at least partially disposed about an outside portion of stab housing 34 one or more grab sleeve collets 33 is disposed within interior void 36 proximate stab end 37 sleeve guide 39 is disposed within interior void 36 intermediate stab end 37 and handle end 38 locking rod 30 is slidingly disposed within interior void 36 and extends through grab sleeve collet 33 and sleeve guide 39 locking rod 30 may further comprise boss 30 a configured to prevent grab sleeve collet 33 from over deforming in certain embodiments locking rod 30 is threaded in certain embodiments spring 31 is disposed about locking rod 30 intermediate handle end 38 and sleeve guide 39 and configured to keep grab sleeve collet 33 engaged spring 33 is configured to provide pre load tension such that as locking rod 30 progresses within interior void 36 and or rotates it expands grab sleeve collet 33 first handle 40 may also be present and attached to locking rod 30 where handle 40 is present it typically comprises threaded locking rod 42 and locking rod 30 further comprises handle attachment end 41 configured to attach to handle connector 42 typically pivotally handle 40 may be configured to be maneuvered by remotely operated.