"i&#039;m only on day 4 and already feeling a difference. i&#039;m a 33 year old male and have been depressed for about 5 years and also suffer from anxiety in the form of being a chronic worry wort. i would find things to worry about. it&#039;s almost ended my marriage. i was brought up in a world where therapy and medication was taboo.  at the urging of my wife, i saw my physician this week and she put me on 20 mg and therapy. i&#039;m only 4 days in, but already noticed a calming effect.  the only side effects i&#039;ve noticed thus far is drowsiness, but it seems if i take a quick 5-10 min nap after feeling drowsy, i&#039;m good. my physician says it will go away after a few weeks. haven&#039;t had sex yet so i can&#039;t comment on sexual side effects."