the three way handshake the attacker node 100 then proceeds according to protocol with an ack 108 as the third frame thus the target 102 establishes a connection with the attacker 100 so that the attacker node 100 behaves as through it achieved a valid connection to the target 102 after establishing the connection any data packet sent by the attacker 100 are dropped by the target 110 fig2 illustrates the process of the dos ddos defeating system and process in greater detail according to certain embodiments a tcp ip session is initiated 120 by a transmitting node with a target network connected device the target network connected device in this embodiment is configured according to carry out the steps of the target system in this embodiment of the invention the target node then performs a detection analysis 122 on the transmitting node to determine if the transmitting node is a known dos ddos attack node or otherwise attempting to initiate or participate in a dos ddos attack such determination 124 can be carried out using any suitable means for evaluating an attacker known to those of skill in the art if the transmitting node is not determined to be an attacker node then the tcp ip session is continued 126 according to normal protocols if the transmitting node.