《太平广记·卷二百五十八·嗤鄙一》
在对官吏进行考课的时候，刺史崔邈给阮嵩的鉴定中写道：妇强夫弱，内刚外柔。
刺史崔邈为嵩作考词云：妇强夫弱，内刚外柔。
When inspecting the officials, the prefect Cui Miao wrote in the assessment of Ruan Song: weak husband has a strong wife. He was tough inside but gentle outside.