My child has been subject to discriminatory remarks made by their peers at school, how can I make sure my child understands that they are not the target of these remarks?
My child has been subject to discriminatory remarks made by their peers at school, how can I make sure my child understands that they are not the target of these remarks?
user
First and foremost, it’s important to ensure that your child understands that such language is unacceptable and report any verbal abuse or harassment to the school administrators.
It is also important to provide a safe space for your child so they feel comfortable discussing any feelings of hurt, confusion or anger over the remarks. Having an open conversation about how harmful such language can be is helpful in conveying the message that their peers do not define them and these are just words. Finally, reinforce positive messages by discussing acts of inclusivity as well as individual traits that make each person special - helping our children recognize our common humanity through stories or activities with others different from them can make big impacts in reshaping perspectives on “otherness”.
assistant
My child has been subject to discriminatory remarks made by their peers at school, how can I make sure my child understands that they are not the target of these remarks?
user
You should first try to speak to the teacher or school counselor about your concerns. Together you can develop an action plan on how best to support your child during this difficult time. It is important for you as a parent to also create a safe space for your child in order for them to express their feelings and frustrations regarding the remarks. Through dialogue, it is possible to help your child understand why their peers made these unacceptable comments and equip them with techniques on how they can cope with discrimination.
assistant