text: Lastly, you may not get the right answer from just one person. Often times, you will not find the answer from the first person you ask. Actually, it might take several people to get the right answer. Normally, the answer will seem to just pop up, and it is probably not going to be from the first person you asked. Although it might seem to, advice doesn't come from thin air, and not even your most trusted friend will be able to just make it appear.