text: I have experience this before and let me tell you i wish someone said all of this to me back then. I had to make a decision between my boyfriend and my best friend. When me and my boyfriend started dating my best friend kept complaining that i hanged out more with him than her and that we barely see each other anymore, which was true. One day she told me i had to chose between them of who i wanted to be with because she wasn't gonna be waiting around for me to act like a friend. I thought it was dumb and she was way out of line but i had a few days to figure everything out. Of course i couldn't decide on my own so the only person i asked was one my other friends because she knew both my best friend and boyfriend. She told me if i was happy with my boyfriend that if my best friend is really my friend she should understand that and deal with it . I thought that made sense so thats what i told my best friend and she said "i understand your happy with him but what is what i don't understand is why you have to be with him all the time, but i guess you made your decision". Then she left before giving me a chance to say anything. I went home and started crying , my mom asked what was wrong and i told her everything that happened. She gave me some advice to what i should do and should've done and i started thinking that if i just would have asked my mom or anyone else for advice I wouldn't have lost my best friend. If that happened to me imagine of what other people been through or lost to just because they didnt ask other people for advice and didnt think they had many options.