《南史·列传·卷三十》
媒礼结束后，即将亲自迎娶，何点屡次哭泣，请求坚持本来的志向，于是作罢。
礼毕，将亲迎，点累涕泣，求执本志，遂得罢。
After the wedding ceremony, He Dian asked to personally welcome the bride, He Dian cried many times and begged to stick to his original aspiration, so he gave up.