text: The more people you talk to, the more diverse the points of view will be. There are so many different types of people out there with very different points of view. If you talk to a lot of people they can help you slim that chance down because you look at all of the views to see which one fits you. You might start with your family because they seem like they would have the same or similar points of view, but if you start with people with similar points of view. You wont help yourself narrow down the choices. You're better off talking with friends.