Definition: Read the given text and if it has abusive content then indicate via "yes". Otherwise indicate via"no". 
We consider the content to be abusive if it contains any of the following instances: (1) Identity Directed Abuse (e.g., Content which contains a negative statement made against an identity. An identity is a social category that relates to a fundamental aspect of individuals community, socio-demographics, position or self-representation) (2) Affiliation Directed Abuse (e.g., Content which express negativity against an affiliation. We define affiliation as a (more or less) voluntary association with a collective. Affiliations include but are not limited to: memberships (e.g. Trade unions), party memberships (e.g. Republicans), political affiliations (e.g. Right-wing people) and occupations (e.g. Doctors).) (3) Person Directed Abuse (e.g., Content which directs negativity against an identifiable person, who is either part of the conversation thread or is named. Person-directed abuse includes serious character based attacks, such as accusing the person of lying, as well as aggression, insults and menacing language.) and (4) Counter Speech (e.g., Content which challenges, condemns or calls out the abusive language of others.). Note that URLs in the text have been replaced with [Link].
Input: It can be really hard to hear this. But I think you should hear it... This is kind of abuse on her part.    I went through something similar, and if you're open to suggestions, however small, I would suggest this.    This "abuse" doesn't mean things can't be fixed. She most likely doesn't even realize she's doing it. One of the most important things in relationships is communication. That being said, it's important that you communicate to her how you're feeling about this. I would advise sitting down, no TV on or electronics in hand, no distractions. A real talk.    I don't know enough about you guys and your relationship to say more, but as a random internet stranger, I would strongly recommend communicating this to her. You live together and are starting great careers. It sounds like your relationship has great potential. It's good for you to be able to communicate through issues like this.    Good luck friend, I sincerely hope you and your love can fix this.

no