《庄子·杂篇·则阳》
所以，常施不言之教而使人心灵和谐，相处不久的人都能受到感化。父亲和儿子相处，各得其宜，各自相宜，而圣人却完全是清虚无为地对待周围所有的人。圣人的心态跟一般人的心态相差甚远。
故圣人其穷也，使家人忘其贫；其达也，使王公忘爵禄而化卑；其于物也，与之为娱矣；其于人也，乐物之通而保己焉。
Therefore, it often exerts influence without using words, and makes people’s minds harmonious. People who have not gotten along for a long time can be influenced. Fathers and sons get along well with each other, each of them becomes appropriate, while the saint treats people around him completely with purity and inaction. The saint's attitude is completely different from that of ordinary people.