text: An example would be you have a friend that took something from you without your permission. You could act without considering and start a argument and in the end not even receive your item back that they stole. You could ask one person and have a one sided opinion. The one person could tell you to just take back your item and not to talk to them anymore. The best choice would be to ask many people you trust and that give good advice. Many people may agree that you should rationally ask for your item back. This would most likely result in getting your item back and keeping a friend.