text: First, I would ask more than one person because the people that I'm asking my have more experience. In most situations older people are the ones to go to in situations because they have lived longer than you and most of the time been through more. In the other hand your friends can be the ones that help you make decisions too, if they know you enough they should tell you a smart decision to make. Family is always a good thing to rely on because they know more about you than your friends and I'm sure they would be willing to help out.