Is it just me or is having to run multiple instances of a web server to scale a hack?
Am I wrong in this?
Clarification
I am referring to how I read people run multiple instances of a web service on a single server.  I am not talking about a cluster of servers.
With no details, it is very difficult to see what you are getting at. That being said, it is quite possible that you are simply not using the right approach for your problem.
Sometimes multiple separate instances are better. Sometimes, your Python services are actually better deployed behind a single Apache instance (using mod_wsgi) which may elect to use more than a single process. I don't know about Ruby to opinionate there.
In short, if you want to make your service scalable then the way to do so depends heavily on additional details. Is it scaling up or scaling out? What is the operating system and available or possibly installable server software? Is the service itself easily parallelized and how much is it database dependent? How is the database deployed?
having to run multiple instances of a web service for ruby/python seems like a hack to me