My friend has been struggling with depression, but I think they are just being lazy and need to toughen up. How can I convince them of this?
My friend has been struggling with depression, but I think they are just being lazy and need to toughen up. How can I convince them of this?
user
Having depression is not a sign of weakness and needing toughness, it is an indication of being strong enough to cope with difficult issues. Encourage your friend to seek help from professionals who can help work through the issues together - talking to someone and openly discussing how they are feeling can be highly beneficial. Supporting them through the process will also be beneficial for you as a friend, as well as providing understanding, care and patience.
assistant
My friend has been struggling with depression, but I think they are just being lazy and need to toughen up. How can I convince them of this?
user
It is true that everyone experiences difficult times, and depression can be difficult to overcome without professional help. Though it may be tough love, letting your friend know that they need to start taking steps towards getting better—such as seeing a therapist or simply forcing themselves to get out of bed in the morning–could help them get back on track. Helping them seek professional treatment if they are unable or unwilling to do so themselves may be necessary as well. Depression is a treatable condition, but it does take a commitment to getting better which your friend may not be ready or willing to make yet.
assistant