    Sentence 1: My 43-year-old daughter told  me that 1. should put: my kids « before .  anything. Is she being selfish; or am I the  selfishone? ie    Sentence 2: My 11 year old daughter enjoys:  peeing on other ‘kid's ‘sandcastles. atthe  ‘peach to destroy. thein. Is-this just a phase,  o¥ should I be concerned? :