text: You're not alone, many people struggle with this. This can lead to so much confusion that is very easy to avoid. No one wants to do the wrong thing, which is why it's important to take advice from others first. Seeking multiple opinions for advice can help you think through your options more without making an impulse decision, you can be absolutely sure that the choice you are making is the right one, and your final decision can be very educated after hearing everyone else's opinion.