text: When it comes to people needing advice I think that the first thing that people need to do is have an open mind. If you need help with something and you don't have an open mind about things you're never going to get anywhere. For example, lets say that you are in a fight with your friend, and you go to one of your other friends for advice on what to do. Are you going to go to your other friend needing advice an not having an open mind on what they may or may not have to say to you? No of course not because you can't really solve anything that way.