text: Maybe what you are going through now, someone else had gone through it. Maybe what they chose to do in the end was a good or bad decision. They could help you through what you should or shouldn't do on their past experiences with that issue. They could teach you stating how it specifically affected them on what they chose to say in the end. They also may tell you what the would have done differently in the end so what they chose would have had a better outcome or if they wouldn't have changed anything.