text: First of all, it is extremely hard if your going through a problem and you dont know who to go to. So you tell a variety of people you trust. Let's say it's your mom, your best friend, your cousin, and your mentor. They will all give you different ideas on how to solve out your problem or will give you multiple opinions. If you ask me, it is better that way. I believe it is better like that because you get multiple point of views on how they would solve a problem. Also, if you don't like the opinions that 2 of the people gave you, you dont have to worry. You have the other 2 people's opinion to focus on. At the end of the day, you choose the one you like better or the one you think it is easier to follow.