text: They might just also go get advice from multiply people to see which advice the person gives them is best. They can also just be going to person to person for advice to see if they are really there and car about you when your going through a really difficult time. They can be doing that because the person they went to first was not really giving them advice about what your going through and just throwing things in that donÃÂ´t even make sense. I would just go to someone that really gets you and is there for you and knows how you feel.