text: Once you ask multiple people for their advice then there will be less stress on your shoulders. When you do others will be telling your their opinions, and their way at looking at your options. When looking at your options from a different stand point you will be able to think using a different mind set, so you can figure out the best options and know what not to choose. Once you've narrowed down your options you can continue to look at your choices in many different view points until you have found the best option.