text: Next when asking for advice you should listen from others if they have shared the same question or learned from a similar experience. If someone has had an experience where they have been facing the same problems as you the probably know what to do in that situation. Listening to these experiences makes you wiser and more understanding of the challenge that you are seeking advice for. This could also lead to you giving advice that has been passed down to you by former experiences of others and helping out. If they have had a similar experience and it wasn't good that would help you make a better decision than they did and learn from their mistakes.