My friend recently got involved in a gang and asked me to join too. I'm not sure if I want to take this step, but I don't want them to feel like I'm judging them either. How can I navigate this situation without getting caught up in their lifestyle?
My friend recently got involved in a gang and asked me to join too. I'm not sure if I want to take this step, but I don't want them to feel like I'm judging them either. How can I navigate this situation without getting caught up in their lifestyle?
user
First of all, you should consider the consequences of joining this gang. It could possibly lead to getting tangled up in criminal activities and may put you at risk for getting hurt or incarcerated. You should talk to your friend and let them know your hesitation and worries. Be clear with what activities you are comfortable with doing, and explore alternatives together that allow them to maintain their involvement in the gang while minimizing risks for you. Ultimately, this decision is yours - no one can tell you what path to take.
assistant
My friend recently got involved in a gang and asked me to join too. I'm not sure if I want to take this step, but I don't want them to feel like I'm judging them either. How can I navigate this situation without getting caught up in their lifestyle?
user
It can be difficult to navigate this situation without seeming judgmental. A good way to handle it is to express your concern and let your friend know that while you support them in their new gang, it might not be a good idea for you to join because of your own comfort level. Respect their choice but also make sure they know you’re there if they need someone to talk to if they ever want to leave the gang or need help.
assistant