《太平广记·卷一百九十一·骁勇一》
你来而不拜，这是第一件不正派的事；拔剑不刺，这是第二件；先出剑后说话，这是第三件。
子来不谒，一不肖也；拔剑不刺，二不肖也；刃先词后，三不肖也。
You came without bowing. That’s the first inappropriate act; You drew your sword but didn’t attack. That’s the second inappropriate act; You drew your sword and spoke afterward. That’s the third inappropriate act.