text: When getting advice from multiple people, it may not be exactly what you're looking for or be too confusing. You don't always have to follow what people tell you to do; instead you can combine them into a personal solution. This is a good way to fit into what you're comfortable with. You should not have to do exactly what someone else does, however, you can make an improvised solution from their actions. You can stretch out your bubble, and stay inside it at the same time. It is very comforting to know you can be independent and form a personal solution.