text: Finally, having people tell you if it's a wise or unwise choice and telling you what could happen as an end result makes the stress ease off a little. When people tell you if it's a smart thing to do or not makes the process a little better because you can think on how to make a better choice and not lean on making a bad one. If others help you realize the outcomes that may occur of the situation, it makes it better to pick which one you would rather have. Knowing all the end results that may occur and the things that may happen between helps making a decision easier. When you have people who are honest about things and doesn't hold back on telling you if it's a good choice are good people to talk to when decision making.