text: Lastly, when asking for advice, the most important thing is to ask yourself is, "Is this something I actually want to do?" When considering your options, it all comes down to choosing what's right for you. Sometimes, asking multiple people for their opinion can leave you confused and even more frustrated than before. If you get to this point, think about the pros and cons of each choice. Decide whether or not it's the best option or if there's a better one for you.