text: When is comes to perspective, especially in conflicts between others, it is very important to have more than one point of view. This is because people think in different ways, so it is key to take as much of those ways into consideration as possible. On top of that, you, or even other people, may be biased. If you argue with a friend, you may think it is best not to apologize later simply because of the fact that you think you're right, and that apologizing would make you look like you're admitting you're at fault. Also, if you ask for the opinion of a friend that you explained the whole situation to in a way that made the other person look bad, they might side with you as well. This is why you should ask that friend for an opinion, as well as a friend of the person you were arguing with, to get both points of view. That way you can both explain how you feel, so that each side can be understood. Part of perspective is about the way you look at things, which is why it is good to listen and take into consideration the other ways people may look at how things went down.