text: You can never just rely on one single person. If you only ask a single person. all you get is their opinions. Say if they tell you to do something, but you know its wrong. You would still mostly dedicate the problem into their advice, even if their wrong. Now you are the one that is leading a bad life. It is very important to ask others, but also give an opinion to yourself. Think to yourself, "Im I making a mistake?" You could potentially make the worst decision of your'e life, and will give you deep regrets. You need to rely on yourself sometimes, because someday there wont be anybody to give you advice for your'e problems. You will have to take what you have learned over the years from others, and put that to your'e knowledge.