《资治通鉴·秦纪·秦纪一》
而如果遵循了礼义准则，只是主张与他人的心意不合，便不必担忧了。 
由道而不合，非忧也。 
And if you follow the principles of propriety and righteousness, but your propositions do not conform to the intentions of others, there is no need to worry.