text: After comparing and contrasting, we can then sort out our pros and cons. As a result, we get a clear idea of the effects of our actions and we can come to the best decision. However, another result of talking to other people is that you learn not only how your choice affects you, but the people around you. While this process may seem messy and conflicting, it is, in my opinion, one of the best ways to get to the best decision.