text: Some people think keeping there problems to themselves will solve the problem eventually. The truth is, it doesn't. You might think you're the only one in the world who is having problems, but people never realize everyone else is human too. Everyone's been in tough situations, most of the time they're even in the same exact problem. Having more perspective on your situation helps people make a better choice because people solve things differently, so asking one person how they made their choice might not help with your problem, so by asking multiple people you get multiple views on how they solved a problem in your situation.