I've been like this ever since I was in school; back then I transferred to another school. Now I'm thinking about changing my job.
I keep on changing my life when things get tough
It's great that you are at least aware of what pushes you to seek change in your life.If you were in session with me, one of the first things I'd explore is what "tough" means for you. Is it relationship issues with other people? Or tasks related to your job? Or is it something else? It's important to know what you may be trying to escape in order to work with it. For example, if you tend to make changes when you are faced with a commitment, then there would be something about commitment that scared you and the work would be focused there.One thing to think about is that most people tend to run from things that they believe they can't handle or get through. Could this be happening in your situation? If it is, there could be some underlying fears present that you are incompetent or you will fail. What's interesting about that is that some people avoid change for the very same reasons. It's actually quite amazing that you handle so much change in your life and have for a very long time. That shows you can handle a lot!The last thought I have is that the more you push through the tough stuff, the more you will have confidence in your ability to do that. You don't have to feel confident to start the process--in fact, many people feel very vulnerable and terrified sticking with decisions that are out of their comfort zone. Having social support, even if it's just one person, is so important when you're facing your fears. That could mean counseling, or a partner, friend, family member, etc. Doing it alone is another level of tough.You may be at the point in your life where you are just seeking some answers and aren't feeling ready to address what's happening and that's OK. No one wants to go blindly into this kind of work. There's no rush to figure it all out right now. Give yourself some time to let things unfold!