text: Some people have already gone through that, so they know what's the correct advice to give you. They know what it feels like. They know how you feel, and what advice will make it better. They know what's correct for you at that time. They've gone through it so they know hat's right. They know hat will help you more in the future. They know what will be most helpful for you in the future, since they were there in same place where you are today. Experienced people can give you better advice with better choices, since they've gone all throgh it.