text: By talking to other people, you're letting others hear about your choice and they can think on it. When someone else hears that you need advice, other people are willing to give advice on what to do and what not to do. You can hear more than one side of opinions. You'll have multiple helpful tips on what to say and do. Back not too long ago, I needed advice on a certain matter, and i asked many different people so I can get the best advice and to see which one was the best and the smartest way to deal with that matter.