text: When it comes to a situation and you never know who to talk to maybe try talking to one of your grandparents or anyone elderly for that matter. As people get older they go through lots of experiences and awkward situations just like the ones that you have gone through. The more life lessons you learn and wisdom you accumulate, the better advice you can give to people that are going through the same thing. As your body ages and matures so does your mind. If someone isnt in the situation they will not tell you to do something out of anger, sadness, or personal bias. They have a clear mind and tell you stuff with rationality.