text: Whenever I make an important decision about a task or something I want to accomplish, I normally will make a pros and cons chart. With denying yourself the opritunity to hear advice from multiple people you are denying yourself to hear multiple pros and multiple cons. For example, let's say person 'A' gives me all cons about a summer job, if I only listen to person 'A' I will most likely not get a summer job. While if I choose to hear multiple options, I will listen to the advice from person 'B' who gives me all pros. Now I have options of both pros and cons to make the right decision for me.