text: Finally by asking for multiple people opinions you feel prepared and ready. When you are asking for multiple people advice it feels like you are ready and when just asking one person you feel iffy about it and you dont want to do it. One time I did a public speaking at my school, it felt like I was going to fail this but lucky enough that my friends have already done it and gave me advice at being up at the podium and I did fine. Sometimes by just asking your friends for advice can make you feel prepared and ready to go.