text: Second, it could make a person not care anymore. This is something you want to avoided. When someone doesn't have much to look forward to they could just give on themselves. Again I know from personal experience. I was felt so depressed because of all the drama at home and that I didn't feel like I was getting en if it hadn't been for the fact that I was a good student my grades would have dropped dramatically.Desperately stuck not knowing what to do or what to choose, but you have no idea who to ask for help? People many times dont know who the right person to take advice from is, but there is more than one person that can assist you with what you need. When asking for advice, talking to multiple people is a good choice, because people have experienced things differently from one another. It also allows you to hear from both sides of the story so you can get a clear picture of what you should do.