text: Finding a different view of the situation may help you in the long run. Although someone may not know what they are talking about. You never know if the person you are talking to is making valid comments or just starting a rumor. The person you are talking to may dislike someone that you need advice of so they might start a rumor. Rumors spread really quick so you might believe them. Getting advice from many people might solve your mystery to who is telling the truth.