text: What you are to the person also influences there decision. For example if a girl asks her mom for advice she is going to most likely take her moms advice opposed to her friends advice. Many thing can influence a decision but when it comes down to the matter of the fact you have to make the decision its all up to you. You can take the advice if you think its good advice or you can leave it. It all comes down to you. You should also know who to ask. Some people have better judgment then others.