text: Now, If you are going to talk to people, it is very important to ask more than one person for their advice on the matter. I think the reason why a lot of people ask around, is because they are unsure of their own opinion on something, and want support and help from others. If you are ever in a situation where you don't agree with someone, reassure yourself by asking other people. If you are ever on the opposite end of this matter make sure to take the person's problem seriously. If your peer or friend feels confident enough to talk to you, you should never crush that confidence or act as though their problems are minuscule and unworthy of your help. It is important to take whatever they say in a non-judgmental way.