text: Next, talking to multiple people can give you perspective. For instance, it could help you understand someone else's side of the story and what you're upset about may be false information. Furthermore, you could realize that the other person is the one that needs help. For example, if I am upset that someone has become distant with me, maybe it is because they are unhappy and want to be alone and it isn't your doing after all. Lastly, you have to understand how the other person feels in certain instances. Specifically, If someone came up to you and started screaming like at you like Generic_Name did, you would be upset too. In summary, talking to two or more people when seeking advice could help you understand the other person's mindset.