text: Imagine you are doing community service work at a nursing home. You just came back from a football game and you were to tired to do your home work. Then you overslept and came to school late so your teacher scolded you. Now you are forced to do community service at a nursing home. You would be normally happy when working with old people, but today you are aggravated. You are assigned with a cute old lady who was diagnosed with dementia. She keeps on asking for her mother non stop and of course her mother died. This gets you mad and you yell at the cute old lady and she begins to cry. Your distressed caused her to have distress. And maybe you could have done something worse. Who knows what kind of damage you are causing to the person you are helping. Would you want to cause a cute old lady to cry? Boy, I hope not.