text: To begin with, when someone is going through a situation where they do not know what to do, they will start having a lot of stress on them. stress is not a really good feeling, it can make your head hurt or make you over think about things. For example, when I am going through a situation where I am confused or do not know what to do, I start stressing out and worry a lot. So I go to multiple people for advice and it calms me down a bit and everything is almost back to normal. Getting advice from at least 3 or 4 people will reduce the stress and make the situation better.