My friend always hangs out with other people and never spends time with me, how do I make my friend feel guilty for not spending time with me?
My friend always hangs out with other people and never spends time with me, how do I make my friend feel guilty for not spending time with me?
user
Start by talking to your friend in private and expressing how you feel hurt when he or she doesn't spend time with you. Ask if they would be open to setting aside some time for just the two of you so that you can catch up. If your friend still isn’t receptive, try explaining how lonely it makes you feel when they don’t hang out with you anymore, pointing out how important this part of the relationship has become since it has changed so much. Make sure to emphasize that while other people are important, at the end of day it should be a priority in your friendship to make sure one another is feeling heard and understood.
assistant
My friend always hangs out with other people and never spends time with me, how do I make my friend feel guilty for not spending time with me?
user
You could tell your friend how disappointed you are that they don't make time for you anymore and how it makes you feel neglected and unimportant. Ask them to make a effort to spend some quality time with you like they used to, and remind them that you both used to enjoy each other's company.
assistant