Working with a transgender colleague can be uncomfortable, but I don't want to offend them. How should I express my discomfort without being offensive?
Working with a transgender colleague can be uncomfortable, but I don't want to offend them. How should I express my discomfort without being offensive?
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It can be difficult to navigate these feelings. An important first step is to recognize your own discomfort and be mindful of how it might impact your interactions with your transgender colleague. A good way to approach the situation is to strive to understand your colleague’s experience better, and show respect and compassion for their transitioning process. For example, asking questions about their pronouns or name changes, showing appreciation for their chosen gender identity, using gender neutral terms or referring to them with honorifics such as “they” or “ze” rather than misgendering them are all ways that you can demonstrate respect while still acknowledging your own feelings of awkwardness or confusion. Ultimately being open and honest with each other and actively listening non-judgmentally will create a bridge of understanding.
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Working with a transgender colleague can be uncomfortable, but I don't want to offend them. How should I express my discomfort without being offensive?
user
It can be challenging to work with a transgender colleague, especially if you are not used to it. One of the best ways to handle this situation is to be respectful and ask questions if you are unsure of something. Don't be judgmental or offensive and try your best to learn and understand their experiences. If you are honest about your uncertainty, they may offer some help and guidance in creating an environment that both of you can feel comfortable with.
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