Funeral ArrangementsFuneral arrangements are usually made by the funeral directors engaged. They are well aware of the requirements for a Catholic funeral and work with you and the minister who will be conducting the service.
​The following information is taken from Catholic Funerals – A Guide by the Catholic Liturgy Office of England & Wales.
Prayer VigilThis is the principal rite celebrated between death and the funeral itself. It is the first stage of the farewell journey; its mood is one of quiet support which helps to prepare the bereaved for the final leave-taking.
a funeral liturgy outside Mass.
CommittalThe rite of committal usually follows on immediately from the funeral liturgy. This final act of leave-taking is celebrated at the graveside or at the crematorium. When a body is cremated the funeral liturgy is concluded with the interring of ashes sometime afterwards.
How do I plan a funeral?Planning Guides are available which contain the choice of readings and prayers. Into Your Hands, prepared for the Bishops' Conference, also contains helpful advice on the form of the funeral service.
Who can help me plan a funeral?The priest, deacon, or other members of the parish community will be happy to help.
Can I have a poem or favourite song?There are opportunities for personal choices in each of the three stages of the funeral. Secular poems and songs often fit best in the prayer vigil, but there is also an opportunity for Words in Remembrance towards the end of the funeral liturgy. Care should be taken that the words of any material is in keeping with our Christian faith.
Can a stillborn baby have a funeral?Yes, the Church provides a special service within its collection of liturgies Order of Christian Funerals. It can also be adapted for parents who have suffered a miscarriage.
What about cremation?Catholics in this country can be cremated. The Church encourages the bereaved to bury the ashes in a final resting place.
What are the financial implications?If the family wishes to use a funeral director, it is quite proper to invite estimates from different firms.