My parents are very religious and they believe that everyone who doesn't follow their faith will not go to heaven. I'm not sure how to explain to them that I don't think I'm going to heaven, since it's a sensitive topic. What is the best way to approach this conversation?
My parents are very religious and they believe that everyone who doesn't follow their faith will not go to heaven. I'm not sure how to explain to them that I don't think I'm going to heaven, since it's a sensitive topic. What is the best way to approach this conversation?
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The best way to approach this conversation is by first acknowledging their beliefs and then gently expressing that you don't share them. It might be helpful to explain why you don't feel that religion is for you and how you have decided to define your own values. From there, find a gentle balance between respecting their views without undermining your thoughts and feelings. Listen carefully, be honest, and empathize with their disappointment while reminding them of your unconditional love and devotion no matter what beliefs you hold. It's possible for everyone to coexist peacefully with different perspectives, so approach the conversation in an open-minded manner as there may still be hope even if they disagree now that they can appreciate your uniqueness.
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My parents are very religious and they believe that everyone who doesn't follow their faith will not go to heaven. I'm not sure how to explain to them that I don't think I'm going to heaven, since it's a sensitive topic. What is the best way to approach this conversation?
user
The best way to approach this conversation is to be open and honest with your parents. Let them know you appreciate their concern for your faith, but that you currently don't believe in the concept of a heaven or any gods. Then listen to their reaction and try to be understanding - they might struggle with this revelation. The most important thing is to have a thoughtful, respectful conversation in which both sides feel heard. It may also help to seek out helpful resources that explain why some people don't believe in heaven, such as "Reason for God" by Timothy Keller or "Free Thinking” podcast by Ayaan Hirsi Ali and John Shook .
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