text: To begin, if you talk to more than one person and you keep getting the same response, whether it is a debate on if i should obey my parents or not. Then you should listen to the highest amount of answers and also, the trusted ones. One persons thought can be different from another, but multiple people with the same thought is best. It is hard to figure out what is best for us because our mind and our heart think differently. Talking to more than one person also helps because some people may have been through what we are going through, which once again, tells us whats best.