《战国策·秦一·苏秦始将连横》
苏秦慨叹说： 妻子不认我是丈夫，嫂子不认我是小叔，父母不认我是儿子，这都是我苏秦的罪过啊！ 
苏秦喟叹曰： 妻不以我为夫，嫂不以我为叔，父母不以我为子，是皆秦之罪也。 
Su Qin sighed, saying, "My wife doesn't recognize me as her husband, my sister-in-law doesn't recognize me as her brother-in-law, my parents don't recognize me as their son. It's all my fault, Su Qin!" 