text: Talking to different people who has went through the same or they are going through what your going through they can give you advice like what not to do and what you should do. By getting that advice it will make think of a solution. If that person that gave you advice because they know what would happen if you do the wrong mistake they would probably want you to do the right thing and they would encourage you to make the right decision. Here an example let's say that you said something rude to your friend, Generic_Name, and now they are really upset with you and won't talk to you. So you ask your other friend,Generic_Name,what you should do because she also went through the same thing but she did the wrong thing and lost her friend so you ask her what you should do and she tells what she what she would have done and you take her advice and you got your friend back. Talking to people who know what your going through is really important mostly when you don't know what to do.