text: Have you ever asked for advice from someone and then use the advice you got? It could be good, but It could also be bad. You could feel betrayed by the fact that someone trusted could've given you bad advice, but maybe they just couldn't relate to the situation you were in. That could lead you to the next question," Then why didn't they be honest about the fact that they didn't have the best advice you needed". Well maybe, they just wanted to help because they care. Maybe they just want to grow a deeper connection between the two of you. Whatever the reason is, you shouldn't just seek important advice from one specific person unless you really trust them.