text: Looking for the good in the bad or being optimistic will help influence that person making the good choice. I always thought that being optimistic when asking more the person for advice is key because I never know what that person could say or tell me about my decision, idea, or situation. Having this trait is good for seeking advice especially when is more than one person because the advice a person gives us we might not like, so it is good to stay positive at these moments. Being optimistic will help that person look for the pros and cons of his or hers of the advice given to them. That means that when looking for the good he or she should consider the to make the best choice possible. With good always comes bad, but with being optimistic that person should be able to handle the advice from than one person and listen to effectively make the better choice for themselves or those around them from the advice that was given to them.