text: Older's peoples advice is always a good choice to ask for because they have been though a lot and they have some good advice on what to say. Elders are much wiser than asking kids because they have already dealt with these sorts of things and you can trust them more than most people. Asking more than one Elder is what I would do because they are mostly right and have lot's of different views. Thats why asking many different Elders is good.