text: If someone already went through what your going through then their opinion can make you decide things differently. If you have and older brother or sister they give you advice right? When they say stuff like "trust me i know how it feels like" it's because they don't want to see you go through the same thing as them. A lot of people have been in the same position as you once in their life, so why not go to them and ask them what they think. They can't go back and change what they did but they can advise you to do things differently. Their advice can help you make a good decision.