《礼记·檀弓下》
文伯去世的时候，敬姜靠着他的床暂停哭声，说： 从前我有这个儿子，看他颇有才艺，想着将来会成为二一个贤人，所以也就从来没有到他办公的地方去观察。现在他死了，朋友众臣中没有为他掉泪的，倒是他的妻妾等人为他痛哭失声。
文伯之丧，敬姜据其床而不哭，曰： 昔者吾有斯子也，吾以将为贤人也，吾未尝以就公室；今及其死也，朋友诸臣未有出涕者，而内人皆行哭失声。
When Wenbo passed away, Jing Jiang leaned on his bed and paused to say: I used to have this son. Seeing that he was quite talented, I thought he would become a wise man in the future, so I never went to his office to observe. Now that he is dead, none of his friends and ministers shed tears for him, but his wives and concubines cried for him.