Just a random thought
What is going on?

I look around myself and see lot of people. Everyone with their own stories?

One can’t help but think how so many people with so many different ideas, thinking about life can really get along.

What sticks us together? Why conflict arise but are an accepted term? How social media (with no intention) effect so much of our thinking? How people react so much to silly ideas but avoid some simple reality like “Coronavirus” on the face. Sheer ignorance on such a deadly disease.

How can a normal person make other people understand? How can we talk to each other without getting offended?

People are difficult to deal with even you are closest to them. (At least how I feel this way). You can’t make them understand things even with best logic or best empathy. Two topics which are highly shared ideas for people skills but in my experience they don’t work.

Problem with logic is simple — Instead of following the reasoning people get offended

Problem with empathy is complex but pretty visible

Even if you are listening deeply other guy may not and most probably will not People are complex & tough with emotional lows and down (even me). So even the best empathy will take years to fully understand how the person exactly think.

My question is simple. Even after so many and ideas are written they are pretty useless because of some simple problems

Too much political correctness — The way romance, brotherhood, friendship are shown in movies, books and series have a huge need. They have to be politically correct or they are banned or hated. The reality is for most of use political correctness is straight way to hell Natural human — What do you think happened 30 years before all this media came and started screwing with our mind. Life was boring, dull and above all average (not saying its a good thing) but this is how real life is.

People don’t agree with you , people don’t start dancing when you dance on street (Bollywood reference), life is not so flashy. It’s tough, challenging.

Young generation think the old customs are stupid, retarded and old people think.

But just think

Our Ancestors developed these customs 1000years of non-media life.

Bollywood correctness came what like 50 years back.

All I am saying is why a very important simply ignored question is not asked/

How to deal with people that works? How do we effect the people around us? How does our tradition effect us?

These discussion are happening at very superficial level and for business purpose but on individual level these are most ignored question.
['Sameer Jain']
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