text: The next thing that you can do and will help you, is ask them "why" they chose that answer or, "how" they did. This helps so that you can better understand, and get a little back ground information on why they made that decision. It makes it so that you aren't questioning why did they choose that anwser, how did they come down to that becoming something they would choose for themselves or you, and so you're not questioning if you should've picked that answer or not. All in all, since you're asking some one why they choose that, you can better understand how, or understand how they think and process answers for there outcome, so that in the future you can understand more about making decisions on your own instead of asking others.