text: Lastly, we sometimes listen to those who have a strong opinion for or against something without even considering what is best for you. Those people are very selfish, and if we aren't careful we will listen to them. In my boy vs. friends situation I have asked these type of people whose opinions are so strong, rather it's what is best for me or not. They're so for one side and their opinions are so strong it seems like they know they are talking about. They often times have very good arguments on why they think what they think and what they are saying might be true. However, it isn't always what I need to hear or what is best for me and my life.