text: When you have a couple of ideas, but do not know what to pick from, ask other people they can give you a better understanding and idea on what to choose. So, this happened about three months ago. I was getting basketball shoes and I was stuck between two pairs, I then sent them to a group chat with my friends within minutes I had a clear winner, later it came to my attention that they were really good basketball shoes so I am glad I let them help me. On another occasion though, maybe you want to go to kings dominion and the beach for a summer party, but you aren't so sure it doesn't matter to you so you ask other people, that then gives them what you like and they like.