mondokwawo tayamba pakanthawi ndithu moti tingokulandirana ndi waku mundawu ndi waku dimbawu, madimba apakhomo. Ndiye kuti apapa tikunena zakuti project imene yiyi ya CARE sinabweretse mavuto ena aliwose koma no mavutowo ndi okhazikika ndikale? Mavuto a project ya CARE sidabweretseko ayi. Panopa ndi nthawi yoti tikambirane za ka gawidwe ka ntchito mungatenge tsiku lathu mene timachitira kuyambira mawa mpaka madzulo mene timakagona, komano kagawidwe ka ntchito kameneka ndi ka amayi ndi abambo omwe ali ndi ana angoÕno angÕono osapyola zaka zisanu.  
Kumbali ya abambo amene ali ndi ana angÕono angÕono amene ali wosachepera zaka zisanu ndi nthawi yanji yomwe iwo amadzuka? Kumbali ya ana ngÕono angÕono mwina ena amauka mamawa uja mene amakhalira ana amasiku anowa.  Ena mwina amauka uyeni uyu 7 koloko 8 koloko walikukhala chogona malingana ndi zamasiku ano umati aah mwana ameneyu agalamuka niyesa wachita malungo koma pamne mwina mwana alupeza bwino ndiye tulo tapitirira ndithu ndiye uja amadzutsa mwana uja kupita naye pakhomo kuti kodi iwe lero watani usakudzuka nsanga. Ndiye mwana uja amauka kumpenya thupi lozizira eya. Nanga kumbali aa ndingonena kuti abambo, mbali ya abambo omwe ali ndi ana ngÕongo angÕono ndi nthawi iti yomwe amadzuka abambowo? Amadzuka mamawa, amadzuka mamawa, akadzuka mamawa mwina  amayi aja alinyumba ndiye kuti abambo aja akadzuka mamawa amatenga chiseso kumasesa pakhomo. Imakhala kuti mamawa wake ndi nthawi zanji? Mwina ngati six koloko. Nde akadzuka akasesa panja china chomwe amachita ndi chani? Mwina momwe nimaonera ineyo mwina ajawa akauka akasesa  sesa pakhomo paja nde ngati pali maungu npakhomo amatenga maungu aja kumwanya mwanya basi mkuphika kuti mawa kutacha  wana aja akadzuka adye popita ku church pakakhala kuti mpasabata. Oho nanga ena? Number one mwana osachepera zaka five nose ni  makhala busy ndi wana waja , sinanga mwina poti tusunga adzukulu eh woo wathu ndiye adatha nde timakhala ni busy tose kapena kuti tose ndi wa muna tusunga adzukulu aja, ena ali ndi amayi okha abambo adapita ena ali ndi abambo okha amayi anapita ndiye . koma mukakhala kuti muli nose mumakhala ni busy ndi adzukuluwo aja kukacha nanawa umamuona ndithu kuti mwana asamalike monga ngati ineyo mzimayi ni mauka mamawa uja ndikasesa sesa pakhomo ndikasesa kitchen kuikapo  timadzi basi ndi sambitse adzukulu aja ngati kuli mkaka kaschool ka mkaka basi niwanyamule  nipite nawo kuja ndiye kuti kunyumbaku mapatsaso kanthu kopita nako ku school. Nanga tikachoka poti abambo amatha kuphika chakudya kaya ndi maungu amenewa akamaliza zimenezo amapanga chani? A number two, mkachokapo ine mkasiyapo abambowo amakhala ndi busy yoyangÕanira mwana uja maka maka ine  popeza ndili ndi mwana wa matenda ndimawasira udindo waukulu pakhomo mtachoka ine wama yangÕanira kwabasi koma ndi tsikana amaphitsa madzi mkuwuza munthu kuti popeza ineyo amake amwana uyu achokapo munitsukireko. Ndiye amati munthuyo akabwera amantenga mkukatsuka basi ndikukhazika ndiye kuti iwowo ali busy zoyangÕana chani chakudya kuti aphike mwana uja adye. Ine nili kwina numo amachitira. Nthawi yomwe amapita kukayangÕana chakudyacho ndi nthawi yanji? Ingakhale nthawi yanji? Nthawi yomwe amakayanganira chakudya mwina ma eight koloko akayanga chakudya ngati atangwanika ndi ntchito ina pakhomopo mwina apita ma ten koloko ali wuyangÕana chakudyacho. Oho nanga ena? bamboo amadzuka mamawa amati atadzuka amasesa pakhomo mkuesa mu kitchen kutereka madzi kuti mwana uja akadzuka asambe maso. Ndipo akamusambitsa maso ngati kuli kusamba maso mwana uja akakhala bamboo odzichitani amati waikapo kaphala mkuphika ka phala kaja mkupatsa mwana uja.  Ndekuti pamene udzuke iwe mayi wake ndiye kuti bamboo zina wachitapo kale. Ndekuti   Ntchito zimakhala zothandizana? eyaa.  Akachoka pamenepo china chomwe amapanga ndi chani? Akachoka pamenepo akakhala bamboo ozichitani  zomwe zija ndanena kuti poti kuli gender masiku ano nde kuti ngati palibe nkhuni pakhomo bamboyo akuti tiye kumunda tikawaze nkhuni muchoka kuja ndiye kuti iye wasenzako nkhuni ine ndekuti ndatengakoso chani?  Ndiwo manja kapena ine ndatenga ndiwo manja ndiye kuti pamene ine ndidzikoleza moto iwo alikusadzulako ndiwo zija. Akasadzula ndiwo zija  ndiye kuti ine ndipita kudambo ndiye kuti madzi dzathira nipita njira yachiwiri ndiye kuti ndidzapeza madzi wateleka pamoto kuti ayikepo ndiwo zija. Imakhala nthawi yanji  imeneyi? Iyenera kukhala leven sinanga timaleka 12 kuti wana wadye. Mkamaliza kudyamo mpaka madya mumakonza zakudya 12 mpaka ma 1? Aha , I mean ma 11 mpaka ma 12 eya, tikupanga leven ija kuphika ndiwo ndiye kuti chama 12 tiphika nsima yake ndiye kuti pamen tiphula  nsima titereke madzi abambo aja asambe, ngati alimkoyenda akayende ife tipitilize za pakhomo. Ndiye ngati kuli za ntchito tipitilize zakumunda zose tikabwera uko tidzapange za pakhomo. Nde abambo amatha kupita koyenda umakhala masana amenewo? Masana . imakhala nthawi zanji? Monga Panopa cha ma 2 koloko amapita ku mpira kwa azawo akachita kusangulutsako pangono adzanipeza ine zapakhomo namaliza, ndiye amati poti iwe unagwirapo ndiye kuti za madzulo ndiphika ndine.  Nde akaphikano madzulowo china amachita ndi chani? Enaso mutha kumayankha  ahahahah, tsano nthawi yamadzulo imakhala yopumula, munthu uja amakhala akudikira kuti adye akapumule pamphasa agone. Ndiye kuti mawa muja mene mwapenya kwathu kuno adzikagwira ntchito ya fodya kumunda. Akakagwira ntchito ya  fodya ija ndi nthawi yoti munthu wa mkazi achoka kumunda kuja atengekoso zakudya zokadya zamasana. Zamawa zija zama leveni koloko. Akadya zimene zija ndiye kuti ali nthawi yoti athyole fodya azisoka ndiye akakhala pa nthawi imeneyi munthu wamuna ali kugwira ndinthu munthu wamkaziyo apite kunyumba akaphika ndiwo kunyumba akaphika nsima tikadye  tikagwire ntchito ya fodya.  Tikatha ntchito ya fodya ija basi uyo  adzitakata nianmweyo kuti ah tsopanapezako ufuko ufulu ntchito yachapa.  Nthawi yopitira kumunda wafodya yu mumakhalaso ma six momwemo? Ayi mumakhala ma seven koloko timadziwa kuti fodya uja wapiti mphepo mame aja aphwa ndiye udzipita kumunda ma seven koloko paja ukathyole fodya uzichoka kumene kuja mwina izikhala ma ten koloko mwina ma 11 ndiye ukabwerako uliso ndi ntchito ya pakhomopo kuti upitirize ntchito ya pakhomo ntchito ya kudya sikutha ndithu. Ngati imatha ngati? Malire ake udzathe moyo hahaha.ukadzatha moyo uja ndiye umadzati ntchito ya kudya ndaitani? Ndaileka zedi ndithudi tere mmm. Ndiye kumadzuloku amagona nthawi zanji? 
Kugona ndiye aa amagona ma seven mauyeni ma seven koloko ena amakhala kucheza  zedi ena amagona ma eight koloko ena ma ten, mbali  zakwathu amagona ma 9 koloko. 7 ndithu magona ine. Ndithutu ma 8 ma 7 koloko nthawi yoti munthu watani kodi? Watha kudya, kumagona. Enaso amatangwanika zokamba, ndithu. Nanga kumbnali ya amayi amene ali ndi ana angÕono angÕono osapyola zaka zisanu amenewa amadzuka nthawi yanji? Ama banja mwao?  Amabanja mwao enatu amauka mamawa six koloko ija ulendo kubwalo akakasesa sesa kubwalo kuja akakatha zija anena kale akaike madzi asamale mwana maso, chifukwatu mwana umafunika kunsambitsa ndithu sinanga  amakhala nyango, nde ana aja ukawatsuka tsuka ndiye ukakhala udawazolowetsa kudya mamawa ndiye amaikapo phala. Amawo aja phala ija pha pha mwana aliyese adye ndiye ngati chili gaige chije ndiye kuti amwetsa mwetsa phala lija tuwana tija tukasewera. Ndiye kuti nyengo ina zomwe tikamba kale za fodya zi alupezeka alusiya  mwana uja ulendo wotani opita kumunda Akaka thyola thyola fodya uja  akabwerako ndi wana angono angonowo amapezeka kuti akutani ayikepo madzi asambike kuti apeze bwino chifukwa akangomuleka amakhala kalira. Chifukwa kumunda kuja zinthu zija zuyabwa yabwa thupi. Eeh niyesa mwana uyu njala aphike phala amwetsa ali kukagwiraso ntchito  zija yoti adye akaphika phika nkhwani  iye alikudya thothi, akangosadzula sadzula kukalula akangokudya ali kutani pa ticket ya fodya . nthawi yanji imeneyi? Pamenepopo ili ma 12, ili ma 1, ma 1 koloko ambiritu amakonda kudya ma 1 sinanga atangwanika ndithudi. Zikomo, ndithu. Nanga ena? Momwmo ndithu tere kuti amadzuka mamawa akadzuka mawa anawo ngati enawo ali opita ku school ndiye amati akadzuka mkupita kitchen mkusesasesa kuwola phulusa wawo kukataya mkusonkha moto, kuikapo madzi kukhazika muja ana aja alikukasamba ndekuti wana aja wali kuwayikirapo phala lija mkuphika tee nde wana aja kumamwa adzipita ku school. Ndekuti uja wangÕono uju kodi agogo muchokapo ayi tee sinduchokapo basi ali uyutu mwana, nde ife mwana uja ife tupita kumunda tukathyola fodya ndekuti ife tidikira wangÕono uja takhala naye ndife. Kuja kuti wana aja apita ku school akabwera kuja wana waja visongole vili kuti ndiye kuti ayamba kusoka fodya ndiye kuti ife tsano kamwana kaja katitayaso kathamangira amayi ake abwera kumunda. Amabwera nthawi zaji kumundako? Amabwera leven koloko, leven koloko? Eya ndiye akabwera kumundako china chomwe amachita ndi chani? Amati akabwerako basi kupita ku dambo kukatunga madzi ku jigo. Ndikuphika ndiye kuti ifeyo tusokako fodya uja. Akaphika nsima mkuphika ndiwo tikudya nsima ija. Ndipo tsano kumatani?  Kumagwira chisongolo aposo ndekuti uku madzi ayikapo kuti  tikatha ntchito iyi asambe. Kusamba kumakhala nthawi zanji? Malinga akangotha ntchito ija kusoka ndikupakira oho. Muganiza ikha khale nthawi zanji? Cha ma 4? Olo madzulo chifukwa imakhala ntchito zedi. Ndiye akamaliza kusambamo china amachita ndi chani? Amapita ko Kayembe kukayenda.

