text: Lastly, another reason why people ask for others opinion is so that they will be approved and accepted by others. I'd rather ask for others opinions then choose for myself and then be outcasted and embarrased. Being rejected and not loved is one of my worst fears, so I'm not gonna let it happen by making the wrong choice. Being outcasted by the entire school just because you wore the wrong thing or you said something that somebody didn't approve of is heartbreaking. Everyone wants to be loved and accepted by others, so why don't we just ask for their way of seeing things. Most of my classmates feel the same way. I think we all just want to fit in and be normal.