prompt: Write an article about grief. Keep the word count under 400 words. Talk about how adults and children sometimes grieve and remind the reader that it's important to allow time to grieve for each family member, even kids.
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chosen.content: Write an article about grief. Keep the word count under 400 words. Talk about how adults and children sometimes grieve and remind the reader that it's important to allow time to grieve for each family member, even kids.
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chosen.content: Dealing with Grief and Loss
  
  Tragedy strikes when we least expect it and the loss may turn your world (and your family’s) upside-down. This is particularly true with the loss of a loved one. Pain and grief come to the family and hits hard, especially to children. Children often feel it more intensely and may have a harder time recovering from the loss. How do you deal with the grief and the pain? How will you help your children who are looking to you for stability and security?
  
  Here are some reminders to help you as you deal with grief yourself and also try to muster up the comfort that your children may need during this difficult time.
  
  - Make time for your grief. The process of grieving takes time – there may be even some instances when you feel that the grief will just not let up. The time immediately after the death of a loved one may be a busy one – there is the funeral and burial to be arranged, well-wishers and mourners to be looked after. However, you should give yourself and your family time to sit down and grieve. Acknowledge your feelings – don’t suppress them. 
  
  - Grieve in your own way. People grieve in different ways. As long as you are not doing anything harmful to yourself or others, you can choose to grieve in your own way. Don’t allow anyone to set a timetable for your grief or tell you how to feel. In the same way, don’t push children to overcome their grief within a certain timetable. 
  
  - Realize that it’s normal to be angry. Anger is a part of the process of grieving. Your children may go through a period where they express anger at what has happened that resulted in the tragic loss of a loved one. Don’t belittle or deny the child’s feelings but reassure him or her of your presence at this time.
  
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rejected.content: Write an article about grief. Keep the word count under 400 words. Talk about how adults and children sometimes grieve and remind the reader that it's important to allow time to grieve for each family member, even kids.
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