text: Some people you ask may be bad influences, which would be why two of your answers were positive but the other one was more towards the negative side of things. Trust is another very important part of all this because if you don't trust a certain person, they may lie and leave you with a bad decision. This also ties into why you should always ask at least one other person. Adults vs kids! nine out of ten times a kid will have a different answer that an adult, so asking both won't hurt, and will let you know if an adult would appreciate your decision.