《幼学琼林·卷三·人事》
会合有奇缘说三生都有幸福；办事皆与本意相违，没有一事会成功。
事有奇缘，曰三生有幸；事皆拂意，曰一事无成。
It is said that there is a fate in meeting, and all three lives have happiness; doing things is against the original intention, and nothing will be successful.