text: Lastly, not everyone understands. We have all aggressively said the words, "You don't understand!" Believe it or not that is true. Not everyone understands or can understand what you are going through. Everyone has been mean to someone. That can not be argued against, but not everyone gets advice about how to stop being mean. When I get advice for how to stop, my family does not understand. They just do not get why I want to fix that problem. No matter how much I ask for their advice they will not give it to me. My friends, on the other hand, know what it is like. They understand why I do not want to be mean any longer. Finding people who understand will help you make the best choice.