《梁书·列传·卷五十一》
十五岁行冠礼之后，阮孝绪去见自己的父亲阮彦之，阮彦之告诚阮孝绪说： 行加冠礼之后，你的地位更加重要，这是长大成人参预人事的起始。
十五，冠而见其父，彦之诫曰： 三加弥尊，人伦之始。
After the crown ceremony at the age of fifteen, Ruan Xiaoxu went to see his father Ruan Yan, and Ruan Yan told Ruan Xiaoxu: After the crown ceremony, your status is more important. This is the beginning of growing up and participating in human affairs.