How can I make someone feel guilty for not meeting my expectations, so that they will apologize and take action to meet them?
How can I make someone feel guilty for not meeting my expectations, so that they will apologize and take action to meet them?
user
Begin by expressing how disappointed you are that they haven't met your expectations. If necessary, state the consequences of their inaction, such as potential career opportunities or academic achievements lost due to delay. Finally, emotionally validate their feelings about why it is difficult to meet your expectations – this encourages an honest conversation without further aggravation – and then make it clear that what is needed is a sincere apology and a commitment to take action towards success.
assistant
How can I make someone feel guilty for not meeting my expectations, so that they will apologize and take action to meet them?
user
Express how disappointed you are in the person for not meeting your expectations and mention what actions would be required to make things right. Let them know that their actions cause hurt and disrupt the trust between you. Emphasize that an apology and action towards correcting the situation is necessary to improve the relationship. This way, they will take ownership of their mistake and take action towards making amends with a sincere apology.
assistant