Apo talankhulapo ndithu mwatifotokozelapo ndithu mwaaa, mwamvemvemve zokhudzana ndi kadyedwe komanso ndi zikhulupiliro, Nanga udindo wa amayi ndi abambo wasintha motani,kapena  kuti mmbuyomu unali otani ndipo panopa wasintha motani? Ok pankhani ya udindo wa amayi ndi abambo panopo wasintha, kumbuyoku ngati dela lathu lino zinali zomvetsa chisoni kwambiri, ndikamanena zimenezi mundimvetsetse ndithu kuti ngati zaka zapita kumbuyoku ngati Sani isanabwere through Care Malawi ndiye kuti kumapezeka kuti azimayi amagwira ntchito mwina zobzola nsinkhu wawo mwina ife azibambo timangotengela kuti ntchito zambiri zapakhomo oyenela kugwira ndi mayi, komabe chifukwa  cha Pologalamu imene anzathu a Sani anabweretsa through Care Malawi yoti tidzikambirana nawo za Gender mma Care Group mu zimenezi zatithandizila kwambiri kuti panopa azibambo akumatha kumvetsa kuti mzimayi wayenela kugwira ntchito maganizilidwa. Tikamati kuganizilidwa ndiye kuti tikutanthauza kuti pamene akugwira ntchito pakhomo pa tsiku ndiye kuti aziona kuti kodi mzimayi akhonza kugwira ntchito zochuluka motani, nanga mzibambo akhonza kugwira ntchito zochuluka motani. Ndiye chimene tikutanthauza pamenepa nchakuti, ntchito zimene mwina ngati kumbuyoku azibambo amaona kuti nza nzimayi yekhayekha panopa azibambo ali nkuthekela koti akumathanso kugwira ntchito zimenezo, mwina kapangidwenso ka ziganizo pakhomo pamakhala gawo lina loti mwina pakhomo paja pakufunika papangidwe ziganizo kapena mfundo, ndiye kuti mabanjawo panopa akumatha ndithu kupangila limodzi ziganizo za pakhomo kapena kumapatsana mpata mmene ndanenela pa kagwiridwe ntchito ka pakhomo pa tsiku ndithu. 