《战国策·赵二·赵燕后胡服》
有反对父母的行为，慈爱的父亲也不把他当儿子看待；违背君王的意愿成就自己的事情，慈祥的君主也不把他当臣子。
反亲以为行，慈父不子；逆主以自成，惠主不臣也。
If one goes against the wishes of parents, then even a loving father will not treat him as a son; if one accomplishes one's own affairs against the wishes of the monarch, then even a benevolent monarch will not treat him as a minister.