text: She also has more experience being a teenager in America than my parents. The next person I go to is my mom. Since she is older than me and my sister, she can give examples of when something like the conflict I have happened in her life and she can help me solve my problem. The next person I go to is my dad. I go to my dad last because I can tell him what my sister and mom said and he will tell me his point. Then he sits down with me and helps me understand the conflict and tells me what my options are.