《礼记·杂记下》
对于自己来说，只有在小功亲属的卒哭祭后，才可以行冠礼、娶媳妇；但如果是下疡的小功亲属，卒哭之后仍不可这样做。
己虽小功，既卒哭，可以冠，取妻；下殇之小功，则不可。
For oneself, only after the final sacrifice of the junior merit relatives can one hold a capping ceremony, or marry a wife; but if it is a junior merit relative with open sores, one should still not do so after the final sacrifice.