《礼记·曲礼上》
赠人物品，不要叫人来取，而要派人送去，给人东西，不要问人想要与否。
赐人者不曰来取。与人者不问其所欲。
When giving gifts, do not ask people to come and get them; send them by a messenger instead. When giving things to people, do not ask if they want them.
<s>[INST] For each of the following sets of Classical Chinese and Modern Chinese sentences, provide an English translation that captures the essence of both: Classical: 赐人者不曰来取。与人者不问其所欲。 Modern: 赠人物品，不要叫人来取，而要派人送去，给人东西，不要问人想要与否。 [/INST] When giving gifts, do not ask people to come and get them; send them by a messenger instead. When giving things to people, do not ask if they want them.</s>
For each of the following sets of Classical Chinese and Modern Chinese sentences, provide an English translation that captures the essence of both: Classical: 赐人者不曰来取。与人者不问其所欲。 Modern: 赠人物品，不要叫人来取，而要派人送去，给人东西，不要问人想要与否。
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When giving gifts, do not ask people to come and get them; send them by a messenger instead. When giving things to people, do not ask if they want them.
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