Im a man, and Im soon to be married. I have been messing around with other men on the side. It started as a once in a while thing, but its been happening a lot. I don't know what to do.
I would start by examining the reasons for seeking out other relationships. Are you getting something from the other men that you do not currently receive from your current partner? Such as,is itmore exciting with others and that excitement is lacking in your current relationship?