    Sentence 1: I don't think my boyfriend  cares about my feelings, and if I try to  talk to him about that, he turns it around  somehow so he looks like the victim. Why  dees he do that? How can I stop letting  this affect me?    Sentence 2:1 had an awful breakup with  my boyfriend and after what he did, I  don't want anything to do with him. But  he keeps trying to talk to me. What do I  do?