text: One reason we go to friends to help us solve our problems is becuase they have a diffrent outlook on us and our promblems. Friends look and see things differently then our families do. Friends are always a good way to find advise but also, you have your family. Our family is supposed to be there to help us with anything no mater what. We want know how they would solve this promblem themselves. We expect family and friends to know how to help us figure out what to do.