I decided to stay and work it out. I just dont want to sit on the couch. Other than that, I have been getting over the situation. I don't feel it is fair that she expects me to sit on that couch and wont leave me alone about it. I can move on and continue to love, laugh, and play with my wife. I just don't want to sit on that couch.
Am I wrong because I dont want to sit on the same couch my wife had sex with another man on while we were still married?
Houston, It's normal for this kind of thing to be a trigger, so I get why you don't want to sit on it, but to keep refusing keeps the affair alive. Am I to assume that you can't afford a new one? Ideally, she buys you a new couch, but it certainly would be a gesture of love for you to do it too and it will help you both move forward.t will be interesting to see if there's anything else that keeps the problem alive after the couch is long gone.