text: When you decide something it stays in your file mind until it pops up and says "alert late notification" years later ad after that you just do not know what to do and keep it in mind for days or even months, years, decades, etc. It is very strange for a human to do that but there are some cases when there are. It is difficult to human for them to just automatically say yes, when they are in a strained situation. It will not help to make a better choice if you keep thinking about it, it will just get worse. Maybe, when you have found your piece of advice you were looking for just act fast before it is too late. Because when people are trustworthy of the advice and/or opinion they gave you, it will tell when you look at them in the eyes.