text: Lastly, when someone takes advice they might think it is a good idea in the beginning but then when they do it, it is a really bad decision. Which means they just spent a lot of time asking for help and trying to figure out what to do, then they do it, and they are so upset about how it turned out. When someone makes a decision it is normally a good one and they are happy about it, but there is that rare case where the person who makes the decision is very upset about what they did, and often question it. I agree that if it is a small thing like what cereal they are going to eat or what color to use, they should not flip out, but if it is a life decision type thing and they choose something that will mess with their career or something, then they will be upset. For example, if someone went into the medical field and they messed up a surgical trial for someone they loved, that could cost them their career.