I think what happens to woke and “trans” ideologues like this one - is they see the world though the lense of victim hierarchies. This means they feel threatened when someone who’s supposed to be the “oppressor” says and shows they’re being harassed, or attacked, targeted or even “victimised” by the very people who are supposed to be the “oppressed” ones.  It makes ideologues feel uncomfortable because it challenges their cult narrated worldview and could potentially affect the value of their victimhood currency.   Then they accuse you of “playing victim” to make themselves feel better about their own victimhood role playing.  In other words: These people are just cry bullies.