text: Lastly some of the advice you receive you just don't think fits you or the way you like to handle things so you ask more people. Say you have drama between you and someone else, someone you ask might say fight that person but that's not really the way you want to handle it. So instead you ask more people for what they think you should do. This can help bring your mind to how you want to fix a situation. Everyone handles situations differently so this will can give you ideas on what to do and what not to do.