"i just had my first baby in november. i knew i wanted to wait at least 3 years for the next. i was on the patch before and loved it but i didn&#039;t like having to remember to switch it. my dr recommended mirena. 10 weeks after my son was born i had it put in. i actually didn&#039;t feel anything. didn&#039;t hurt and no cramping. i have had it in for about a month now. i have spotting on and off but not a big deal. no cramping. no weight gain. sex drive unaffected. i love not having to worry about it. for those complaining about insertion if you haven&#039;t had a kid try skyla instead. it&#039;s smaller and you should have less insertion pain. for those who just had a kid get it in as soon as you can while your cervix is still &quot;loose&quot; don&#039;t wait."