《宋书·列传·卷六十五》
杜骥十三岁时，父亲让他去问候同郡人韦华，韦华的儿子韦玄当时有很高的名望，一见到杜骥非常惊奇，将女儿许配给他。
骥年十三，父使候同郡韦华。华子玄有高名，见而异之，以女妻焉。
When Du Ji was thirteen, his father asked him to ask after the welfare of someone from the same region, Wei Hua. Wei Hua's son Wei Xuan had a very prominent reputation at the time. When he met Du Ji, he was astonished and promised his daughter to him.