text: The second reason you should go to more than one person for advice is because certain advice can change the way you feel. Some advice can also change the way you look at things. You will look at the bigger picture about sitautions. For example, if you feel a type of way about a conflict you had with someone then, you go to your friend about whatever the case may be, her advice can change the way you feel about the whole situation. You might think the whole conflict was childish after, you had that talk with your friend. That advice your friend gave you about that whole situation, may make you even want to aplogize to the person you had that conflict with.