Points 1 and 3 seem like a good place to start. Gaining experience, knowledge, and being a role model are lifetime goals that are never truly completed, only bettered over time.
For point 1 being a good listener can be practiced and developed in a short period of time with little external effort. Just be mindful of this goal in your daily conversations.
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