text: People might agree with the thought you have. If the people you ask think the same thing, it can take so much stress away from the situation. Many people agreeing on the same thought can show it is in your best interest. The choice might be difficult to make, so people agreeing on the same thing can show that this event was supposed to take place. Asking for others opinion on the situation can have a fantastic result, because they might have the same idea you do.