text: Once you talk about the situation that you need advice for, it usually becomes much easier to handle. Discussing things can help you make the right decision, and once you talk about it, some of its weight gets taken off of you. That is why you should never keep your feelings bottled inside you. Over the summer last year, my cousin was trying to decide which college to go to, because she had been accepted to many of her top choices. She asked her mom, dad, friends, and myself. She was still very undecided when I talked to her, but we discussed it, and I made a pro and cons chart to help her. After we discussed it, she felt much more relaxed, and made her decision easily. Trust me, I have made too many bad decisions, just because I never talked about it with anyone.