minutes of the current time get incremented fig1 illustrates another exemplary embodiment of a flow chart 1500 that implements the system and or the method the flow chart 1500 shows how the system and or the method may handle an incoming communication when an incoming communication notification of a mobile communication device is dependent on a source of the incoming communication a first block 1502 represents when the system and or the method begins to run a next block 1504 represents the incoming communication in the example of a smart phone the incoming communication may be an incoming call a next block 1506 determines whether an incoming source is on an exception list if the source is not on the exception list then a next block 1508 on the flow chart 1500 initiates a default notification setting for a smart phone the phone may play a set ringtone at a set ringtone volume if the source is on the list then a next block 1510 on the flow chart 1500 applies a notification setting represented by a corresponding database table entry for a smart phone the incoming call may be from a babysitter which appears on the exception list and causes the smart phone to play the set ringtone at a.