text: Secondly, you should never let someone encourage you to make a choice, but you should let someone tell you their opinion that away you know what you might like and want you don't like. For example say that your going out and looking for a job you might ask your friends that worked at one of the jobs that you are looking at, and they might tell you their opinion about the job. So then you can go and research about the job and see if you like it or not, then now you are ready for the job and you now know what to kinda expect.