text: In some circumstances when you receive advice from someone, you come up with your own solution while discussing with them. In this case, you make a better choice because you came up with your own solution and you know how to handle the situation correctly. An example could be when you are in a tough situations with friends, for instance you get in a fight or your can not compromise with a solution, you would most likely talk with your parents or another friend. While discussing with them you are participating with them as well while trying to think of an appropriate solution to your problem. They constantly give you ideas that just don't fit in with your situation. After a long time of thinking over your problem with your friend, you can get frustrated easly because all you want is the fight to be over. Once your state of mind is like that, it just spits out ideas of its own, and that is when you come up with your own solution. Thanks to your family and friends multiple opinions and options trying to help you out as much as they could, you come up with your own solution to your problem.