text: First of all, when resorting to seeking advice from only one person, you won't get enough information about the process you go through. If the people have experienced the same challenges as you, they will know how to guide you. The more people you have to guide you, the less confused you will be. Sometimes when someone is faced with a new situation, they don't know what to do. They may be frightened about the situation, and find it difficult to cope. Talking to multiple people who have faced the problem will be your light at the end of the tunnel. The more people you talk to, the brighter that light will be.