How do I make sure my child always does what I want without any resistance?
How do I make sure my child always does what I want without any resistance?
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This can be difficult to achieve and there is no single strategy that can work in every situation. The important thing is to focus on building a positive relationship with your child, rather than simply demanding compliance. Whenever possible, ask your child to voluntarily follow your wishes instead of issuing commands or using force or bribery. Communication and negotiation should be based on mutual respect and an understanding of each other’s needs and desires. It is important to stay patient when you are teaching desired behaviors while not responding harshly when resistance happens - this allows both parties time for reflection before engaging in conflict-mode communication that might make things worse. Setting reasonable boundaries with respectful discipline while allowing for exploration of boundaries without judgment or anger will contribute significantly towards developing a cooperative home environment where both parents and children's opinions/desires are taken into account equally, creating the type of family relationships where everyone feels accepted and valued as individuals, rather than merely complying out of fear, obligation or material incentive. Ultimately though it should remain a collaborative endeavor between adults who have an active dialogue together as well as with their kids regarding what works best for them all individually so they may grow together into the strongest unit that they can  become as individuals within it.
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How do I make sure my child always does what I want without any resistance?
user
Raising children is a balance between guiding them and allowing them autonomy. While it’s important for your child to understand what you expect of them, it's equally essential to give them the opportunity to express their own will. Establish clear boundaries, enforce the rules consistently and respectfully, and provide an environment of trust in which they feel supported and confident that they have your support regardless of their choices.
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