《容斋随笔·卷二·忠恕违道》
侯师圣说： 子思讲的忠恕，加在自己身上不愿接受，也不能加在别人身上。
侯师圣云： 子思之忠恕，施诸己而不愿，亦勿施于人。
Hou Shisheng said: What Zisi said about loyalty and forgiveness, he did not want to accept it on himself, nor could he impose it on others.