text: Some people's advice or opinions could be the exact opposite of what that person was asking, but thats because its their opinion they could say whatever they like. Thats why talking to more than one person is a great idea, because the more opinions that are received the more better choices. For example, go around and ask people what shoes do they like, then one person comes up and says "ew those are ugly" it may not be a nice opinion but its what they think. Sometimes their answers may be offensive to them, but it depends on what they are asking but that person will have to get used to the fact that not everyone is going to agree. Everybody is most likely all going to have a different answer, it can't all be the same because not everyone thinks alike. A wise person once told me "great minds think alike" to me that means smart, rich, poor, or dumb anyone could have a smart mind and think completely different.