How to Make Anyone Fall in Love With You
Leil Lowndes
Contemporary Books
Lowndes is an impressive author. Pity she cannot be objective. For her it is not ok to go after someone significantly better looking than yourself. But it is ok to go after someone significantly richer than yourself. A typical chick bias.
Men - better get advice from your brothers Clink, La Ruina or Valentine. They are more on your side. 
Her: "Undercover Sex Signals" are great though.