text: Another reason you should ask for advice is because with other people's help, it can become easier to resolve the situation. In my opinion, this is because the more people you tell about it, the quicker it's going to get back to the other person involved. So because of this, people may start talking to the other person and help you resolve the problem. It also helps way better because in some problems (like mine), you just end up ignoring the other person until one of you gives up and says sorry. That's not what problem solving is, because you never end up actually talking about what happened, do you? You just end up saying sorry and moving on with your lives as if it never happened. To me, I believe in talking before saying sorry, which is why if other people get involved, it becomes easier to open up to each other about what went wrong.