text: Why do people have a hard time figuring out what the best option is you might ask. The answer is because they are unsure. When people ask for help they might have a easier time figuring out the things that they will do. There are many times when people ask for help or ask for your response and you might not even realize you're doing it. Some examples may include; a family member asking if there food is good, a teacher asking if you need help, or somebody asking you to explain something to them.