《淮南子·人间训》
所以说诋毁和赞誉的话，千万得慎重，不能随便说的。有时候人贪生怕死反而丧命，有时候人视死如归反而得生；有时候人慢行反而是速达。
或贪生而反死，或轻死而得生，或徐行而反疾。
Therefore, when slandering or praising others, you must be careful and not speak carelessly. Sometimes people are afraid of death and die, while sometimes people are willing to die and live; sometimes people walk slowly and arrive quickly.