That depends on the drum set you are currently using and what you are looking for. 
Normally for electronic drums, the sounds you hear on your headphones are created by a control unit, not the drum pads themselves. When looking at possibly quieter pads, you have to make sure that your control unit is compatible. It's probably a good idea to look for pads by the same manufacturer as your original set.
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