text: One thing a lot of people dont understand is that if you get the same awnser or a similar one from more than one person you think well they must be lieing or theres no way thats the right way, But a lot of the time it is and you either hurt the person your trying to make up with more or your making there friends mad because you didnt listen to what they had to say. Rember your trying to help so take there advice espcially if they known the person longer.