text: Secondly, common answers will show up. If a piece of advice shows up in everyone I talk to, then I see a common theme and know what to do. For example if I cuss, not that I have, everyone will advise me to think before I speak. In my opinion everyone giving the same advice makes that advice pretty common. Even if one person tells me to keep cussing, holding my tongue is the most repeated advice. Everytime I get multiple opinions, I always look for common answers to help me make the best choice.