text: Making a choice can be also be hard epsically if it's a contervial one. If you find yourself stuck between two distions then seeing both sides can be extremely difficult. Seeking advice from someone who believes differently from the first person can help you compare both points. For example, if you are caught in the middle of a distion observe both the positive and the negative choices. Asking just one persons option on a distion is helpful but it can lead you into just thinking about what one person said. On the other hand, asking two people can show you the good and bad components of a both choices. This system can help you compare your distions.