《幼学琼林·卷二·婚姻》
侍奉梳洗的事情，亲自操持洒扫的工作，是出嫁女儿的自谦之词；娴熟女师的教训，勤习内室的礼仪，是帮助丈夫的贤德，是男家称赞对方女儿的赞语。
执巾栉，奉箕帚，皆女家自谦之词；娴姆训，习《内则》，皆男家称女之说。
Serving combing and washing matters, personally handling sweeping work, is a self-effacing word for a daughter who is getting married; learning the lessons of a skilled female teacher, diligently practicing the etiquette in the inner chamber, is a virtuous act of helping her husband, and it is a compliment from the man's family to the other's daughter.