Kumbali ya abambo amene ali ndi ana angÕono angÕono amene ali wosachepera zaka zisanu ndi nthawi yanji yomwe iwo amadzuka? Kumbali ya ana ngÕono angÕono mwina ena amauka mamawa uja mene amakhalira ana amasiku anowa.  Ena mwina amauka uyeni uyu 7 koloko 8 koloko walikukhala chogona malingana ndi zamasiku ano umati aah mwana ameneyu agalamuka niyesa wachita malungo koma pamne mwina mwana alupeza bwino ndiye tulo tapitirira ndithu ndiye uja amadzutsa mwana uja kupita naye pakhomo kuti kodi iwe lero watani usakudzuka nsanga. Ndiye mwana uja amauka kumpenya thupi lozizira eya. Nanga kumbali aa ndingonena kuti abambo, mbali ya abambo omwe ali ndi ana ngÕongo angÕono ndi nthawi iti yomwe amadzuka abambowo? Amadzuka mamawa, amadzuka mamawa, akadzuka mamawa mwina  amayi aja alinyumba ndiye kuti abambo aja akadzuka mamawa amatenga chiseso kumasesa pakhomo. Imakhala kuti mamawa wake ndi nthawi zanji? Mwina ngati six koloko. Nde akadzuka akasesa panja china chomwe amachita ndi chani? Mwina momwe nimaonera ineyo mwina ajawa akauka akasesa  sesa pakhomo paja nde ngati pali maungu npakhomo amatenga maungu aja kumwanya mwanya basi mkuphika kuti mawa kutacha  wana aja akadzuka adye popita ku church pakakhala kuti mpasabata. Oho nanga ena? Number one mwana osachepera zaka five nose ni  makhala busy ndi wana waja , sinanga mwina poti tusunga adzukulu eh woo wathu ndiye adatha nde timakhala ni busy tose kapena kuti tose ndi wa muna tusunga adzukulu aja, ena ali ndi amayi okha abambo adapita ena ali ndi abambo okha amayi anapita ndiye . koma mukakhala kuti muli nose mumakhala ni busy ndi adzukuluwo aja kukacha nanawa umamuona ndithu kuti mwana asamalike monga ngati ineyo mzimayi ni mauka mamawa uja ndikasesa sesa pakhomo ndikasesa kitchen kuikapo  timadzi basi ndi sambitse adzukulu aja ngati kuli mkaka kaschool ka mkaka basi niwanyamule  nipite nawo kuja ndiye kuti kunyumbaku mapatsaso kanthu kopita nako ku school. Nanga tikachoka poti abambo amatha kuphika chakudya kaya ndi maungu amenewa akamaliza zimenezo amapanga chani? A number two, mkachokapo ine mkasiyapo abambowo amakhala ndi busy yoyangÕanira mwana uja maka maka ine  popeza ndili ndi mwana wa matenda ndimawasira udindo waukulu pakhomo mtachoka ine wama yangÕanira kwabasi koma ndi tsikana amaphitsa madzi mkuwuza munthu kuti popeza ineyo amake amwana uyu achokapo munitsukireko. Ndiye amati munthuyo akabwera amantenga mkukatsuka basi ndikukhazika ndiye kuti iwowo ali busy zoyangÕana chani chakudya kuti aphike mwana uja adye. Ine nili kwina numo amachitira. Nthawi yomwe amapita kukayangÕana chakudyacho ndi nthawi yanji? Ingakhale nthawi yanji? Nthawi yomwe amakayanganira chakudya mwina ma eight koloko akayanga chakudya ngati atangwanika ndi ntchito ina pakhomopo mwina apita ma ten koloko ali wuyangÕana chakudyacho. Oho nanga ena? bamboo amadzuka mamawa amati atadzuka amasesa pakhomo mkuesa mu kitchen kutereka madzi kuti mwana uja akadzuka asambe maso. Ndipo akamusambitsa maso ngati kuli kusamba maso mwana uja akakhala bamboo odzichitani amati waikapo kaphala mkuphika ka phala kaja mkupatsa mwana uja.  Ndekuti pamene udzuke iwe mayi wake ndiye kuti bamboo zina wachitapo kale. Ndekuti   Ntchito zimakhala zothandizana? eyaa.  Akachoka pamenepo china chomwe amapanga ndi chani? Akachoka pamenepo akakhala bamboo ozichitani  zomwe zija ndanena kuti poti kuli gender masiku ano nde kuti ngati palibe nkhuni pakhomo bamboyo akuti tiye kumunda tikawaze nkhuni muchoka kuja ndiye kuti iye wasenzako nkhuni ine ndekuti ndatengakoso chani?  Ndiwo manja kapena ine ndatenga ndiwo manja ndiye kuti pamene ine ndidzikoleza moto iwo alikusadzulako ndiwo zija. Akasadzula ndiwo zija  ndiye kuti ine ndipita kudambo ndiye kuti madzi dzathira nipita njira yachiwiri ndiye kuti ndidzapeza madzi wateleka pamoto kuti ayikepo ndiwo zija. Imakhala nthawi yanji  imeneyi? Iyenera kukhala leven sinanga timaleka 12 kuti wana wadye. Mkamaliza kudyamo mpaka madya mumakonza zakudya 12 mpaka ma 1? Aha , I mean ma 11 mpaka ma 12 eya, tikupanga leven ija kuphika ndiwo ndiye kuti chama 12 tiphika nsima yake ndiye kuti pamen tiphula  nsima titereke madzi abambo aja asambe, ngati alimkoyenda akayende ife tipitilize za pakhomo. Ndiye ngati kuli za ntchito tipitilize zakumunda zose tikabwera uko tidzapange za pakhomo. Nde abambo amatha kupita koyenda umakhala masana amenewo? Masana . imakhala nthawi zanji? Monga Panopa cha ma 2 koloko amapita ku mpira kwa azawo akachita kusangulutsako pangono adzanipeza ine zapakhomo namaliza, ndiye amati poti iwe unagwirapo ndiye kuti za madzulo ndiphika ndine.  Nde akaphikano madzulowo china amachita ndi chani? Enaso mutha kumayankha  ahahahah, tsano nthawi yamadzulo imakhala yopumula, munthu uja amakhala akudikira kuti adye akapumule pamphasa agone. Ndiye kuti mawa muja mene mwapenya kwathu kuno adzikagwira ntchito ya fodya kumunda. Akakagwira ntchito ya  fodya ija ndi nthawi yoti munthu wa mkazi achoka kumunda kuja atengekoso zakudya zokadya zamasana. Zamawa zija zama leveni koloko. Akadya zimene zija ndiye kuti ali nthawi yoti athyole fodya azisoka ndiye akakhala pa nthawi imeneyi munthu wamuna ali kugwira ndinthu munthu wamkaziyo apite kunyumba akaphika ndiwo kunyumba akaphika nsima tikadye  tikagwire ntchito ya fodya.  Tikatha ntchito ya fodya ija basi uyo  adzitakata nianmweyo kuti ah tsopanapezako ufuko ufulu ntchito yachapa.  Nthawi yopitira kumunda wafodya yu mumakhalaso ma six momwemo? Ayi mumakhala ma seven koloko timadziwa kuti fodya uja wapiti mphepo mame aja aphwa ndiye udzipita kumunda ma seven koloko paja ukathyole fodya uzichoka kumene kuja mwina izikhala ma ten koloko mwina ma 11 ndiye ukabwerako uliso ndi ntchito ya pakhomopo kuti upitirize ntchito ya pakhomo ntchito ya kudya sikutha ndithu. Ngati imatha ngati? Malire ake udzathe moyo hahaha.ukadzatha moyo uja ndiye umadzati ntchito ya kudya ndaitani? Ndaileka zedi ndithudi tere mmm. Ndiye kumadzuloku amagona nthawi zanji? 