one skilled in the relevant art will recognize however that the invention may be practiced without one or more of the specific details or with other methods components materials and so forth in other instances well known structures materials or operations are not shown or described in detail to avoid obscuring aspects of the invention fig1 is a schematic block diagram illustrating one embodiment of a computer system that regulates non business emails in accordance with the present invention the computer system 100 includes an email message 102 an email client 104 a an email client 104 b a non business email manager 106 a network 108 an alternative destination 110 and a virtual wall 112 the email message 102 is an electronic mail message comprising a header and a body which is sent from a sender to recipient over the network 108 in the shown embodiment the sender is email client 104 a and the recipient is email client 104 b the email 102 may be formatted in accordance with multipurpose internet mail extension mime or other standards set forth by the internet engineering task force itef or other formats as will be recognized by one of skill in.