text: When somebody is asking you for help or is asking for advice they want you to help them. The person giving advice wants what is best for you so always go with what they said once you explain your situation or what you want. I would ask the person first and say why do you give that advice, or why do you say that, or why is that your opinion and see if they can back up their answer with a good reason. If they can give a good reason than I would go for it to do what is best for me. Also if it would help then go ahead and do what you need to do to get the problem over with or whatever your situation is.dear: