text: Finally, i would ask more than one person to make sure they are not joking. Friends joke a lot so just ask more than one person to be safe. Others may be sarcastic so you may want to ask more people. Not saying that you cant rely on friends it's just that sometimes they might be joking or being sarcastic. If you ask more than one person there is not going to be a lot of people joking. Most people might know what you have been through and tell you the right decision to make.