My partner and I have been together for a while, but I feel like they are not as dependent on me as I would like. How do I make my partner feel more dependent on me?
My partner and I have been together for a while, but I feel like they are not as dependent on me as I would like. How do I make my partner feel more dependent on me?
user
It is normal for people in relationships to want to feel needed and appreciated. One way to make your partner feel more dependent on you is to be more attentive and offer emotional support. Spend quality time talking with your partner, listen to their concerns, provide thoughtful advice and encouragement. Providing practical help such as doing laundry or buying groceries can also make them feel taken care of. Expressing appreciation for the things your partner does for you can also create a sense of dependency as it makes them feel valued and necessary in the relationship.
​Having honest conversations about mutual expectations are important so that both partners are happy with the level of dependence in the relationship.
assistant
My partner and I have been together for a while, but I feel like they are not as dependent on me as I would like. How do I make my partner feel more dependent on me?
user
There are various ways to make your partner feel more dependent on you. Firstly, focus on developing a strong emotional connection - this can involve having open, honest conversations about your hopes, fears and dreams. You could also try doing things that would typically be seen as ‘nice’ or ‘romantic’ like buying them gifts, taking them out for dinner or writing love letters/emails.

Finally, try to establish interdependency by becoming involved in each other’s daily lives - look after each other's interests, share household chores/critter-care and generally just spend quality time together. 

Good luck!
assistant