text: Did I have any experience in those heart-stopping games? No. Did I listen to someone who had no experience in those regretful activities? Yes. Should I have listened to more people who had experience in that area of witch craft? Absolutely! Now that I am older I know that what we did was not that scary and wasn't even haunting but I sure regret ruining my once exciting birthday party. If you are in desperate need for advice go to someone with experience and not someone who doesn't even know what a ghost is. Let's say my friend who was opposing to the idea did have a say in the matter, I would have a much more pleasing party and all the kids wouldn't be sent home with their nails digging into their parents' arms. One wrong statement can change the whole situation and one pleasing eight year old appropriate idea can save parties.