text: Other people may have experienced a problem like your and may be able to help you in making better decisions, so don't turn them down. Their experience with a problem like yours may become you greatest asset in solving your problem. Anyone can offer an opinion, but few people have actually had to solve that problem. Listen to everyone, but pay special attention to the ones who have solved that problem before. Those people are the ones who can guide you, help you with that problem the most.