《后汉书·列传·列女传》
赵阿拜而受命，退下对左右的人说： 我没有楚国的樊姬、齐国之卫姬的品行，所以公公责备我，我说了而他不听，公公必说我不奉教令，那么罪在我了。
阿拜而受命，退谓左右曰： 我无樊、卫二姬之行，故君以责我。我言而不用，君必谓我不奉教令，则罪在我矣。
Zhao A bowed and accepted the order, and retired to say to the people around him: "I don't have the character of Fan Ji of Chu and Wei Ji of Qi, so my father-in-law blames me. I said it but he didn't listen. My father-in-law must say that I do not obey the order, so the guilt is mine.