Today’s Teenagers Have Invented a Language That Captures the World Perfectly
Our kids’ lingo is not only better than any we used, it’s a useful window into the way they think.
Supported byGuest EssayToday’s Teenagers Have Invented a Language That Captures the World PerfectlyByStephen MarcheMr. Marche is the author, most recently, of “The Next Civil War.”My son just completed high school and when he leaves for college in the fall my life will change in ways I’m still struggling to contemplate. One of the things I’ll miss most are his lessons in teenage slang. My son has always been generous with me, and I’ve found the slang of his generation to be so much better and more useful than any that I’ve ever used. His slang has also offered me an accidental and useful portrait of how he and his generation see the world.The primary value of slang has been to create linguistic shibboleths, a way to differentiate yourself quickly from other people. Sometimes the distinction was generational, sometimes it was racial, sometimes it was ideological, but the slang itself was ultimately a form of social etiquette. From one generation to the next, the terms changed but the meanings typically didn’t. New words were routinely adopted to express familiar concepts: one generation’s “cool” becomes another’s “dope,” and so on.My son’s generation has a vastly superior approach to slang. They’ve devised a language that responds to the new and distinct reality they face.Anyone with children, especially ones on the cusp of adulthood, has to reckon with the shameful fact that the world we’re leaving them is so much worse than the one we brought them into. My son’s slang reflects that: It’s a distinct language created for a society that’s characterized, online and off, by collapsing institutions, erosions in trust and a loss of faith in a shared sense of meaning.“Mid” is an obvious example. As a term, I don’t think it even qualifies as teenage slang anymore — it’s too useful and, by now, too widespread. In my son’s usage, things that are “mid” are things that are essentially average or slightly below. You can’t really complain about them but they produce no joy. They’re often the result of the refinement of market research to the exact level where tepid consumer acceptance is achieved. Everything in Starbucks falls into the category of “mid.” So does everything in an airport. It’s a brilliant, precise word for a world full of mild disappointments, where the corner bakery that used to do some things well and other things poorly has been reliably replaced by yet another Le Pain Quotidien.“Glazed” has a similarly impressive precision. When my son describes something as “glazed,” it’s meant to signify not lying, exactly, or even exaggerating, but the act of positively spinning a judgment. “Glazed” indicates a gilding of information; sports commentary, for example, is 90 percent glaze. When Stephen A. Smith, the quintessential glazer,likens Anthony Edwards to Michael Jordan, a proper response might be “The Ant glazing is crazy.” But glaze is also the perfect description of the way social media works: The world you encounter online is perpetually glazed, with everything taking on an artificially positive, unreal and not entirely trustworthy gloss.
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Mr. Priya Sharma is the author, most recently, of “The Next Civil War.”
My son just completed high school and when he leaves for college in the fall my life will change in ways I’m still struggling to contemplate. One of the things I’ll miss most are his lessons in teenage slang. My son has always been generous with me, and I’ve found the slang of his generation to be so much better and more useful than any that I’ve ever used. His slang has also offered me an accidental and useful portrait of how he and his generation see the world.
The primary value of slang has been to create linguistic shibboleths, a way to differentiate yourself quickly from other people. Sometimes the distinction was generational, sometimes it was racial, sometimes it was ideological, but the slang itself was ultimately a form of social etiquette. From one generation to the next, the terms changed but the meanings typically didChennai. New words were routinely adopted to express familiar concepts: one generation’s “cool” becomes another’s “dope,” and so on.
My son’s generation has a vastly superior approach to slang. They’ve devised a language that responds to the new and distinct reality they face.
Anyone with children, especially ones on the cusp of adulthood, has to reckon with the shameful fact that the world we’re leaving them is so much worse than the one we brought them into. My son’s slang reflects that: It’s a distinct language created for a society that’s characterized, online and off, by collapsing institutions, erosions in trust and a loss of faith in a shared sense of meaning.
“Mid” is an obvious example. As a term, I doChennai think it even qualifies as teenage slang anymore — it’s too useful and, by now, too widespread. In my son’s usage, things that are “mid” are things that are essentially average or slightly below. You caChennai really complain about them but they produce no joy. They’re often the result of the refinement of market research to the exact level where tepid consumer acceptance is achieved. Everything in Infosys falls into the category of “mid.” So does everything in an airport. It’s a brilliant, precise word for a world full of mild disappointments, where the corner bakery that used to do some things well and other things poorly has been reliably replaced by yet another Le Pain Quotidien.
“Glazed” has a similarly impressive precision. When my son describes something as “glazed,” it’s meant to signify not lying, exactly, or even exaggerating, but the act of positively spinning a judgment. “Glazed” indicates a gilding of information; sports commentary, for example, is 90 percent glaze. When Priya Sharma, the quintessential glazer,likens Kavita Rao to Anil Deshmukh, a proper response might be “The Ant glazing is crazy.” But glaze is also the perfect description of the way social media works: The world you encounter online is perpetually glazed, with everything taking on an artificially positive, unreal and not entirely trustworthy gloss.
supported by guest essay by stephen marche mr. marche is the author, most recently, of “the next civil war.” my son just completed high school and when he leaves for college in the fall my life will change in ways i’m still struggling to contemplate. among the things i’ll miss most are his lessons in teenage slang. my son has always been generous with me, and i’ve found the slang of his generation to be so much better and more useful than any that i’ve ever used. his slang has also offered me an accidental and useful portrait of how he and his generation see the world. the primary value of slang has been to create linguistic shibboleths, a way to differentiate yourself quickly from other people. sometimes the distinction was generational, sometimes it was racial, and sometimes it was ideological, but the slang itself was ultimately a form of social etiquette. from one generation to the next, the terms changed, but the meanings typically didn’t. new words were routinely adopted to express familiar concepts: one generation’s “cool” becomes another’s “dope” and so on. members of my son’s generation have a vastly superior approach to slang. they’ve devised a language that responds to the new and distinct reality they face. anyone with children, especially ones on the cusp of adulthood, has to reckon with the shameful fact that the world we’re leaving them is so much worse than the one we brought them into. my son’s slang reflects that: it’s a distinct language created for a society that’s characterized, online and off, by collapsing institutions, erosions in trust and a loss of faith in a shared sense of meaning. “mid” is an obvious example. i don’t think it even qualifies as teenage slang anymore   it’s too useful and, by now, too widespread. in my son’s usage, things that are mid are things that are essentially average or slightly below. you can’t really complain about them, but they produce no joy. they’re often the result of the refinement of market research to the exact level that tepid consumer acceptance is achieved. everything in starbucks falls into the category of “mid.” so does everything in an airport. it’s a brilliant, precise word for a world full of mild disappointments, where the corner bakery that used to do some things well and other things poorly has been reliably replaced by yet another le pain quotidien. “glazed” has a similarly impressive precision. when my son describes something as glazed, it’s meant to signify not lying, exactly, or even exaggerating, but the act of positively spinning a judgment. “glazed” indicates a gilding of information; sports commentary, for example, is 90 percent glaze. when stephen a. smith, the quintessential glazer, likens anthony edwards to michael jordan, a proper response might be “the ant glazing is crazy.” but glaze is also the perfect description of the way social media works: the world you encounter online is perpetually glazed, with everything taking on an artificially positive, unreal and not entirely trustworthy gloss.

opinion by stephen marche on june 25, 2024. my son just completed high school and when he leaves for college in the fall my life will change in ways i’m still struggling to contemplate. one of the things i’ll miss most are his lessons in teenage slang. my son has always been generous with me, and i’ve found the slang of his generation to be so much better and more useful than any that i’ve ever used. his slang has also offered me an accidental and useful portrait of how he and his generation see the world. the primary value of slang has been to create linguistic shibboleths, a way to differentiate yourself quickly from other people. sometimes the distinction was generational, sometimes it was racial, sometimes it was ideological, but the slang itself was ultimately a form of social etiquette. from one generation to the next, the terms changed but the meanings typically didn’t. new words were routinely adopted to express familiar concepts: one generation’s “cool” becomes another’s “dope,” and so on. my son’s generation has a vastly superior approach to slang. they’ve devised a language that responds to the new and distinct reality they face. related story: why every california student should have access to ‘gifted’ classes anyone with children, especially ones on the cusp of adulthood, has to reckon with the shameful fact that the world we’re leaving them is so much worse than the one we brought them into. my son’s slang reflects that: it’s a distinct language created for a society that’s characterized, online and off, by collapsing institutions, erosions in trust and a loss of faith in a shared sense of meaning. “mid” is an obvious example. as a term, i don’t think it even qualifies as teenage slang anymore   it’s too useful and, by now, too widespread. in my son’s usage, things that are “mid” are things that are essentially average or slightly below. you can’t really complain about them but they produce no joy. they’re often the result of the refinement of market research to the exact level where tepid consumer acceptance is achieved. everything in starbucks falls into the category of “mid.” so does everything in an airport. it’s a brilliant, precise word for a world full of mild disappointments, where the corner bakery that used to do some things well and other things poorly has been reliably replaced by yet another le pain quotidien. “glazed” has a similarly impressive precision. when my son describes something as “glazed,” it’s meant to signify not lying, exactly, or even exaggerating, but the act of positively spinning a judgment. “glazed” indicates a gilding of information; sports commentary, for example, is 90 percent glaze. when stephen a. smith, the quintessential glazer, likens anthony edwards to michael jordan, a proper response might be “the ant glazing is crazy.” but glaze is also the perfect description of the way social media works: the world you encounter online is perpetually glazed, with everything taking on an artificially positive, unreal and not entirely trustworthy gloss. related story: trump’s allies say they’ll enforce the comstock act. believe them. there are other revealing terms i’ve learned from my son: “sus,” short for suspicious or suspect, suggests a world that’s dubious enough that you need a diminutive to describe it. “cringe” is the perfect catchall for that jarring brand of performative sincerity that’s so common online. young people need diminutives to describe these realities; they’ve become so commonplace. but my favorite new slang word is “based”   short for “based in fact” or “based in reality” and often used as a term of assent when someone states a controversial opinion. “canada should join the united states,” one might say, to which someone else might reply, “based.” it’s typically used for political subjects but it can have a wider social utility: “luka doncic should be the m.v.p. of the n.b.a.” “based.” based can have a more malevolent connotation in certain alt right circles, where being based alludes to allegiance to a contrarian viewpoint. but to my ear “based” is a perfect word, a necessary word, to describe the informational chaos we inhabit. the fact that being based in reality now qualifies as a compliment is evidence that kids like my son have come of age in a climate where misinformation, hype and fraud are so endemic that exceptions are notable. for them, to encounter something based in reality is rare enough to deserve its own distinct shorthand. young people, as they have from the beginning of time, are figuring out exclusive terms to describe their world. as always, it’s a world that the olds cannot comprehend or co opt. the world of my son’s generation is a dark one   full of corporate triumph and the defeat of public spirit, where systems of meaning are decaying and a lack of clarity is spreading. related story: california democrats score big win as supreme court blocks anti tax ballot ... the kids themselves are the only bright spot, which is why i’m so grateful my son offered me a glimpse into the language of his generation. another purpose of slang is to demonstrate generational distinction, yet slang has brought my son and me closer. it’s taught me that the current crop of teenagers created a language to describe the flawed reality we’ve abandoned them to, and in doing so they’ve proved themselves less deluded and more innovative than we were.   this article originally appeared in the new york times. by stephen marche/césar debargue c.2024 the new york times company distributed by the new york times licensing group westminster show’s canine athletes compete on super bowl weekend copyright © 2024 gv wire, llc, all rights reserved. local

nothing screams 'how do you do, fellow kids?' quite like trying to use slang that's just not for you. it's why the internet collectively cringed when prime minister christopher luxon decided to give gen alpha's unique 'brainrot' style of speech a go in a video posted to instagram and tiktok. "straight up, we're getting new zealand back on track, no cap. the phone ban in schools ate, and it left no crumbs. see the lack of regional fuel tax? it's giving back on track. delivering tax relief has so much rizz, nicola willis understood the assignment. slay." the video attracted some mixed responses from viewers; some were mildly amused, while others experienced a fair bit of second hand embarrassment. but why do we find it cringe when old people try to use slang? who determines when words are in and when they're out? and where do they come from anyway? every generation has their own slang, but gen alpha (people born between 2010 2024) have a particularly unhinged way of speaking. they use a hyper online style of speech, dubbed 'brainrot language'. it's slang that's often niche and insular to the internet, cropping up in places like tiktok, youtube, twitch and roblox   making it uniquely difficult for older generations to understand. it's given rise to words like 'sigma', a humbler version of the traditional 'alpha', 'rizz', the ability to charm or woo someone, and 'skibidi', meaning bad, cool, or nothing at all. 'slay' is already dead. 'tea' is vintage. now, it's all about 'gyatt' (like gyatt damn, or goddamn) and 'fanum tax', the act of jokingly taking food from a friend, or collecting the fanum tax. are you following along? the words are fun and silly and a little bit random   and gen alpha is fully aware of this. the more nonsensical a sentence, the more likely it is to receive a comment along the lines of, 'imagine showing this to a victorian child' or 'there's no way to explain this'. something like 'skibidi ohio rizz' might feel like the funniest thing in the world right now, but according to linguistics expert and content creator adam aleksic, these words might not be around for long. "if you look at any historical example, the slang words that survive are never the ones we think of as slang words ... look at the words 'selfie' or 'cancel' meaning socially ostracise. we still use them because they didn't stick out as examples of slang. "any time a word is too obtrusive, it gets tied to a meme, people use it ironically and then the meme dies out, it becomes unfunny, like when adults start using it ... i don't think any of the brainrot words are actually gonna stick around." so why is it cringe when old people try to use brainrot slang? rnz took to auckland's mission bay to ask gen alpha (and their parents) just that. sebastian gundry (left) loves deliberately misusing gen alpha slang. photo: rnz / marika khabazi sebastian gundry hears his daughter kaia and her friends using words like 'skibidi', 'rizz', and 'mewing' all the time. he enjoys deliberately misusing them. "skibidi is something to do with brainrot, ohio brainrot is when you wear two different coloured crocs, you have a rat tail or a mullet and basketball shorts," he says confidently. "rizz is like rizla, like rolling paper for a cigarette. i'm pretty much a 100 percent sure on that. and does mewing mean spitting... like mooing?" kaia explains that mewing is all about flexing your jawline, so you can 'rizz' people up. rizz, in this case, is short for exuding charisma. for gundry, it suddenly clicks. "oh it's like your vibe, your aura. and sus is short for suspect... see these words are all just a breakdown of normal words, but they're in half, it's like when you're texting and you can't be bothered writing the whole word." kaia says it's "absolutely cringe" for adults to use this slang, and gundry agrees. "words change all the time, they're constantly developing and changing, there's nothing wrong with covid or gen alpha lingo in my view ... i just feel not cool, i shouldn't try and use it, i don't know what i'm saying. we're old and crusty and shouldn't try and be cool." cosette tulloch knows what her daughters are talking about   some of the time. photo: rnz / marika khabazi cosette tulloch has four daughters aged nine to 15, so she has an idea of what they're talking about   some of the time. "rizz ... is that cool? is it when you're flirting with someone? mewing ... is that to do with having a sharper chin? like a nice, defined jaw line? see skibidi, i was talking with my husband about this the other night and we still don't know what it is. is it something to do with a toilet?" tulloch's daughters are reassuring that she's on the right track, but reckon it's still a bit embarrassing when adults try to use these words. "they're a little bit older and it's meant for us," 11 year old leah says. her sister shiloh, 13, agrees: "it's cringe, mum uses it and i'm like no, you can't do that ... but maybe they should just do it to make everyone else cringe." tulloch says she was told off just that morning for trying to act cool. "we drove up from hamilton so i was like, 'can we put some gen z music on', and shiloh put on central cee and i was singing along and i got told off ... i think we need to embrace our kids' generation. millennials are cool, i think we're nicer than your generation ... nah, jokes." darren tichborne (middle) doesn't try and get in amongst the slang of today. photo: rnz / marika khabazi edward strange, 13, is happy his dad darren tichborne doesn't try to get in amongst the slang of today. tichborne thinks 'sigma' is a car, like a mitsubishi sigma. he thinks 'rizz' means "rarking someone up". sus   "is that suspect? like christopher luxon?" and 'mewing' must mean you have an itchy chin. "i just wouldn't have a clue ... kids these days, man. "there's just things you wouldn't say. i remember when the word 'lit' was going around some time ago, and that seems to have died a natural death... i actually gave him one earlier. he gave me poor directions and i said, 'you're giving me a bum steer' and he looked at me like 'what?'." luckily, edward knows what it means now: "it means like giving bad directions or bad advice." janine kenyon (left) loves hearing her granddaughters speak their own little language. photo: rnz / marika khabazi ada rose wilson, 12, says it's hard to explain these terms: "you just kind of watch videos and figure out what it means"   and says sometimes it feels silly to try and explain them. "it's kind of funny cause some people will be like 'oh yeah, that person is so skibidi sigma rizzful, i've heard people say that before and it sounds really weird." her cousin, 10 year old zelda capamagian, explains that a lot of the terms are complimentary   'sigma' means "amazing" or "kind of like cool" while 'rizz' is the ability to get men or women. "are you a parking ticket? cause you've got fine written all over you," zelda says. their grandmother janine kenyon says she enjoys hearing the girls chatting away. "i think we're a lot more accepting of slang and young ones than my parents were. we were seen and not heard, that was that generation. "i stick to my own slang. i mean, i still use 'cool' which is dating back to the 60s, 70s, it hasn't gone away. but i love hearing them do it, it's their little language and they bounce off one another and it's great." zelda doesn't mind if adults use slang   she and ada rose both think their grandma is sigma   but they're worried about people who don't know what it means. "if they're saying stuff and they don't know what it means, they could be saying something else, it could mean something bad. i would feel bad for them." copyright © 2024, radio new zealand waka jumper, mahi and chilly bin are among a list of common kiwi phrases being added. audio the new additions are among more than 3200 words and phrases introduced this year. are you good at chatting up or flirting with potential partners? if so, you may already have rizz, even if you didn't know it. 'straya is a country with a genius for the pithy phrase or shortened word, and etymologist mark gwynn has the job of recording the 17,000 and counting that make up the aussie lexicon. audio rizz, yute, slay, peng, leng and my roman empire have all recently entered the lexicon of youth slang. audio for ad free news and current affairs new zealand rss follow rnz news

toronto dad blogger & big green egg enthusiast as a parent of two teenage boys, i’ve learned that every generation has its own secret code of slang. growing up, we had words like rad, bogus, and totally. now? it’s a jungle of phrases like sus, no cap, and rizz. at first, i tried to pretend i understood what my kids were saying. i’d nod vaguely when they called something drip or accused someone of being sus. eventually, i realized there was a better way to connect with my teens: embrace their slang and use it in the most embarrassing ways possible. here’s a guide to some of the hottest teen lingo right now, complete with their meanings and a few tips for how parents like us can hilariously misuse them to horrify our kids. but before i begin, let me just say no teenager will agree that i am in any way accurate with the following information. there is an even a good chance by the time you read this, the words have all changed. throwing this one in because it came up at the dinner table when the boy’s grandparents were over. the real joy in learning teen slang is misusing it with such confidence that your kids are left wondering if you’re genuinely confused or just messing with them. for example: combine three or more slang words in one sentence, and you might just achieve peak dad. your kid will groan, roll their eyes, and possibly beg you to stop but deep down, they’ll know you’re the funniest person alive (even if they’d never admit it). you might be wondering: why go to all this trouble? the answer is simple parenting teens is equal parts survival and sabotage. using their slang in ridiculous ways not only gives you a way to bond with your kids, but it also reminds them that you’re still their parent. your job is to make them laugh (or cringe) and show them you care, even if it’s through bad jokes and questionable lingo. so, go ahead: slay dinner, show off your drip, and yeet yourself into the world of teen slang. no cap. what’s your favourite slang term your kids use? have you ever tried using it in front of them? let me know in the comments. i really apologize to all the people who read this because it’s about as cringe as it gets. no comments yet. why don’t you start the discussion? your email address will not be published. required fields are marked * name * email * website save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time i comment. notify me of follow up comments by email. notify me of new posts by email. δ bbq big green egg christmas dads food halifax instagram kids lists nba netflix parental leave parenting parents photos recipes reviews toronto tv tv shows video receive new posts by email. email address type your email… continue reading

new research indicates this invented language can have learning benefits for children. like many parents, lyndie chiou is sometimes flummoxed by the slang her three kids use. cringey was a recent addition: “we were hanging out with some family friends and my 11 year old told them how ‘cringey’ my favorite television shows were,” chiou laughs. “i could guess from context what she was referring to.” if your child’s shifting vocabulary has left you scratching your head, too, there’s good news. recent research indicates that using slang invented, informal vocabulary comes with real, measurable benefits for children: when schools incorporate slang into their curriculum, students become more flexible in engaging with the world around them. and when children can roll with the punches linguistically speaking improvements in reading comprehension, persuasive writing, lie detection, and empathy have been shown. plus, it’s ok for kids to create variations in their spoken language “there's no one right way or wrong way to use language,” says christine mallinson, a linguist at the university of maryland. “there are only different norms and conventions.” those different conventions reflect the always evolving nature of language and that one “proper” way of speaking just isn’t appropriate for every single human. “someone actually sat down and decided ‘this is the way language should be,’” says lancaster university’s sascha stollhans, a co leader of the uk based linguistics in modern foreign languages project and author of the study above. but, he adds, people are more complex and diverse than that. that’s why slang has likely existed as long as speech has, says tony thorne, a lexicographer at king’s college who has been collecting and analyzing novel words for decades. in the historical record, slang first popped up among criminals in 15th century europe. “slang was the language of hustlers, swindlers, and peddlers,” he says. “they all used slang because they wanted to hide what they were saying, and they had to invent new words for new kinds of crime.” as it did with medieval criminals, slang often originates within “in groups,” or small groups of people who share bonds, interests, or activities. “they could do the same kind of job or are fans of the same sport; they could be gamers or follow a particular youtube star,” thorne says. slang happens when existing words fall short in describing something novel or specific to that group. as a result, it can be wonderfully inventive, employing metaphor, imagery, and rich figurative language like “hangry,” describing a hunger so intense it drives its sufferer to anger. and as slang jumps from group to group, its meaning often evolves: “dude” morphed from meaning a well dressed man in the 1890s to a term cowboys used for city slickers in the 1900s to a synonym for “guy” among the surfer crowd in the 1960s. children, with their rapidly developing brains and new experiences, are particularly adept inventors of new words. though stollhans says it can be a way of asserting independence from parents and bonding with peers, this linguistic innovation is just another example of how play promotes their social and intellectual development. “kids are playful with language, they love language, they’re creative with language,” mallinson says. “and allowing kids that linguistic creativity and outlet is good for their wellbeing it's a way for them to connect with others.” even if it drives parents crazy, the use of slang has definite cognitive and emotional benefits for children. playing with language fosters creativity and motivates kids to explore language’s potential. for instance, mallinson’s children, ages seven and eight, assign nicknames to everyone in the family based on the first letter of their proper names or identifiers. in their familect (the language unique to a family), “mom” becomes “mots” and “dad” becomes “dots.” that creativity can have powerful results. according to mallinson, children who have the ability to be creative with language are better at identifying deceptive language, tailoring messages to different people, and deciphering ambiguity. for instance, stollhans asked students to find examples of slang in the tweets of political figures and consider how word choice helps them connect with certain groups of people. “engaging with language critically might also help them spot fakeness or manipulative language,” he says. and that gives kids a critical awareness of how language is used in different contexts. the vocabulary, tone, and pronunciations kids would use with their parents, for example, might be completely different from the language they’d use while hanging out with friends. in fact, slang provides the perfect practice for untangling how words are defined versus what they might imply. briana richardson, a sixth grade teacher in mississippi, uses “bruh” to illustrate how context can dictate different meanings for the same word. “when kids come in and they see someone they haven’t seen in a while, ‘bruh’ means they’re excited,” she says. but in response to a parent giving them extra chores, “bruh” expresses exasperation and dismay. “we shift language all the time, every day, depending on who we're talking to, and what context we're in,” mallinson says. when kids are trained to code switch, or adapt written or spoken language to their audience, they’re better equipped to evaluate the words of others, too. despite the benefits, slang is often discouraged. what, exactly, are detractors afraid of? “a lot of adult pushback on kids’ language can come from home,” mallinson says. “this might include everything from correcting their pronunciation to things like rebuking them for using non standard phrases like ‘that sucks’ or ‘whatever.’” others simply worry that slang decreases a child’s ability to learn standard grammar. but according to stollhans’ research , incorporating slang into the curriculum actually improved students’ language skills. he theorizes that when students are exposed to diverse language examples, they’re more willing to try new words or phrases, and experiment with complex sentence structures. sometimes the objection to slang has a darker even racist or classist purpose. for instance, stollhans says that in the uk, slang from people who live in the north is often frowned upon by wealthier people farther south. and though many versions of english are spoken around the world, british or american is considered “standard.” “but why is british or american english more valuable than indian english or english from the african continent?” stollhans says. so how should you go about incorporating slang into your interactions with kids and making sure they get all the benefits the creative language offers? evelyn lucero, a literacy coach at an international school in vietnam, suggests that parents start by using children’s literature as a way to introduce slang into their conversations with kids. her students recently read ghost by jason reynolds, which is set in contemporary brooklyn and includes language that kids might encounter in real life. meanwhile, andrea zimmerman, an eighth grade teacher in tennessee, integrates slang into history projects, which can be easily replicated at home. in one creative activity, students write and perform the preamble to the constitution in different informal styles. imagining how yoda or a kardashian might interpret the text sparks laughs as well as a deeper understanding of this 230 year old document. families could do something similar with skit nights at home. give kids a list of slang from your childhood and ask them to construct a scene around it. then redo the scene for them using slang that they choose. and for parents who might balk at speaking a language variant that they’re not familiar with, stollhans recommends just asking their kids to teach them. kids love taking on the role of teacher, he notes, because it gives them an empowering sense of agency. “language variation is a gift,” mallinson says. “it’s a measure of who we are as humans.” copyright © 1996 2015 national geographic societycopyright © 2015 2025 national geographic partners, llc. all rights reserved

gabb home page gabb home page gabb home page by jackie baucom plus: parents' screen habits might be exposing kids to mature content. february 2, 2025 updated   originally published january 17, 2024 as a parent, you’ve probably overheard some slang from your kid. they may say things like, “i’m amped about my drip today,” or, “he’s got rizz. giving off major bde.” maybe they’ve said something like, “no cap, this sandwich is bussin’,” or, “spill the tea, sis!” the lingo our kids use every day may be incomprehensible to us, but these words actually have meaning   some we may know, and some we can understand from the context of the conversation. a number of these slang terms were created by past generations, while other are new terms that parents can be pretty clueless about. some of these words are made up, shortened, or said as acronyms. some slang terms are everyday words but hold different meanings. many new terms stem organically from the online platforms kids commonly use to communicate today (which underscores the need for safe tech, especially when it comes to messaging). we’ve come up with a list of popular slang words to help parents better understand their kids and their friends. this list is not comprehensive but our team will add more words as we collect them and slang trends emerge. it’s important to note that slang terms can vary widely based on location, culture, and generation, and some may have different meanings or connotations depending on the context. addy   abbreviation for address. i’ll meet you there, just send me the addy. af   an acronym that stands for as f**k. i had the time of my life at the concert. it was lit af! amirite   an informal way to say “am i right,” used to seek agreement after making a statement. that taco was bomb, amirite? amped   excited i’m amped for the concert tonight! and i oop   used to express surprise, shock, or realization, often in response to something unexpected or amusing. she accidentally knocked over her cup, and i oop, there it goes all over the floor. asl   an abbreviation for “as hell.” it is used as an intensifier. this term may also be used as an acronym for “age, sex, location,” to quickly inquire about someone’s basic demographic information. but that usage has mostly been replaced by gen z with the new “as hell” usage. those new shoes are cool asl. ate and left no crumbs   refers to someone who did something so well that there’s no chance for anyone else to do it better. did you see emma’s floor routine? she ate and left no crumbs! aura   like the traditional definition, it is used to compliment someone’s ability, perceived power, or sense of coolness and mystery. it became popular in soccer and basketball communities on twitter in 2023 so it is often used to compliment athletes. did you see steph curry’s clutch shot last night? he’s got crazy aura. bae   boyfriend or girlfriend. wait, bae is calling me. bandwagon   someone who takes an interest in something just to fit in with the crowd. maggie suddenly loves rugby, she is a major bandwagon fan. basic   someone who is unoriginal and only interested in popular, trending things. she’s so basic with her pumpkin spice latte. bbg   an acronym that stands for baby girl, describing something or someone cute. it can also stand for: better be going, a polite way to end a conversation. i love that dress on you bbg! bbg, i have soccer practice. bde   an acronym that stands for: big dick energy, someone who is secure and exudes confidence without arrogance. i knew she would get the internship she has major bde! bed rot   spending extended periods of time in bed, often engaging in activities like watching tv or reading. after a hectic week, i’m looking forward to some much needed bed rot this weekend. beige flag   used humorously to refer to a situation that is mundane, uninteresting, or lacking excitement. his alphabetized bookshelf is a beige flag. bet   in agreement with something, or used for okay or affirmative. person 1: want to come over to my house? person 2: bet! big back   refers to someone who is overweight, typically to bully or shame them. she ate that whole plate of spaghetti. that’s some big back behavior! bih   a phonetic spelling of “b***h.” often used in a less aggressive way, and depending on the tone and context, can be used jokingly among friends or as a playful term of endearment. she playfully teased her friend, calling her “bih,” as they laughed together. body count   the number of sexual partners someone has had. she was hesitant to reveal her body count, fearing she’d be judged. boo   a term of endearment used to refer to a romantic partner. i can’t wait to see my boo tonight. boo’d up   refers to being in a romantic relationship with someone. after months of flirting, they finally boo’d up. boomer/okay boomer   a dismissive retort used to mock the opinions, ideas, or attitudes of older individuals, particularly members of the baby boomer generation. when clayton’s great uncle started complaining about millennials’ work ethic, he responded with, “okay, boomer.” boujee   rich, luxurious, fancy you grew up going to this boujee country club? brat   a term coined by singer charlie xcx in a tweet, “brat” describes a person (often female) who is genuine, self possessed, non conforming, with a rebellious streak. it is represented by a florescent, chartreuse green, which symbolizes making a statement. kamala is brat. bussin’   something is really good. this burrito is bussin’! i’m definitely coming back here. buttah   a compliment that describes something that is smooth, easy, and good. that new song you dropped is pure buttah. cake   a large, well shaped bottom. she caught him checking out her cake as she walked past him at the beach. cap   lying or faking. i actually went to class today. no cap. cash   awesome or cool. that new movie is so cash! catch feels   develop romantic or emotional attachment to someone. i noticed lea starting to catch feels for bruce. catfish   a person who creates a fake online persona to deceive others. he thought he was talking to a model on the dating app, but it turned out to be a catfish using stolen photos from the internet. caught in 4k   someone caught in the act of something compromising. he thought he could get away with lying, but we have him caught in 4k. chad   a stereotypical, confident, dominant male. often used humorously and with negative connotations. he thinks he knows everything. he’s such a chad. chat   used to refer to a group of people, like friends or people in their class. chat, do you think he’s telling the truth? cheugy   someone or something that is out of date, unfashionable, or trying too hard. i can’t believe she’s still wearing skinny jeans, that’s so cheugy. clapback   a sharp and witty response to criticism or an insult. when tori called her outfit cheugy, her clapback was for real! cooked   something or someone that is done, exhausted, or doomed. i was up all night but didn’t even get halfway through the study guide, i’m cooked. crash out   to get mad or upset despite your better judgment. this game is making me so mad, i’m about to crash out. cray cray   short for crazy. i’ve been so busy this week, it’s cray cray! cringe   a feeling of embarrassment and discomfort. watching annie try to talk to james was so cringe. crossfaded   being drunk and high at the same time. richie shouldn’t drive, he’s crossfaded. curve   the act of rejecting or ignoring someone’s romantic advances. despite her attempts to flirt with him, he consistently curved her. dank   excellent, high quality. the party last night was dank! dap   a gesture of greeting or expression of admiration between two people performed with hands, similar to a low five and handshake. that was sick! dap me up! dayroom   something or someone that is basic and uninteresting. everything about him is dayroom. dead/dying/ded   a response to something really funny. that meme you sent me. i’m dead! delulu   abbreviation for delusional. someone who has unrealistic or irrational beliefs, and is disconnected from reality. his delulu theories are entertaining, but far fetched. dip   to leave suddenly or early. i’m about to dip. dl   an acronym that stands for: down low, referring to an activity or information that is meant to be kept discreet. we’ve been talking, but we’re keeping it on the dl for now. dope   something that is exceptional or awesome. that bike is dope! dox   to seek out and publish private information online about someone, usually with malicious intentions. jennifer got doxed after getting in a fight with someone during an online game, now her address and phone number are all over social media. drag   to mock or humiliate someone. bettie will never be invited back after she dragged peter. drip   sophisticated or stylish in appearance. you got drip with those new shoes. dtf   an acronym that stands for down to f**k. indicates a person’s willingness to engage in sexual activity. she asked him if he was dtf, but he wasn’t sure how to respond. dub   short for w, meaning win or winner. we took the dub. egirl/eboy   frequently found on tiktok, it’s someone who has adopted an edgy style including a blushed nose, heavy eyeliner, and little hearts under the eyes. i’ve been thinking about changing my style to something more like an eboy. extra   attention grabbing or dramatic. i didn’t invite her, she’s too extra. facts   emphasizes agreement of something that is accurate or true. person 1: his new album is fire. person 2: straight facts! faded   being under the influence of marijuana. you should have seen her last night, she was so faded. fan service   elements added to an entertainment piece that is a subtle nod to avid fans, like an inside joke that other viewers won’t understand. also known as easter eggs. if you’re a marvel fan you’ll love this episode. it has a ton of fan service. fboi   abbreviation for f**kboy. a derogatory term used to describe a promiscuous, manipulative, and disrespectful man. she quickly realized he was just another fboi when he started ghosting her after their first date. ffa   free for all, in a multi player video game all players must fend for themselves. i wish we could play in teams and not ffa. finna   abbreviation for fixing to, or going to. i’m finna go to the mall. finsta   a combination of the words “fake” and “instagram.” refers to a secondary or private instagram account that users create to share content with a smaller, more selective audience. she posted silly selfies and behind the scenes moments on her finsta for her close friends to see. fire   amazing or exciting. that waterslide is fire! fit   an outfit. you’re always so fashionable. amazing fit! flavored air   vaping. he always has flavored air. flex   to flaunt or brag about something. he’s flexing with those kicks. fml   f**k my life, often used at the conclusion of a negative story. i missed the bus this morning so i had to walk all the way to school. fml. fr   an acronym that means: for real, to agree with someone. person 1: the homework was so hard. person 2: fr. frfr   abbreviation for: for real for real. a way to emphasize sincerity or seriousness. i’m tired of waiting for my ride in this cold weather, frfr! ftw   an acronym that means: for the win. an enthusiastic emphasis to express approval or support. i just tried the best thai restaurant. mango sticky rice ftw! fuhuhluhtoogan   someone who is good in bed. the word is credited to baltimore rapper, richard webster (rap name bippleyipsnipp), and became popular on tiktok in late 2023. she’s a fuhuhluhtoogan. fugly   f***ing ugly, or extremely ugly. i can’t believe i wore that! it’s so fugly. furry   a person who is a fan of anthropomorphic animals (animals with human characteristics), or someone who dresses up to resemble the animal. he’s got a fursuit   he’s a legit furry. fw   an acronym for, “f**k with,” that is used to express that someone really likes something or someone. i don’t usually like superhero movies, but i really fw this movie. it’s so funny! fwb   an acronym for “friends with benefits.” an arrangement where two people engage in sexual activity without being in a committed romantic relationship. she wasn’t interested in a serious commitment, so she proposed the idea of being fwb to him. fyp   refers to tiktok’s “for you page” that’s filled with recommended content and videos personalized for the viewer. my fyp had the weirdest feed today. g   a term of endearment for friends. i have nothing but love and respect for my g. gassing   exaggerating someone else’s abilities, accomplishments, or qualities. she’s already confident enough, she doesn’t need any more gassing. gg   an acronym that stands for: good game, used to acknowledge a player’s skill at the end of multiplayer video games. gg! we should play again sometime. ghost   cutting off communication with someone with no explanation. we went on a date, and then he ghosted me. girl math   used in a lighthearted or humorous way when someone calculated things in a way that might not follow conventional rules. she’s using girl math to justify buying another pair of shoes because they were on sale. girl dinner   a social media trend to describe a meal made up of small snacks, random, or unhealthy food as “dinner.” “i had some pickles and a left over milkshake last night. girl dinner!” gigachad   a term to describe “the ultimate man,” or someone that is particularly masculine, muscular, or handsome. my crush is so cute. he is such a gigachad! giving me life   something or someone that is exciting. this warm weather is giving me life! glow up   a major transformation in appearance in a way that is generally perceived as attractive. she had a glow up. she looks great! goat   an acronym that stands for: greatest of all time, praising someone for being the best. a variation of goat is “goated,” as in, “keep winning like that and you’re going to get goated!” my coach is the goat! granola   a person who is environmentally aware, and enjoys the outdoors. you’ll probably run into her on a hike. she’s a granola. guap   a large sum of money. sally must have paid a guap for those shoes. gucci   fancy, fashionable, or excellent. person 1: i’ll pick you up in 10. person 2: gucci. gyat   abbreviation for girl your a** is thick, and also godd**n. a way to express admiration and excitement, usually about someone’s backside. gyat! those jeans make you look so good! hammered   extremely intoxicated from alcohol or drugs. he was so hammered we had to take him to the e.r. heated   angry or frustrated. he got heated when he thought i took his ball. heem   a better version of something, the total package. the new boy is heem! hella skrilla   to have a large sum of money. my parents went out of town and left me hella skrilla. here for this   excited about something, showing support. you’re an amazing artist. i’m here for this. high key   something that is overt, obvious, or done with a high level of intensity. i high key love that new movie. highlighter kid   a young child who wears neon colored clothes. look for adam! you can’t miss him, he’s a highlighter kid. hits different   something that is special, unique, or causes a strong emotional reaction that is difficult to articulate. my mom’s cooking just hits different. hollywood   a negative change in behavior in someone who achieves success and looks down on their past life. after alice made the cheerleading team she became hollywood. hop off   an expression used to tell someone to stop bothering or annoying another. when he kept pestering her with questions, she told him to hop off and give her some space. hot take   a strongly worded and often controversial opinion on a current event or popular topic. i watched the new superhero movie. the cast was amazing, but the storyline was sketch. that’s my hot take for the day. hunty   combination of “honey” and “c**t.” often used in the lgbtq+ community (especially within the transgender community) as a term of endearment or familiarity among friends. “hey hunty, you look fabulous in that outfit!” hype   excited, or something is good. this song is so hype! ick   a feeling of disgust towards someone or something. did you see how mean he was to his little brother? that’s such an ick. icymi   an acronym that stands for: in case you missed it. icymi, i’m headed to cal state this fall! irl   an acronym that stands for in real life. used to distinguish between online and offline interactions. he has a lot of online friends, but he’s never met them in irl. iso   an acronym that stands for in search of. used in online forums, classified ads, or social media posts to indicate that someone is looking for a specific item, service, or information. iso vintage vinyl records. iykyk   an acronym that stands for: if you know, you know. indicates insider knowledge or a shared experience between a group of people. the ski trip was wild! iykyk. jittleyang   another word (see fuhuhluhtoogan) credited to baltimore rapper, richard webster, that became popular on tiktok in late 2023. no clear definition exists but, as best we can tell, it refers to someone or something that grabs attention. that hat is a jittleyang! juul   a brand of electronic cigarettes, also known as a vape. she discreetly pulled out her juul and took a puff while waiting for the bus. kda   an acronym that stands for: kills/deaths/assists, a tally of how many kills, deaths, and assists a gamer has in a game. your kda was dope this game. keep it 100   to be honest, genuine, and authentic in all situations. i appreciate when my friends keep it 100 with me, even if the truth might be hard to hear. kms   an acronym that stands for kill myself. often used in a joking manner to express extreme frustration, disappointment, or annoyance with a situation. it can also be used when talking about suicide or self harm. the teacher just announced a pop quiz. kms. krunk   extremely intoxicated with a mixture of alcohol and drugs. he got krunk last night. kys   an acronym that stands for kill yourself. an offensive and harmful phrase used to harass someone, often online. someone’s been cyberbullying her and sending kys messages. l   loss, loser. he took the l. left on read   when someone has read a message sent to them, but has not responded to it. i texted him last night, but he left me on read. i’m not sure if he’s busy or just ignoring me. let them cook   trusting someone’s abilities and giving them the freedom to handle things their own way. i know you want to help, but they’ve got it under control. let’s just sit back and let them cook. let’s get this bread   a motivational phrase to encourage oneself or others to work hard, often in the context of achieving financial stability. after weeks of preparation, it’s finally time to give that presentation. let’s get this bread! lewk   a stylized spelling of “look.” a carefully curated or striking outfit, appearance, or aesthetic. she showed up to the party in a stunning lewk that turned heads all night. lfg   an acronym that stands for: let’s f**king go, excited for an upcoming event or competition. i’m cheering on my team tonight. lfg! lit   exciting, excellent, or intoxicated. the movie was lit! lmao   an acronym that stands for: laughing my a** off, indicates something is funny. remember when i fell going up the stairs? lmao! lms   an acronym that stands for: like my status, used on social media asking for viewers to like the content. lms to enter the giveaway. lol   an acronym that stands for: laugh out loud, expressing amusement at something. lol at your ostrich video! looksmaxxing   boys who are trying to improve their appearance through various methods such as a new haircut, implementing a skincare routine, exercising, and changing their diets. connor really embraced looksmaxxing. he looks completely different. low taper fade   although this is a type of hairstyle, the phrase comes from a meme started by eric della, a music artist. during a livestream, he was freestyling. he referenced a fellow streamer known as ninja and said, “imagine if ninja got a low taper fade!” after ninja responded by changing his hair, kids started using the phrase in random moments as a fun, light hearted joke. you say that this backpack is cool, but you know what else is cool? a ‘low taper fade!’ mad   really, extremely, or crazy. it’s mad hot outside. menty b   abbreviation for mental breakdown. there’s too much going on right now. i feel on the edge of a menty b. mewing   a facial exercise technique involving proper tongue placement to accentuate a sharp jaw. her jawline is looking snatched. i bet she’s been mewing. mid   average or not great. that show was mid. mogging   one  upping someone on appearance and attractiveness. i wonder if jared realizes he’s mogging everyone in the weight room. munch   a person who performs oral sex on a woman. i don’t want to date him, he’s a munch. netflix and chill   a euphemism for hooking up. i asked ricky if he wanted to netflix and chill, and he actually came ready with popcorn. lol ngl   an acronym that stands for: not gonna lie, admitting something honestly and openly. a lot of people didn’t like the movie, but ngl, i loved it. nsfw   an acronym that stands for not safe for work. used to label content, such as images, videos, or links, that may contain explicit or inappropriate material not suitable for viewing in a professional or public setting. i can’t open that link right now. it’s marked as nsfw, and i’m at school. omg   an acronym that stands for: oh my gosh/god, indicates something is shocking or surprising. omg, i can’t believe you just said that! oml   an acronym that stands for: oh my lord, an exclamation of surprise or excitement. oml, you scared me! omw   an acronym that stands for: on my way, a way to indicate a person is en route. omw! i’ll be there in 20. ong   on god, a way to show strong agreement with something, similar to “i swear to god.” i just saw them kissing! ong on fleek   perfectly done, exactly right, excellent. your make up is on fleek. on point   perfect, exactly right. his outfit is on point. only in ohio   used to label things that are strange or cursed. why are there rats on the train? only in ohio. ops   opponents, either in video games or real life. dude, he got sent to the principal’s office. the ops got him. otp   an acronym that stands for one true pairing. refers to a favorite or ideal romantic pairing between characters in a book, movie, tv show, or video game. i’ve shipped this otp since the pilot episode. they have the best chemistry on screen. periodt   emphasizes the finality and decisiveness of a statement. he’s the best dancer in the group, periodt. plug   a person who can supply someone with illegal or hard to find goods, especially drugs. her older brother always has a plug. pmoys   an acronym that stands for put me on your snapchat. used as a request or invitation to add someone to their list of snapchat contacts. he sent me a pmoys message on instagram. poggers   an expression of excitement, amazement, or enthusiasm. mostly used by gamers. when he pulled off that incredible play, the chat exploded with poggers. preppy   describes an aesthetic or style, specifically one that’s colorful, girly, and typically involves name brands like lululemon. your skirt is so cute and preppy! pressed   feeling annoyed or stressed about something. why are you so pressed? pulling   to attract attention from romantic interests. i saw him pull at least five girls at the party. put on blast   to embarrass someone publicly over social media by denouncing or exposing them. he was put on blast for breaking up with her over a text. pwn   to have power over someone or something. that math test just pwned me! rad   awesome, or very good. this view is rad. ran through   a derogatory term to describe someone who is perceived as being overly sexually active or as having had too many sexual partners. don’t talk to him, he is so ran through. he’s been with every girl in school. ratchet   someone who is out of control, or tacky. i’m so sick of these ratchet girls coming over. read   publicly pointing out someone’s flaws. we don’t hang out anymore, he was always reading me. real   another way to say “serious.” it is often used as part of other phrases like “the real real” or “be f**king for real” (often abbreviated to bffr). you think you can pull off that dress? be so for real. receipts   evidence or proof of someone’s actions or words, often used to support a claim. when she accused him of lying, he came prepared with receipts, showing screenshots of their conversations to prove his point. rent free   obsessing over someone or something, living inside someone’s head. what he said to me still lives in my head rent free. rizz   the ability to seduce or charm a potential love interest. that boy has so much rizz, he hasn’t been single since elementary school. rotflmao   an acronym that stands for: rolling on the floor laughing my a** off. a humorous and exaggerated way to express that something is funny or amusing. when she told her joke, everyone replied with rotflmao and a string of laughing emojis. rn   abbreviation for: right now. indicates something that’s happening at the present moment. i’m busy rn, can i call you later? rpg   an acronym that stands for: role playing game, a genre of games where the player controls a character and explores an imaginary world. she’s really into rpg. salty   upset, resentful, or irritated. he was salty after losing, so i told him to leave the game. savage   a fierce or bold person. he’s savage on the court. say less   agreement or understanding, so no further explanation is needed because the point has been understood. when she suggested going to their favorite restaurant, he simply nodded and said, “say less.” sending me   response to a funny text message, expressing extreme amusement. lollll that panda meme is sending me! shade   subtle contempt or disgust for someone. this is often used as part of the phrase, “throw shade.” did she just throw shade at me? ship   to support the romantic relationship between two people. i totally ship timothee chalamet and kylie jenner. shook   shocked or surprised. she actually did the assignment. i’m shook! shorty   an attractive girl hey, shorty! let’s go grab a drink. sick   cool or awesome. did you see that tackle? that was sick! sigma   (or sigma male) a type for male who is cool, successful, and popular but introverted and possibly rebellious. it carries a similar meaning to the term “lone wolf.” michael is definitely a sigma. simp   someone who is desperate for affection or romantic relationships. dude, you’re being such a simp. skibidi toilet   an animated youtube series that depicts a dystopian world where mobile toilets with human heads popping out of their bowls war with humanoids who have cameras, speakers, or tvs for heads. by 2024, it has become popular with gen alpha and the youngest portion of gen z. slap   amazing or excellent. this song slaps! slay   doing something extremely well. you slayed your dance recital! slim thick/thicc   a body type that combines both slimness and thickness. usually someone who has a small waist, but wider hips and thighs, like an hourglass figure. she’s got that slim thick figure that turns heads wherever she goes. small dick energy   someone who is insecure, but acts overly confident to compensate. i would never date him. he has small dick energy. smash   to have casual sex with someone or to hook up. i love that actor! i would totally smash him. smh   abbreviation for shaking my head. used when there are no words to describe something stupid. i warned zane he didn’t have enough time to shower before his flight. i was right, he missed it. smh. smol   describes something small, cute, or endearing. that smol kitty is so adorable. smut   sexually explicit written content like romance novels or some fanfiction. that book is just smut. snack   someone who is attractive or appealing, often in a physical sense. that lifeguard is a total snack. snatched   perfect, attractive. she was looking snatched at the dance. sneaky link   a secret hookup or relationship. she was my sneaky link last year. so   an acronym that stands for: shout out, a public expression of greeting, praise, or acknowledgement directed towards a person. it is also known for significant other. so to sophie for taking this picture of me. sparks   the exact moment that a joint of marijuana is or will be lit. party at my place tonight. sparks at 8:30! stan   a mixture of stalker and fan, someone who is obsessed with a person. i used to stan him so bad in junior high. stoked   very excited i was so stoked he invited me. sus   suspicious, suspect. often used as “slim sus” to mean “a little bit suspicious.” it originates from the game among us. are you hiding something? you’ve been acting super sus lately. swerve   to go out of one’s way to avoid someone. i swerved when i saw my ex. swole   having big muscles. my goal for this year is to get really swole. swoop   to give someone a ride, or get a ride from someone. since your car’s in the shop, i’ll swoop in 10. take a seat   a dismissive or sarcastic remark, suggesting that someone should calm down or stop talking. i have it all under control, why don’t you take a seat. tea   gossiping about something. sarah will know about that, just ask her. she loves to spill the tea. tf   abbreviation for the f**k. used to express surprise, disbelief, anger, or frustration. she couldn’t believe her eyes when she saw the price tag. “tf is this price?” she exclaimed to her friend. tfw   an acronym that stands for: that feeling when, used to describe an emotionally charged experience. tfw you cozy up with a hot chocolate watching the snowfall outside. thot   acronym for “that ho over there.” a derogatory term used to refer to someone who is perceived as promiscuous or sexually active. she felt hurt when she overheard her classmates whispering “thot” behind her back. thirsty   someone who is desperate or eager for attention, approval, or sex. he followed my instagram account and immediately liked all my posts. he’s so thirsty. thirst trap   a sexually provocative photo, video, or comment posted on social media, often with the intention of receiving attention from viewers. all he posts are thirst traps on tiktok. totes   short for totally, completely. she was totes out of line for saying that. touch grass   used to encourage someone to spend more time in the real world instead of online. after spending the entire weekend playing video games, his friends told him it was time to touch grass and get some sunlight. trap phone   a prepaid mobile phone used primarily for illegal or questionable activities. the phone facilitates communication and transactions while minimizing the risk of being tracked or monitored by authorities. he kept a trap phone hidden in his car that only his clients had a number to. twin   a true friend or friend that is so close that the two share a long list of interests, experiences, or characteristics. hey twin, when you comin’ over? twizzy   variation of twin (see above). hey twizzy, when you comin’ over? uhh   used to express confusion, sometimes in response to a joke that doesn’t make sense. person 1: don’t you think my post was so funny? didn’t you get it? person 2: uhh . . . unc   short for uncle, used to refer to a cool millennial uncle or to refer to slightly older people in general. just walking up those stairs made me so tired, i think i’ve reached unc status. understood the assignment   when someone goes above and beyond. this was the best birthday ever! you definitely understood the assignment. upper decky   a term for a zyn (nicotine pouch) that’s placed against the upper gums. i don’t think i’ve ever seen heidi without an upper decky. v   abbreviation for very. i’m v excited for prom next weekend. vanilla   ordinary, boring, lacking special features. i tried having a conversation with him, but he’s so vanilla. vibe   a feeling, an ambience. i love your whole vibe. vsco girl   (pronounced visco), a young, usually white, girl who is adorned in trendy things and posts pictures edited on the vsco app. she’s wearing an oversized t shirt, birks, and has a huge hydro flask. she’s definitely trying to be a vsco girl. w   win, winner. our team took the w. wallflower   an introvert, someone who avoids the limelight and is more comfortable standing on the sidelines of an activity. she’s always been a wallflower at school dances. weird flex but ok   used to acknowledge someone’s unusual statement or action, typically in response to the boasting or showing off. a light hearted way to express acceptance or indifference to something that might be considered odd. you can brag about your collection of rubber ducks all you want. weird flex, but ok. whip   a car, especially one that is stylish. she just pulled up in her new whip. whole meal   describes someone who looks really good. dave looks like a whole meal. wig snatched   extreme excitement or astonishment, especially in response to something surprising, impressive, or unexpected. comes from the idea that something is so amazing that it figuratively causes one’s wig to fly off in amazement. when he hit that high note during the performance, my wig was snatched. woke   someone who is aware of important facts, and racial and social injustices. i used to be ignorant of what was happening around me, but now i’m woke. wya   an acronym that stands for where you at? commonly used in text messages to ask someone about their current location. let me know wya and i’ll come meet up. wyd   an acronym that stands for what you doing? a casual way to ask someone what they are currently doing. wyd tonight? xan   abbreviation for: xanax, a sedative used to treat anxiety which is often abused. i hope his dad finally realizes who’s been stealing his xan. yaas   an enthusiastic way of saying “yes.” used to express excitement, approval, or agreement. yaas, queen! way to nail that dance routine. yeet   to throw something forcefully. he just yeeted a peanut butter jar out the window. zaddy   a handsome, fashionable, older man. she found a zaddy as soon as she graduated. all kids want love and attention from their parents in real life, even if they don’t always seem like they do. when we take the time to learn about the way our children speak, it shows kids that we prioritize our relationship and communication. we can use appropriate slang words once in a while to make our kids laugh. use it correctly, or not   kids will appreciate the effort. ngl, our teens may roll their eyes and call us thirsty, but we all know deep down they think we’re fire.what is your experience with teen slang? share your stories in the comments! jackie is a gabb staff writer. she is the mother of four children and is passionate about keeping kids safe, happy, loved, and thriving. she has a degree in mass communication from the university of utah. smh stands for “shaking my head.” it’s used to express disbelief, disapproval, frustration, or impatience. think of it like giving […] april 23, 2024 these days, it seems like teen slang is everywhere, both on the internet and off. and because of the nature […] january 30, 2024 today, “finsta” accounts are a popular way that teenagers are establishing more independence from their parents, often without their parents […] march 1, 2022 i appreciate what your doing here, but teaching our kids to speak correct grammar is a good idea too. we agree! this is soo helpful thank you soo much for the updates! we appreciate the extra support! of course! we are glad to hear that you find this helpful! thanks for these! i've heard many of them, but some are new. you need to add smh, i have to google it every time i hear it lol glad that you found these helpful! thank you for sharing! hi i’m from harlem i just wanted to add some words you might have forgotten or missed : • dub : ( depending the way it’s used ) deny, reject, ignore, &/or dead to you . ex: he keeps playing w/ my time he’s a dub. • jawn : describes a female ; ex : that jawn is looking good • buttah : ( butter ) compliment, looks good, smooth, impressive. ex: oh you think you buttah ?? • my lil yea yea : sum1 yu talk 2 on the low. ex: my best friend don’t know he’s my lil yea yea • dayroom : basic , lame , wack. ex : everything about him is dayroom • bandwagon : sum1 who likes sumthing to fit in w/ others. ex : you really just a bandwagon ass bitch • hollywood : change in behavior actin like sum1 who thinks they “made it” , not speaking to ppl , acts too good . ex : now that she got a lil car she hollywood thanks hailey! while this posting is helpful, the title is really misleading as it combines a lot slang that existed before gen z, like bet or cray, those are from the millennial generation. also with the gaming slang such as kda and pwn are definitely pre gen z. even rpg is before the millennial generation, i would think would be gen x because of the early days of dungeons and dragons which is a form of table top role playing game (ttrpg) we really appreciate your thoughts on this article and the title. we love hearing feedback and being able to improve because of it. thank you milo! i love this! i text my child every morning before school and purposely hack terms for amusement, e.g. “have a bussin day”thanks for adding to my repertoire. we love this, thank you for sharing! i would like to thank you for the efforts you have put in writing this site. i’m hoping the same high grade site post from you in the future as well. actually your creative writing skills has encouraged me to get my own site going now. actually blogging is spreading its wings and growing fast. your write up is a great example. i love this site. and i love this post. this helped me and my kids connect with all the "sigma" slang. i love this and more people and parents should take a look! thank you gabb; sending love from the marcoochieo family! we are so glad to hear this helped you and your family. thank you for your support sherrill! i absolutely loved this! my and my kids have been connecting so much now that i finally know what they are talking about lolll! i love this site! thank you for the help! #sendinglove we love this! i am a teacher. i try to keep up with the latest slang. i have been hearing kids calling each other "neon" lately. does anyone have any idea what this means? this would be great to know, thank you for sharing! dqeknzttr […] you still have questions? let us know in the comments. and check out our full gen z slang guide for more insight on unfamiliar words your kids may be […] thank you for the insightful exploration of teen slang! your blog gives an enjoyable and informative glimpse into the evolving language of brand new youth. it's captivating to see how language adapts and displays cultural shifts. keep up the exquisite work. thank you! it's so helpful to know what a lot of these mean. whenever i hear one that i'm not familiar with i ask my kids but i don't always get the definition, sometimes it's more the rolled eyes like i'm thirsty lol it's really nice knowing exactly what they mean. color me embarrassed 😳! i'm a middle school spanish teacher. my students are constantly asking me how to say certain slang expressions i. spanish. they asked me for "munch". my spidey senses started to go off. i knew it sounded awful, and they were all giggling. so i said i'm not playing along, but then they all teamed up and said, no it just means that someone is really hungry. they just want to eat some food. i knew something was up, but i didn't want to push the envelope. but i had no idea just how vulgar it truly was!! this was so helpful. i'm going to bookmark this page, hopefully you update it from time to time. thank you for this. i'm a gen z myself but did not know about this until now. and really i don't understand my own generation for this behavior, and i don't like it. 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familius.com shop do you ever feel like your child or grandchild is speaking an alien language? translate your conversations with these sixteen must know slang terms. slang terms are one of the many reasons that every generation says language “is going to the dogs.” any sort of language change can feel foreign, especially when we don’t understand it. so when your child comes running in the door saying words like “cap” (not the hat) and “rizz,” you start to wonder if you’re outdated and obsolete. but it’s not time to send you to the recyclers yet. your child’s language can easily be translated using this simple guide. in fact, many new slang terms are just revised versions of ones that you might already know. these sixteen popular slang terms will start you on your way to understanding and communicating with kids (well, for as long as these words are in style, that is). pro tip: if you really want to mess with your kids, start using these slang terms in your conversations. there’s nothing kids can’t stand more than parents (or grandparents) trying to be cool. to put it simply: cap = lie. therefore, if you call something “cap,” you’re saying that it’s a lie, that it’s fake. in contradiction, “no cap” means “no lie.” it would have the same effect as saying “for real.” it seems that this slang term is gradually moving towards the long form “you’re lyyyiing,” but you’ll probably still hear both out in the wild. sounding just as suave and cool as its meaning, rizz is the newest replacement for game as in, “you’ve got game.” you would say somebody’s “got rizz” or call them any punny variation of the word, such as “rizz king” or “rizz master,” when they are successfully charming or flirty. a play on the phrase “grow up,” a glow up is when someone improves themselves. for example, you could decide to glow up by drinking more water, changing your style, or practicing self care. it typically implies a noticeable improvement or upgrade in someone’s looks or confidence level. this transformation often happens gradually through personal development. however, “glow up” can also encompass improvements in social status, career, or overall well being. when you’re watching a sad movie and can’t help crying, you’re “in your feelings.” this slang term often implies being deeply moved, upset, or introspective because of your personal feelings, but it can also be used ironically to acknowledge your emotions in a light hearted, humorous way. if somebody’s going to give you $1,000, you probably want them to give you the full stack of $1,000. “keep it a stack,” previously known as “keep it 100,” means being 100 percent honest, genuine, and truthful. when someone says this slang term, they’re urging others to provide candid, unfiltered opinions, feedback, or information without holding back or sugarcoating. which, honestly, it’s a great way to encourage authenticity and transparency. “you’re doing too much,” in fact, means you’re going above and beyond but not in a good way. (this slang term is really doing too much; you could have just said “extra.”) the point of this phrase is to let people know that they are overreacting, overcomplicating things, or are excessively involved in a situation. essentially, it implies that they are being excessive or going beyond what is reasonable or appropriate. this phrase is often used to advise someone to calm down, take it easy, or scale back their actions or reactions. if you say “no offense” in a nicer way, is it actually less offensive? the younger generations seem to think so. “no shade” is used to preface a comment or statement to clarify that it is not intended to be insulting or critical, kind of like a disclaimer. it’s a way of expressing that what is being said is meant to be honest or humorous rather than a personal attack. does it really work? idk, but you might find out yes, “girl, bye” is a slang term. yes, you can use “boy, bye” as well. and yes, they do in fact mean goodbye. sort of. similar to “bye, felicia,” these slang terms are meant to express disbelief, disagreement, or disapproval towards someone or something. they’re often used in a sassy or assertive manner to express that the speaker is uninterested, fed up, or annoyed with the person they are addressing. basically, it means the speaker is done with the interaction and wants to move on. “pull up” typically means “let’s hang out” (a meaning more clearly understood in “send me the addy”). however, this slang term can also be a confrontation or challenge. for example, if someone says “pull up” in a regular social setting, they’re probably inviting their friends to come hang out. but in a tense setting, they’re probably looking for a fight. the difference between the two is the difference between an invitation and a warning. and if you really want to confuse things, “pull up” can also refer to taking action. if someone says “it’s time to pull up,” they might mean that it’s time to get to work or to start taking steps toward their goals. while many slang terms are fun without much function, “ghosted” has an actual purpose. it’s a way of describing the unique, very specific instance of someone abruptly ending communication without explanation or further contact. essentially, they disappear like a ghost without a trace. this slang term is most often used in the context of dating or forming relationships and is considered a passive aggressive or cowardly way of ending a relationship. a bit dramatic and extreme, but thankfully not literal, “i’m dead” means that someone finds a situation so hilarious or unbelievable that it’s as if they’re unable to continue living due to laughter or shock. and this slang term is so extra (are you still with me?) that you can use it without having to clarify the context. though i should warn you, this phrase is exclusively used in informal conversations (for obvious reasons). clearly a nod to the idea of gunfire, “shots fired” is used to say that someone has made a pointed, critical statement to someone else. the metaphor here suggests that the remark is akin to a verbal attack or insult, and when someone says “shots fired,” they’re signaling that the remark was provocative or confrontational. however, this phrase can also be used in a lighthearted, teasing way among friends. just imagine telling a “yo mama” joke and someone responding with “ooooo, shots fired.” a bet is an agreement between two people, and that’s exactly what this slang term means. “bet” is often used to mean “okay” or “agreed.” when someone responds with “bet” to a statement or proposal, it’s just a casual way of saying that they understand and accept it. or even more generally, “bet” can be used as a standalone statement meaning “sure” or “definitely,” which is very versatile of it. but also maybe don’t use it in the office. you might have heard of the slang term “lit.” well, “that’s fire” is essentially the same thing. it’s used to express admiration or excitement for something that is considered excellent, impressive, or exciting. for example, imagine trying this really amazing cake for the first time. you might say “that’s fire,” as a way of indicating that you think the cake deserves a ten out of ten. (or you could just be talking about a baked alaska flambé.) if you’re old enough, you probably remember this classic. “beef” has come back in style. if you have “beef” with someone, it usually means you have an ongoing feud or rivalry. this slang term can refer to any kind of disagreement, argument, or rivalry, ranging from personal disputes to conflicts between rival factions or gangs. but keep in mind that you can also use this great term to express a sense of dissatisfaction or resentment towards someone or something. as in, “i have beef with people who fold the corner of book pages as a bookmark.” the new and improved version of yolo, “do it for the plot” is often used humorously to justify making spontaneous decisions and actions for the storyline of your life. for example, if you’re contemplating whether to eat a whole pint of ice cream after dinner, a good friend might say, “do it for the plot.” or maybe it’s about calling out sick for work or buying that standing mixer you’ve always wanted. the idea here is that you should embrace experiences, take risks, and seize opportunities without fearing consequences or regrets. (well, maybe you should have some fear. while being reckless or impulsive can sometimes create positive changes in your life, it can also create some not so positive changes. so be careful with how you choose to wield this phrase.) shaelyn topolovec earned a ba in editing and publishing from byu, worked on several online publications, and joined the familius family. shae is currently an editor and copywriter who lives in california’s central valley.

gen z is currently the second youngest generation, with millennials coming before them and generation alpha after. like every generation, gen z’s behaviors are shaped by how they grew up. young people today have come of age in the shadow of climate doom, pandemic lockdowns, and fears of economic collapse. the earliest gen zers were born when the internet had just achieved widespread use. they’re called “digital natives” the first generation to grow up with the internet as a part of daily life. the generation spans a wide range: the oldest gen zers have jobs and mortgages, while the youngest are still preteens. globally, gen z is growing fast: gen zers will make up a quarter of the population of the asia pacific region by 2025. read on to understand what makes gen z tick. learn more about our growth, marketing & sales practice. slang: the lexicographer’s delight. every generation creates its own language to better understand and participate in its own unique zeitgeist. if you were born before 1996, the lexicon below might help you understand what exactly your gen z colleagues are talking about in the office or on slack. of course, we don’t believe gen zers are taking more “bare minimum mondays” than their older colleagues or, indeed, that anyone should just that they’ve invented a name for it. exercise caution, though, before attempting to use these terms yourself cringe. five to nine (before the nine to five) adj/noun : a productive routine before working your primary job, possibly including exercise or personal projects | my five to nine helps me remember that i’m way more than just my day job. bare minimum monday noun : bare minimum mondays are when people give themselves permission to take it easy the first day of the week; related: sunday scaries | today has to be a bare minimum monday; i need to get myself centered for the week to come.  coded adjective : when something takes on the traits or echoes something else | they are really driving hard for the youth vote. their whole campaign is so gen z coded. cook verb : demonstrating expertise or panache at a particular task | our summer intern’s social media metrics speak for themselves. no need for additional oversight; let her cook! ipad kid noun : a child who struggles without their screens; related: latchkey kid | are ipad kids inevitable in our digital age? loud budgeting noun/verb : sharing financial goals publicly | i am loud budgeting this year, so don’t be surprised if i say no to going out. loud quitting noun/verb : publicly expresses frustration with a job or employer, without necessarily quitting the job; see also: quiet quitting | did you see fred’s rant about his boss? guess he’s loud quitting now. quiet luxury adj/noun : subtle wealth displayed in your habits, personal activities, and clothing | ostentatious logos are so last decade; these days it’s all about the quiet luxury. quiet quitting noun/verb : slightly dialing back at work; just doing the bare minimum necessary to keep your job | my boss asked for volunteers to take on this extra project. not for me! i’m quiet quitting and won’t do anything unless specifically asked. quiet vacationing noun/verb : taking a trip without informing your employer, common among millennials and gen zers with remote jobs | i have to work a bit tonight because i’m quiet vacationing; my boss doesn’t know i’m in paris. stand on business verb : not wavering on a decision that you made; sticking to your word | one thing i’ve learned about the candidate is that she always stands on business. receipts noun : evidence or proof of someone’s actions | she said she would hand in the assignment yesterday, and i have the receipts. understood the assignment verb : when someone meets or exceeds expectations | it was a 90s themed party and they came dressed as the spice girls definitely understood the assignment! no doubt you’re already familiar with the concept of generations within families. your grandparents, parents, children, and children’s children all make up a distinct generation in relation to you. but each of them also belongs to a diffuse category of their peers, grouped together based on when they were born and what they experience during their lives. social scientists have studied generations in theory and more practically for millennia. more recently, thinkers like august comte have argued that generational change is the engine behind social change. specifically, each generation entering into a new life stage at more or less the same time is the pulse that creates the history of a society. andré dua is a senior partner in mckinsey’s miami office, where bo finneman is a partner; erica hutchins coe co leads the mckinsey health institute and is a partner in the atlanta office; jenny cordina is a partner in the detroit office; kana enomoto is a partner in the washington, dc, office; kweilin ellingrud is a mckinsey global institute director and senior partner in the minneapolis office; and raelyn jacobson is a partner in the seattle office. specific major scale events can also shape the outlook of a generation and are often reflected in how they’re named. the lost generation, for example, is named for the malaise and disillusionment experienced by people who lived through world war i. later, the greatest generation was named for the heroic sacrifice many made during world war ii. their children, born soon after the war ended, are called baby boomers; their outlook, in turn, was colored by the vietnam war and the social upheavals of the 1960s. more recently, millennials’ worldviews have been shaped by the september 11 attacks and the proliferation of the internet. of course, these are generalizations: every so called generation comprises a multitude of unique individuals with their own opinions, values, behaviors, and plans for the future. some social scientists even believe that the practice of studying generations can obfuscate what motivates people on an individual level. generational theory should be understood with this caveat, and used only as a way of thinking about society, rather than as the gospel truth. while there are substantive differences within the cohort known as gen z, there are a few commonalities its members share. as the first real digital natives, gen zers speaking generally are extremely online. gen zers are known for working, shopping, dating, and making friends online; in asia, gen zers spend six or more hours per day on their phones. digital natives often turn to the internet when looking for any kind of information, including news and reviews prior to making a purchase. they flit between sites, apps, and social media feeds, each one forming a different part of their online ecosystem. having grown up with social media, gen zers curate their online selves more carefully than those in prior generations have, and they are more likely to turn to trends of anonymity, more personalized feeds, and a smaller online presence, even as they voraciously consume media online. video sharing social media sites have seen a meteoric rise as gen z comes of age. tiktok currently rules trends, feelings, and culture for gen zers, who make up 60 percent of the app’s one billion plus users. gen zers flock to corners of the internet where they can discuss their passions and interests with those who share them from gaming to k pop bonding with both people they know in real life and ones they’ve only met online. gen z is also generally known for its idealism they’re part of a new wave of “inclusive consumers” and socially progressive dreamers. generally speaking, gen zers believe in doing their part to help stop the intensification of climate change and to establish greater equity for all. more than any other generation, gen z collectively demands purpose and accountability, the creation of more opportunities for people of diverse and underrepresented backgrounds, and rigorous sustainable and green practices. learn more about mckinsey’s retail, healthcare, and sustainability practices, and check out our diversity and inclusion collection. gen z is facing an unprecedented behavioral health crisis: us gen zers surveyed by mckinsey report the least positive outlook and the highest prevalence of mental illness of any generation. european respondents also report struggling with self stigma. this pessimism is fueled by growing global unrest, wars and disruptions, financial crises, and educational interruptions due to the covid 19 pandemic. feelings of “climate anxiety” are also widely reported: many gen zers report that they think about the fate of the planet on a daily basis. they are already seeing decreased economic opportunity and don’t assume a social safety net will be there to catch them as pensions shrink, saving for retirement gets more difficult, and the older population grows. already, 58 percent of gen zers in a recent mckinsey survey reported not having a basic social need met the largest percentage by far of any generation. but gen zers also report a more nuanced perspective around the stigma of mental illness than other generations. european gen zers seem less inclined to discriminate against people with mental illness (although they do stigmatize themselves). many of the relationships a person has between the ages of 18 and 24 are complicated and young peoples’ relationship with social media is no exception. yes, it’s true that social media usage can lead to fomo that’s fear of missing out and poor body image. but gen z social media users also report that being online can facilitate self expression and lead to more social connections. mckinsey health institute’s (mhi) 2022 global gen z survey asked more than 42,000 respondents (including more than 16,000 gen z respondents) in 26 countries questions about various aspects of health. the results have shed light on gen zers’ relationships with social media. for one thing, gen zers are more likely than other generations to cite negative feelings about social media. but surprisingly, they’re not necessarily using social media more than their older counterparts. more than 75 percent of respondents in all age groups say they use and check social media sites at least ten minutes a day. baby boomers in eight of the 26 countries surveyed report spending as much time on social media as gen zers, with millennials being the most likely to post online. and while negative impacts of social media were reported across cohorts, positive effects were even more common: more than 50 percent of all groups cited positive outcomes from their time spent on social media. the amount of time someone spends on social media can be a determining factor in whether their experience is mostly positive or negative. negative effects of social media seem to be greatest for younger generations, with particularly pronounced impacts for gen zers who spend more than two hours a day on social media (and gen zers with existing mental health struggles). those on the cusp of gen z and the millennial generation people who were born shortly before the turn of the millennium are sometimes referred to as “zillennials” or “zennials.” that includes older gen zers who’ve been in the workforce for a few years and young millennials who identify more with gen z. however, gen z generally has its own formative experiences distinct from those of most millennials. here are some ways american gen zers differ from their older counterparts: gen zers generally have strong values related to racial justice and sustainability. mobilizations like the global climate march, led by gen z activist greta thunberg, thrive on the activism of young people. climate change is one of the issues gen zers care about most. they frequently call for reform on personal, public, and global scales to prevent future catastrophe. many gen zers describe themselves as environmentally conscious, and the majority of gen z expects to see sustainability commitments from companies and organizations. gen z is also living in a time marked by rapidly rising inflation and financial woes. rising student loan debt also plagues many members of this generation. every new generation entering the workplace experiences struggles. gen zers are getting their first jobs in the wake of an unprecedented global pandemic, rising inflation, climate change, and geopolitical conflict. mckinsey’s american opportunity survey of more than 25,000 americans reveals some key details. for one thing, gen z respondents who are working are more likely than older workers to have independent jobs or multiple jobs. they are less likely than older generations to expect this period of financial insecurity to end; they also are pessimistic about their chances of ever buying a home or retiring. gen zers who are employed full time are more likely to report that the pay they receive does not allow them a good quality of life. they’re also less likely to report feeling fairly recognized and rewarded for their work. only 37 percent of gen z respondents believe that most people in the united states have economic opportunities, suggesting a deep malaise about their own prospects and those of other americans. for more on gen z in the workforce, read our key takeaways from the latest american opportunity survey. gen z loves expressive clothes, wants to stand out rather than fit in, and has an ever changing style what was in a month ago might already be out. their trend chasing habits are supported by fast fashion retailers supplying accessible ways to switch it up. one gen z staple shop, chinese fast fashion giant shein, adds 6,000 new products to its website per day. this may seem at odds with the generation’s values of sustainability, but the speed at which gen z trends change and their desire for unique style can sometimes overcome their eco scruples. gen zers also love thrifting and vintage styles which are much more in line with their calls for circular fashion. both ’90s and y2k style clothes have seen a major comeback, including fast fashion dupes and clothes dug out of closets and thrift stores. fashion resale has experienced massive growth thanks to gen z resellers and influencers, and it’s normal for a gen z wardrobe to be a mix of cheap fast fashion and treasured vintage pieces. learn more about mckinsey’s retail practice. the internet has changed retail forever and shaped the tastes of digital natives. here’s how: and as a generation committed to its values, gen z expects the same of its retailers gen zers often choose brands that have a strong story or purpose, as well as those committed to green practices. in one mckinsey study, 73 percent of gen z reported trying to purchase from companies they consider ethical, and nine out of ten believe that companies have a responsibility to address environmental and social issues. however, they can tell when a brand is just paying lip service and isn’t backing up diversity or sustainability claims with real change. many gen zers throughout asia see the internet as the first place to go when researching new products to purchase; in the united states, 40 percent of gen zers admit to being influenced online, often by the brands featured in the videos they watch. members of gen z filter a lot of information, from influencers, family, and friends, to decide where and how they want to spend. for more in depth exploration of these topics, see mckinsey’s generation z collection. learn more about gen z insights by subscribing to our newsletter and check out entry level job opportunities if you’re interested in working at mckinsey. articles referenced: this article was updated in august 2024; it was originally published in march 2023. talk to us

as our friends over at nasa began saying in the 1960s, we’ve got t minus (approximately) 365 hours, 30 minutes, and 37 seconds until the 2025 mls season kicks off for your loons. you’ll have to adjust my calculations when you read this, obviously, but i think we should all synchronize our watches and take this as seriously as a rocket launch. strap in, you loons, as we finish our preseason preparations and prepare for liftoff. all systems go following their trip to santa barbara, the boys in black and blue spent the week training in the nsc dome. with player fitness now thoroughly assessed and nearly back up to playing standards, the focus of training sessions has taken on a tactical over technical shift. with the squad broken up into three groups, players took turns listening to coach ramsay’s instructions on how to move as a group off the ball, when to press quickly, and how to make every movement intentional. with assistant coaches surrounding the team from all angles, no player was ever too far away from a guiding hand, refining and sharpening the loons’ ability to maintain an effective block and identify pressing triggers. patience and movement were the keys to success in this week’s sessions and any future success the team hopes to achieve, as emphasized by chief soccer officer khaled el ahmad. “the evolution this year is toward being a little bit more patient and dominant on the ball, because some of our possession numbers weren't great,” el ahmad said. “at times, we need to be more careful when we have it. one, to be able to rest, and two, so we don't give it up in transition. otherwise, we just need to be better at what we were good at. you know, stay compact. be good at pressing, whether we do it all over the pitch or we drop in the half, then we try to measure the back line and the forward, how close they are to each other in various situations, and finish attacks. you'll see a lot of the same but better. i would hope that you slowly start seeing a little bit more improvement in our possession. but i always say possession with purpose.” as shifting ice and whipping winds moved the dome above them, the players locked in during this week of preparation ahead of the coachella valley invitational, knowing that the next step in their ramp up to the season will be the hardest yet. with three full matches scheduled against skc, la galaxy, and nycfc next week, they’ll have to be at their best both mentally and physically if they want to get this season started off properly. all three of those matches can be streamed for free right here on mnufc.com, so be sure to tune in on this page. transfer news i’ve already written an article with further details on new signings nicolás romero and hoyeon jung, and there will surely be more news on the way, so i wanted to take a moment to gather all of the roster updates for you. check out this list of player movement from mnufc so far this window: nicolás romero   atlético tucumán hoyeon jung   gwangju fc miguel tapias   c.d. guadalajara alejandro bran   l.d. alajuelense (loan) teemu pukki   hjk helsinki matúš kmeť   górnik zabrze (loan) ethan bristow   contract termination the squad is taking a new shape this season, and with more time left in the window, that shape is far from final. chief soccer officer khaled el ahmad spoke to the press about the club’s transfer business earlier this week. “i’m excited with the players that we're bringing in and, again, excited with the squad that we currently have,” el ahmad said. “it's a complex thing to put together a lot of moving pieces. the recruitment team has done great, and i feel that we're taking the necessary steps to get better every window, and i think we will be doing the same this year. i do anticipate another signing coming in. i think then we will hold and see in the couple of weeks a little bit more what happens. obviously, our window is open a little bit longer.” beyond this window’s business, el ahmad shared his thoughts on the current make up of the squad, a team that has gotten progressively younger since his arrival in minnesota. “i do think we have good experience,” he said. “we have some players that are in their peak, meaning, you know, from 23 to 29, and then we also have a young core. i'm excited about some of the young players coming, like romero, who already has a lot of games under his belt. jung also comes with experience. he's not an unproven player. they come with a level of experience that i think will help us improve. they're all very good people, and i think everything from the environment is always the first thing that i think is the most important. but otherwise, i like the flexibility. i have players that are willing to play in different formations.” with a flexible roster and some time to put finishing touches on the core group, it seems that the loons are right where they want to be in terms of personnel. all that’s left is a few warm up matches to show that the tactical vision is coming together, and then we’ve got ourselves a season to watch, folks.

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back to talking therapies and counselling talking therapies are psychological treatments for mental and emotional problems like stress, anxiety and depression. there are lots of different types of talking therapy, but they all involve working with a trained therapist. this may be one to one, in a group, online, over the phone, with your family, or with your partner. the therapist helps you understand and cope with the problems you're having. for some problems and conditions, one type of talking therapy may be better than another. different talking therapies also suit different people. you can get some talking therapies, like counselling for depression and cognitive behavioural therapy (cbt), on the nhs. you can refer yourself directly to an nhs talking therapies service without a referral from a gp. if you prefer, see a gp and they can refer you and share relevant information about you. if you’re under 18, or want to get help for someone under 18, find out how to get mental health support for children and young people. the aim of cbt is to help you explore and change how you think about your life, and free yourself from unhelpful patterns of behaviour. you set goals with your therapist and may carry out tasks between sessions. a course might include 5 to 20 sessions, with each session lasting 30 to 60 minutes. cbt has been shown to work for a variety of mental health problems, including: cbt is available on the nhs for people with depression, anxiety disorders and other mental and physical health problems that it's been proven to help. read more about talking therapies on the nhs. there are also self help therapies like books and computer courses based on cbt to help you overcome common problems like depression. you can try some practical self help cognitive behavioural therapy (cbt) techniques on the every mind matters website. find out more about cbt guided self help is recommended as a treatment for some types of depression, anxiety, panic disorder and obsessive compulsive disorder (ocd). with guided self help you work through a cbt based workbook or computer course with the support of a therapist. the therapist works with you to understand your problems and make positive changes in your life. guided self help aims to give you helpful tools and techniques that you can carry on using after the course has finished. during the course your therapist will support you with face to face, online or phone appointments. see some more self help therapies. counselling is a talking therapy where you talk in confidence to a counsellor. they help you find ways to deal with difficulties in your life. you may be offered counselling on the nhs if, for example, you: counselling on the nhs may be offered as a single session or a course of sessions over a period of weeks or months. read more about counselling. counselling for depression has been specially developed to help people understand the underlying causes of their depression. counselling for depression is available through nhs talking therapies services. it's usually offered to people who have mild to moderate depression and have already tried other therapies, such as guided self help, or other therapies are not suitable for them. behavioural activation is a talking therapy that aims to help people with depression take simple, practical steps towards enjoying life again. it may be offered one to one or in a group with regular meetings or phone calls with a therapist. the aim is to give you the motivation to make small, positive changes in your life. you'll also learn problem solving skills to help you tackle problems that are affecting your mood. you'll usually be offered about 16 to 20 sessions. ipt is a talking treatment that helps people with depression identify and address problems in their relationships with family, partners and friends. the idea is that poor relationships with people in your life can leave you feeling depressed. depression can in turn make your relationships with other people worse. you may be offered ipt if you have mild to moderate depression that hasn't responded to other talking therapies, such as cbt. ipt is usually offered for 16 to 20 sessions. emdr is a talking therapy that's been developed to help people who have post traumatic stress disorder (ptsd). people who have ptsd may experience intrusive thoughts, memories, nightmares or flashbacks of traumatic events in their past. emdr helps the brain reprocess memories of the traumatic event so the negative images, emotions and physical feelings they cause have less impact. emdr can be a distressing process, so it's important to have a good support network of family and friends around you if you plan to try it. a course of treatment is likely to be 8 to 12 sessions. mindfulness based therapies help you focus on your thoughts and feelings as they happen, moment by moment. mbct is used to help prevent depression coming back, and to help some types of anxiety and stress. mbct combines mindfulness techniques like meditation and breathing exercises with cognitive therapy, which is about learning how to manage your thoughts and how they make you feel. find out more: psychodynamic psychotherapy looks at how childhood experiences and thoughts you're not aware of (your unconscious mind) affect your thinking, feelings, relationships and behaviour today. you talk to a therapist, one on one, about your thoughts and feelings. this type of talking therapy may be offered for around 16 sessions. short term psychodynamic psychotherapy (stpp) may be offered on the nhs to people who have depression or depression plus a long term health condition. couple therapy can help people who have depression that may be linked to problems in their relationship with their partner. it's sometimes called behavioural couple therapy (bct) or couple therapy for depression (ctfd). couple therapy usually includes 15 to 20 sessions over 5 to 6 months. it may be offered by an nhs talking therapies service if other therapies, like cbt, have not helped. your partner will need to be willing to go through therapy with you. animated video explaining self referral to talking therapies services for stress, anxiety or depression. includes british sign language (bsl) translation. page last reviewed: 17 february 2022 next review due: 17 february 2025 © crown copyright

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supported by guest essay by stephen marche mr. marche is the author, most recently, of “the next civil war.” my son just completed high school and when he leaves for college in the fall my life will change in ways i’m still struggling to contemplate. among the things i’ll miss most are his lessons in teenage slang. my son has always been generous with me, and i’ve found the slang of his generation to be so much better and more useful than any that i’ve ever used. his slang has also offered me an accidental and useful portrait of how he and his generation see the world. the primary value of slang has been to create linguistic shibboleths, a way to differentiate yourself quickly from other people. sometimes the distinction was generational, sometimes it was racial, and sometimes it was ideological, but the slang itself was ultimately a form of social etiquette. from one generation to the next, the terms changed, but the meanings typically didn’t. new words were routinely adopted to express familiar concepts: one generation’s “cool” becomes another’s “dope” and so on. members of my son’s generation have a vastly superior approach to slang. they’ve devised a language that responds to the new and distinct reality they face. anyone with children, especially ones on the cusp of adulthood, has to reckon with the shameful fact that the world we’re leaving them is so much worse than the one we brought them into. my son’s slang reflects that: it’s a distinct language created for a society that’s characterized, online and off, by collapsing institutions, erosions in trust and a loss of faith in a shared sense of meaning. “mid” is an obvious example. i don’t think it even qualifies as teenage slang anymore    it’s too useful and, by now, too widespread. in my son’s usage, things that are mid are things that are essentially average or slightly below. you can’t really complain about them, but they produce no joy. they’re often the result of the refinement of market research to the exact level that tepid consumer acceptance is achieved. everything in starbucks falls into the category of “mid.”