《史记·三十世家·晋世家》
而且，您接受此女为的是与秦国结成姻亲以便返回晋国，您竟拘泥于小礼节，忘了大的羞耻！ 
且受以结秦亲而求入，子乃拘小礼，忘大丑乎！ 
"Besides, you are accepting this woman to form kinship with Qin so that you may return to Jin. Why do you nitpick these minor proprieties and forget the major shame!"