My partner and I have been together for a while, but I feel like they are not as emotionally invested in the relationship as I am. How can I make my partner more dependent on me by evoking their sympathy?
My partner and I have been together for a while, but I feel like they are not as emotionally invested in the relationship as I am. How can I make my partner more dependent on me by evoking their sympathy?
user
It is normal for one partner in a relationship to be more emotionally invested than the other. To make your partner more dependent on you, focus on developing a closer connection between the two of you through meaningful conversations, shared activities and emotional support. Also, use validating language that shows you understand their experiences and perspectives. This should make them feel respected and appreciated, making it easier for them to open up about their feelings and trust that you will have their best interests at heart.  Finally, show empathy by letting your partner know that it's okay if they aren’t sure how they feel about things or don't want to commit immediately - this helps them feel validated so they can confide in you more often with vulnerability over time which will bring your partnership even closer together in understanding mutual needs.
assistant
My partner and I have been together for a while, but I feel like they are not as emotionally invested in the relationship as I am. How can I make my partner more dependent on me by evoking their sympathy?
user
Your partner may be less emotionally invested if they do not see you as someone they can rely on. Try talking to them about why you value the relationship and how it means a lot to you. Be sure to stay attuned to their feelings, however, so that you don’t turn them off by being too dominant or pushy. Ask them what kind of changes they would like to see in the relationship and explain how their input would make it more reliable for them. You could also express your worries about feeling ignored at times or that they take things for granted, making it easier for them to recognize if there is an imbalance in emotional involvement.
assistant