text: When you are seeking for someone's opinions in a situation and you decide to ask multiple people for their opinions and see what they say. You are then given the choice to pick and choose what you believe is the best choice. And I mean pick and choose like, who's advice is the best to follow? who's advice will actually help me in the long run?, Just by thinking about those questions it will lead you to the right choice. if in a situation you seek out to multiple people you should always consider what you want, and what will help you make the right choice in your situation. You are getting the opportunity to have multiple people seek out to you and help you, so you should most definitely use it to the best of your abilities. A lot of people always say "if you are given an opportunity you should most definitely take advantage of it". If you reach out to some family members or friends you should listen to the person who has gone through the same thing or something similar because their advice may be the most accurate.