text: Second, it will be less stressful and you will be at peace with yourself. When talking to someone else about what to choose and they give you their take on the problem. It relax the mind,but also the person. Moreover, all of the worried and tense in your body was there,yet it decreased quickly because of that comfort the person give you. It not always good to hold every thing inside you. It totally normal to be stress out but not all the time. You never know what people advice can do you in the long term. The best way not to be stress out is to talk to someone about your problem about your decision.