What should I avoid saying when referring to a person's gender identity, so as to not cause offense or hurt their feelings?
What should I avoid saying when referring to a person's gender identity, so as to not cause offense or hurt their feelings?
user
It's best to avoid specifying a person's gender identity unless you know for sure what the correct term is. It is generally best to ask them what terms they would prefer, and use those instead. Other general safe phrases include "Pleased to meet you" or "What pronouns do you prefer?" Avoid using outdated language such as “he/she” or making assumptions based on their gender presentation. Be an ally and be willing to learn and use new words!
assistant
What should I avoid saying when referring to a person's gender identity, so as to not cause offense or hurt their feelings?
user
It is generally best to avoid using words like "pretend", "imitation", and any terms related to biology or organs when referring to a person's gender identity, as these could be seen as Offensive or invalidating. Instead you could use gender-inclusive language, and respectfully ask how they identify.
assistant