text: In order to make a better choice, you need to know both sides of the problem. Asking different people can help you see different points of view. One time, my friend was mad at me; I didn't know what I did to upset her. So I went to a few of my other close friends and asked what I might've done to aggravate her in the first place. After I was done walking them through what happened, they explained to me what I had done to upset my friend and helped me see what I could do to fix it. If I had not gone to multiple people I may have never seen the other side of the story.