《礼记·檀弓下》
那个饥民瞪起眼睛望着他，说： 本人正是由于不吃这种没有好声好气的饭才落到这步田地的。 
来食。 扬其目而视之，曰： 予唯不食嗟来之食，以至于斯也。 
The starving man stared at him and said: It is precisely because I don't eat this kind of food without a kind word that I have ended up in this state. 