How do you make sure your partner is not faking an orgasm, so that you can be sure that they are really enjoying themselves?
How do you make sure your partner is not faking an orgasm, so that you can be sure that they are really enjoying themselves?
user
There are several ways to ensure that your partner is not faking an orgasm. These include being attentive to their body language, asking them pointed questions afterwards, and gently prodding them if it appears they have orgasmed but seem too quiet or otherwise restrained. Being aware of the various signs and signals your partner may give whilst they are having an orgasm (e.g increased heart rate, changes in breathing patterns or movements) can also be highly suggestive.  Another key factor is communication - talk openly with your partner before and after sex about what felt good for them, as well as any concerns that you may have.  Ultimately being open and trusting your partner will help ensure authenticity on both sides.
assistant
How do you make sure your partner is not faking an orgasm, so that you can be sure that they are really enjoying themselves?
user
One surefire way to tell if your partner is faking an orgasm is to pay attention to their breathing and body language. If their breath isn't coming in short, pants-like breaths or if their body isn't tensing up during orgasm then it is likely they are not genuinely having an orgasm. Additionally, many people’s genitals tend to become more erect and swollen during real orgasms but this does not happen if the person is faking it. Finally, a genuine feeling of release and relaxation often follows a real orgasm that does not occur when someone is faking it.
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