《礼记·冠义》
一个人做到，了对父母孝顺，对兄长友爱，对国君忠诚，对长辈顺从，然后才能被称为真正的人。能被称为真正的人，然后才可以治理别人。
故孝弟忠顺之行立，而后可以为人；可以为人，而后可以治人也。
He can only be called a real person after being filial to his parents, friendly to his elder brother, loyal to the monarch and obedient to his elders. Only a real person can govern others.