text: Also, seeking advice from multiply people is like having a pro's and con's list read to you with information to back it up. Where one person might think its good to do one thing but, someone else thinks its a terrible thing to do. Then the person deciding could have a clear understanding of both sides of the argument and that could make the decision a lot easier. By getting all information good and bad together they can focus on whichever decision that was most talked about good or bad and see if they agree with it. Sometimes its good to know both sides of the argument to get a better understanding of the situation. So if in the future they'll know what to do and what not to do.