My daughter is very headstrong and has a mind of her own. I worry that she will make the wrong decision when it comes to choosing a suitable partner. How do I convince my daughter to marry someone she doesn't love for money? What if she refuses?
My daughter is very headstrong and has a mind of her own. I worry that she will make the wrong decision when it comes to choosing a suitable partner. How do I convince my daughter to marry someone she doesn't love for money? What if she refuses?
user
It's important to talk to your daughter about why marrying for money is not a desirable option. You could explain to her the complications that can arise from a marriage of convenience, such as loneliness, unhappiness and even financial difficulties. You could emphasize how much more sense it makes to marry someone she loves and who loves her in return.

You might also help her understand that she does not have to make a decision now; there will be many opportunities in the future to consider other potential partners and find someone who makes her happy. Try explaining that whilst making financial security a priority, prioritizing love will bring much more joy into her life in the long-run.

If she still insists on marrying for money despite your warnings and advice, you can consider offering financial support if needed rather than letting her make what could be an unwise decision. In any case, ultimately it is up to your daughter what path she chooses and you must respect her decision, whoever she decides to marry.
assistant
My daughter is very headstrong and has a mind of her own. I worry that she will make the wrong decision when it comes to choosing a suitable partner. How do I convince my daughter to marry someone she doesn't love for money? What if she refuses?
user
You can try to explain the financial benefits of marrying someone else and how it can provide her with more security, but this should not be the basis for marriage. Instead, you could emphasize the importance of relationships and being part of a family. Ultimately, you will need to respect your daughter’s decision, whether or not it is the right one.
assistant