text: Seeking multiple opinions can change your response to things. Picture it like you want to purchase an expensive dress but you need that money for a gift to your mom. Buying the dress would make you happy but then your left with nothing for you mom, so you turn to your best friend for advice. She says not to buy the dress but you're still conflicted on the options. Then you go ask more friends they all say to not buy it except one. That one friend tells you to find a dress that cost a lot less so you can have leftover money for the gift. If you would've stuck to the first opinion you would not have explored another option.