text: You can get advise from more people to even out the opinions, and the more of those opinions you have the better your advise will be. From my experience people have very varied opinions on different topics, so if you have just one person the likelihood of you having a very one sided piece of advise is much greater than you asking more than just one person. Sorry to say but there are a lot of people with very one sided advise so you need to watch who you ask about advise, especially the important advise. This is why you should never just rely on yourself to make the important and hard decisions to make, you yourself can be very one sided and not even know it. There are many people in the world to ask, and everyone has a slightly different understanding of how things work and how they view everything on whole, so try your best to ask the most people you see to be a good amount to help your upcoming decisions.