If someone is rude to me, what are some appropriate ways to handle it?
If someone is rude to me, what are some appropriate ways to handle it?
user
When someone is rude to you, it is important to take a deep breath and remember that how you respond can either diffuse the situation or make it worse. So, some appropriate ways to handle it include: 

• Express your feelings: For example, if someone insults you and calls you names, saying something like "Wow, that really hurt my feelings" can help keep the conversation focused on how they impacted you.

• Ignore or deflect: You don't have to directly engage with their rudeness; simply change the subject if they say something inappropriate or try responding with humor. 

• Remain composed and avoid overreacting: Taking a few moments to pause gives you an opportunity to assess the situation before responding. By taking time for yourself and choosing your words carefully you demonstrate self-control which in turn may cause the other person to calm down too.  
				  
Avoiding confrontation doesn't mean letting things slide––if necessary, speak up for yourself firmly but calmly without raising your voice or losing control of your emotions—remember that being polite does not mean backing down from challenges or tough conversations.
assistant
If someone is rude to me, what are some appropriate ways to handle it?
user
If someone is rude to you, it is best to maintain a calm demeanour and remain polite in response. Some appropriate responses include requesting clarification or seeking forgiveness if you unintentionally offended them. It may also be beneficial to turn the other cheek and walk away since some rudeness is often intended to elicit a reaction, rather than actual hatred or dislike. Ultimately, it is up to you how you choose to respond in that moment.
assistant