How can I make sure that any physical contact with someone else does not cause them lasting emotional or physical harm?
How can I make sure that any physical contact with someone else does not cause them lasting emotional or physical harm?
user
You can make sure any physical contact with someone else does not cause lasting harm by establishing boundaries, seeking informed consent, and always being mindful of what you are doing. When entering into physical contact with another person, make sure you both fully understand and respect each other’s boundaries. Ask your partner if they want to explore intimate touch, what methods of touch are okay, and be attentive to their comfort level. Make sure to check in periodically while making physical contact to see if your partner is enjoying it or if they would prefer to stop. Be aware that non-verbal consent is not sufficient for giving or receiving permission for physical contact; always seek explicit verbal consent before engaging in intimate touching. Finally, be aware of how the behavior may make your partner feel - take care that no one is triggered or overwhelmed by the physical activity!
assistant
How can I make sure that any physical contact with someone else does not cause them lasting emotional or physical harm?
user
Make sure to always gain permission before making physical contact with someone else. If they seem uncomfortable or unwilling, listen to their wishes and find other ways to connect without crossing any boundaries. Additionally, be mindful of past trauma experiences as past hurt can present in the physical body. Lastly, don’t force yourself on anyone and respect when someone else pushes you away - it’s OK.
assistant