《弟子规·信》
听见别人对自己的恭维话应该感到不安；听见别人对自己的指责，不但不生气，还能欢喜接受，那么正直诚信的人，就会高兴和你接近。
直谅士，渐相亲。
You should be uneasy when you hear others flatter you; when you hear others criticize you, not only do you not get angry, but you can also accept it happily, then honest and trustworthy people will be happy to get close to you.