text: You can't really get advice from one of these kinds of people, even the ones with good intentions. With only real and honest advice, that makes you want to do better, you end up getting ahead of yourself; being too confident can get you hurt badly. With manipulative advice, you don't know what you fight for, or what your fighting in the first place. You need humility to counter whatever may be causing this violence, and to see whatever may causing this is with ill intention, and only seeks to harm others with you. Only having humility will get you nowhere, and you will be in hiding all your life. Having all of these traits will benefit you greatly, and let you become independent in your actions. Having a healthy balance of this will create a good average and mindset of these different types of advice, and allow you to make better decisions.many kids on a daily basis are juggling between taking care of their younger siblings, going to work (if they have one), and doing the best they can in school but now with the principal demanding they take the only little time they have left in the day after school to do extracurricular activities they might damage a kids mental health. a school never knows what a kid has going on in their personal lives and so why should they take that away from them. maybe the kid has to go to work to help their family pay the bill, or what if they stay home to take care of their younger siblings in order for their parents to go to work and get paid. school faculty dont seem to realize that going to school on its own is anxiety inducing and to force someone to take a program they dont like may be a bad way to go.