《礼记·玉藻》
孔子在季氏那里吃饭，季氏作为主人，应该讲的客气话一句也没有，孔子也以非礼相答，尚未食肉就说已经吃饱了。
君赐，稽首，据掌致诸地；酒肉之赐，弗再拜。
When Confucius dined at Jishi's, Jishi as the host should not have said a single polite word, and Confucius also responded with disrespect, saying he was already full before he had even eaten any meat.