text: Different people give very different advice sometimes, Never the less it actualizes between the people you hang out with or talk to the most. Sometimes those trusted persons will find a way to stop you or tell you to not do it or say etc. But you should go for it, the possibilities for it coming true or false is a 50/50 chance. However, keep in mind that people act different when there is something in it for them. So never ever negotiate what it takes to just give you advice since they are too insecure about letting you know what they feel about you. The best choice that you can have are your parents. Some may try to hurt you and some may try to help if they know the struggle you are going through then it will be no problem into helping you.