《北齐书·列传·卷九》
等看见神武在城劳役，惊讶地说： 这真正是我的丈夫啊 于是派婢女向他表达心意，又几次送给他自己个人的钱财，让他用来聘娶自己，父母不得已就许了逭门婚事。
及见神武于城上执役，惊曰： 此真吾夫也。 乃使婢通意，又数致私财，使以聘己，父母不得已而许焉。
After she saw that Shenwu was working as a laborer in the city, she was surprised and said, “This is my husband!” So, she sent her maid to express her feelings to him and gave him her personal money several times so that he could ask for her hand in marriage. Her parents had no choice but to allow the marriage. 