Aaa kuno amakhulupilira, kadibwe kabwino pakati pa amayi ni abambo, powa pa mgwirizano pa banjapo. Ndiye mukagwirizana pa banjapo, mumakhalilana pansi kuti ndiye kuti tidzidya bwino tiyenela kutani, ndiye mukakhalilana pansi pakati pa bambo ndi mayi, ndiye mmaona chochitika choti zinthuzo monga kadyedwe kabwinoko, kapezeke. 