text: The third and final reason is that you view more than one side. If you only ask certain people for help, they can give you advice for when you deal with the problem, you may not see the whole picture and end up dealing with consequences you didnt expect. If you ask multiple people, you can see the situation clearly and carefully deal with everything so unexpected consequences don't come out of nowhere and mess it all up. You can also make wiser decisions since you've heard every side. Finally, you can learn to avoid more habits that could have made the situation harder to deal with before.