《仪礼·士昏礼》
问名，使者说： 在下既已接受先生之命，要回去卜问于神灵，冒昧请问令女的名字。 
问名，曰： 某既受命，将加诸卜，敢请女为谁氏？ 
Asking for the name, the messenger said: Now that I have accepted your instructions, sir, to return and ask the spirits, I am being presumptuous to ask your daughter's name.