One popular method to fight social anxiety is to shift your focus from yourself and how you may come across to others. You should instead try making the other person feel at ease and relaxed, it also helps if you show genuine interest in them. Ultimately it doesn't matter what you call this, people will pick up on your good intentions and it's almost always appreciated.
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