text: Make sure when you ask people for advise that its someone you can trust and not just someone you know is gonna give you bad advise because you had the audacity to come to them and ask them for there prospective just because you trusted them. I would prefer going to a close family member, close friend , teacher, etc. that you know would give there best advise possible. So for example one day I was in New Jersey and my cousin before he passed away he wanted to see me before I had left to go home back to Virginia but then I also found out that my best friend who I went to school with wanted to meet up with me that exact same day and I didnt know what to do. I really wanted to see my cousin but I wanted to see my best friend too. So I had talked to my dad, Grandma and grandpa three people I really trust and they gave me good advise on what to do. They told me that I should go with my cousin because he hasnt seen me in years ever since I was a baby. So I got in contact with my best friend and asked if we could do it another day and he agreed. So then I ended up going with my cousin and it was amazing spending quality time with him.