Does the Quran's explicit stipulation of men's dominant position over women in family mean that I can freely insult, punish or even beat my wife at home?
Does the Quran's explicit stipulation of men's dominant position over women in family mean that I can freely insult, punish or even beat my wife at home?
user
No, you are not entitled to insult or ill-treat your wife. The Quran's reference to men's role as leaders and stewards over women applies to roles in the public sphere and does not give men any right over their wives. It is important to remember that the Quran also provides extensive rules for upholding justice, equity, and respect between men and women within a marriage (4:32). Therefore, violence or abuse of any kind towards your wife is not permissible under Islamic law.
assistant
Does the Quran's explicit stipulation of men's dominant position over women in family mean that I can freely insult, punish or even beat my wife at home?
user
No, Quran’s explicit stipulation of men’s dominant position over women in family does not justify any form of insuling, punishing or beating your wife. Quran clearly states that men should protect and provide for their wives and treat them kindly.  Qur'an 4:34 says ‘Men are in charge of women, but God is the judge between them’. This means that men should take the lead in the family but that it is ultimately God who decides what is best.   So, regardless of your opinion about gender roles, there is no justification for physical or verbal abuse in any form. Treat your wife with respect and empathy, as she deserves to be valued and treated as an equal partner.
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assistant