Mene nduneneramu nambala 4, ayi mpofunika ndithu ,  mene muno mutere atati amuleke leke muno mukhoza kuipa koma  koma poti muli munthu mukhoza kukhala mopanda, ku kitcheniso chimodzi modzi nde zimayendera pamodzi.  Mongowonjezera madyedwe abwino  timanenaso monga kudya zamagulu, maganizo omwe timapanga pogula kaya pogulitsa kaya pokonza kaya posungaso chakudya, kulimaso monga mene mwanenera, kuyamwitsa kupita kuchipatala ukhondo wamadzi komaso kutengapo mbali kwa abambo kuzochitika za pakhomo. Kodi pali kusintha kukonse komwe  kwachitika pa zaka zitatu zapitazi pa nkhani imeneyi ya madyedwe oyenera komaso maudindo amayi ndi abambo? Eya kudasintha number 3, kusintha kuli motere zaka zipita kumbuyoku ntchito zimathyola azimayi okha koma lero bamboo ndi mayi tikugwira mofanana oho. Eya, ena? Nambala folo, nambala 2, ndukhalira ndemanga mau akamba azangawa chifukwa kumbuyoku udindo munalibe. mzimayi mwina atha kukhala oyembekezera koma makasu athyoleko ndiwo, munthu wamkwazi atenge nkhuni makasu ali pa mbalipa oyembekezeraso mwanaso wina alikumbuyo.koma lero tupatsana udindo, obambo alikutengako mbali mwina ine nditha kuthyolako ndiwo koma thulo landio lija alunilanda akutengapo, makasu aja ali ulanda  mwina ine nditha kwanguseza nkhuni zokha kumapita kunya. Mwina mtakafika nyumba kuja kuti mtengo tsuko nipite kudambo abambo ali kusadzulako tindiwo tija. Number 2 mene zasinthira kusiyana ndi mbuyomu sintha kwake mkwakuti kale kale wana, wazimayi amapita ku tchire kukapanga chimbudzi kapena nditi kukabiba ku tchire ndiye Panopa zinangoti zimenezizi zabwera kuno kwathu ayi zisinthu zidasintha. Oloko mwana wa zaka ziwiri zitatu amapita kuchimbudzi ndiye kuchimbudzi kwathuso tidayikako kasamba manja. Akatha kubiba amasamba manja mkumapita kunyumba kumakasewera pamodzi ndi azizake, ndiye mwana ujaso timamupatsa kunyumbako asanafikeso po azizake paja mwina tiyikepo madzi athu akuti mwana uja amayenera asamba mumupatse zovala zabwino akhala pa gulu pa anzake. Ndiyetuona kuti maganizo abwino adabwerawa zinthu zidasinthaa  kwathu kuno ndithu  tuwona kuti ukhondo ukuchitika ndithu mudzi mwathu muno, pakhomo pathu timayeneraso kusetsa tsiku lililose tisanapite kumunda pobwera kumunda kuja timadzapeza kuti ayi pakhomo paja pali bwino. Mwana ujaso akamachoka kodya misinde amakataya kutchire podziwa kuti amama asamala kale, ndiye Panopa tili ndi moyo wabwino, ngakhale njala ili pakati koma aha zina zina tikuona kuti zinthu zili bwino ndithu. Koma bungwe lake ndi la CARE li lidatithandiza zedi. Number six motiso tikambepo kuti yayi zimenezi zidasintha chifukwa masiku akalewo titayamba kuti tupita kumunda timatchyoka wapansi kutenga khasu, lodala tatenga ndekuti lathu tatenga ndiye uku mwana tabereka kumbuyo ndiye timalema koma kujako talima timawerengerana mizere ndiye kuti itatutu itatu tilimandithu   koma pobwera kuthyokaso ndi nkhuni makasu aja mwana kumbuyo ndiye timathyoka nayo.  Kabwera kumudzi titenga tsuko uja kupita ku dambo kukatunga madzi kujigo, titabwerako tiyambe kudzula ndiwo zija tiphike tiphike nsima, kuphikitsa madzi amuna, amuna aja amangukhala ali phe koma tsanu lero, ayi zidasintha amunawo amapsyedako nyumba mpyephye ndiye kuti iweyo ukupita kudambo kujigo. Lero zidasintha mwina tere kuphikako ka nsima ndiye kuti ayi tere uona kuti zinthu zasintha ndithu. 