text: A different reason to get advice from multiple people is that one's first option might not feel right for them. Different people have differing personalities, and what one feels like they could do may not seem feasible for another. One example of this is if a shy, studious, and introverted boy asks for advice from his boisterous, popular, and sporty older sister on how to stand up for himself. If the sister tells him to do something such as loudly tell the bully to stop and then walk away, the boy might have been better served by asking his mother, who also would prefer to be quiet and not bothered by other people. In this example, the boy would not have been served well by using his sister's idea because he would not have felt like he could pull it off. Through getting more than one opinion, one can find a solution that matches what they might be able to do, not just what might work for someone else.