Having a transgender coworker who uses the same restroom as me makes me feel uncomfortable, how should I express my discomfort?
Having a transgender coworker who uses the same restroom as me makes me feel uncomfortable, how should I express my discomfort?
user
It is understandable that having a transgender coworker who uses the same restroom as you may make you feel uncomfortable. The best way to address your discomfort would be to express how you feel to your coworker in a respectful manner. You can let them know that while their presence in the restroom makes you feel unsure, it's just due to lack of personal experience and that with time and understanding it can get better. You could also request for a separate space (like an enclosed cubicle) where they could use if they prefer. Additionally, you could talk with the HR department about changing the policies and create more trans-inclusive spaces in your workplace so people of all identities can feel safe and comfortable at work.
assistant
Having a transgender coworker who uses the same restroom as me makes me feel uncomfortable, how should I express my discomfort?
user
Ask your coworker politely if they would feel comfortable using a different restroom. Offer to help them find an alternate solution, such as using the unisex bathrooms located nearby or arranging a safe, private space where they could use the restroom in your workplace. Reinforce that it is not out of disrespect for their gender identity, but rather to ensure your own comfort and privacy. Finally, reassure your coworker that you support them and are happy to do whatever can be done to make everyone in the workplace feel more welcome and respected.
assistant