text: Advice has helped me a lot throughout the years. Whether it's family, friends, or maybe even your teacher! Maybe the person your talking to has been in your same shoes. This helps so much because they can tell you what they did or even the outcome of the situation. Often, if someone is in your same shoes then it makes it so much easier to decide. I have been in a situation similar to this. Good thing my mom helped me get through it because she had been in the exact situation. Trust someone to keep this decision to themselves. It would be awful if a friend told everyone at school right? Don't be scared to talk to people because they could've been in your shoes one time.