text: Asking for multiple pieces of advice can help you figure out your problem. If your problem is that you don't know what you want to do with your life. Some people don't really know how to help a child with that so they will say some sort of line that they got off of a pillow at a yard sale. Others will try to tell you that it will come naturally and there is a plan for everything. You start to get frustrated that everyone is saying advice that they would want to hear or they do not care about how they shape your future. You are looking for certain advice but you do not know what it is but you start to piece together all of the advice you have and get something meaningful out of everything.