《礼记·杂记下》
作为君子，既不可强迫他人抛开丧亲之悲痛，也不可忘掉自己丧亲的哀痛。
君子不夺人之丧，亦不可夺丧也。
As a gentleman, one should neither force others to cast aside their grief over the loss of a loved one, nor forget one's own grief over the loss of a loved one.
<s>[INST] Translate the following passage from Classical Chinese to both modern Chinese and English, focusing on preserving the emotional tone in both translations: 君子不夺人之丧，亦不可夺丧也。 [/INST] Modern Chinese: 作为君子，既不可强迫他人抛开丧亲之悲痛，也不可忘掉自己丧亲的哀痛。 English: As a gentleman, one should neither force others to cast aside their grief over the loss of a loved one, nor forget one's own grief over the loss of a loved one.</s>
Translate the following passage from Classical Chinese to both modern Chinese and English, focusing on preserving the emotional tone in both translations: 君子不夺人之丧，亦不可夺丧也。
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Modern Chinese: 作为君子，既不可强迫他人抛开丧亲之悲痛，也不可忘掉自己丧亲的哀痛。 English: As a gentleman, one should neither force others to cast aside their grief over the loss of a loved one, nor forget one's own grief over the loss of a loved one.
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