    Sentence..I: They. would rather me  stay in-Nursing .because they know  that's where my heart is‘but, um, you  know, they're:behind me.in whatever  I decide to-do.    Sentence 2: They : put ‘a’ ‘particular  effort into. reassuring’ me “that. my.  decision. either way on ‘whether to  stay ‘in: nursing” will’ ‘be “réspected,  because they've both suffered’ as‘ a  result ef having loved ones criticisé  or invalidate their choices. .