"28, never had kids. so i had skyla put in the 19th of november. the experience of having it put in is something i wasn&#039;t prepared for. it wasn&#039;t that it was cramps, i felt more of intense pressure then anything else. 9.5/10 pain.  i&#039;m now a week in to having it and let me tell you, i am an emotional wreck. one minute i am happy, next i&#039;m definitely not!  i have no idea how long this is going to last, but i sure as hope not for long. it&#039;s ridiculous. now, as for the bleeding. i have not had any of the spotting, or anything of the sort. so that&#039;s a plus. occasionally i will feel slight cramps but only really minor. as for the sex part, my partner has felt the wire or thread a few time during intercourse. so thats not fun.."