Exactly. I posted about reasons for divorce and unsurprisingly multiple men told me quite openly and plainly that women’s grievances in relationships are generally  trivial and frivolous and shouldn’t be reasons for divorce.   While there is of course something to be said for working through your issues as a couple, it is no wonder that so many marriages fail when men begin with the premise that their partners feelings and concerns are stupid and not worth taking seriously.   You cannot “work through” things with someone who has this sort of attitude and women won’t stay with men who show contempt and disregard for their thoughts and feelings because ultimately, such a man cannot be trusted or relied on.