text: Another thing to ask when you need advice is what would they do in that situation. Often people think a completely different way then you, and would handle it in other ways then you. Most people are either passive aggressive or just aggressive and this can change the way they do things. With my problems I tend to be more passive aggressive, because I don't like arguments or confrontation, but most of my friends are the opposite. In times where I would normally not do anything until it becomes a big mess, my friends would already haven confronted the situation a long time ago. That was some reasons why asking others what they would do can help you come up with what you should decide.