some therapists refer to this as a temporary "ban on sex". it stems from the work of masters and johnson who developed sensate focus exercises to help couples learn to reconnect through non-sexual touch then sexual touch and finally sex with communication exercises and such all along the way. the "sex ban" is part of this. it can serve various purposes depending on the couple. for many people the ban can be a way to relieve pressure. if he doesn't desire sex then getting you both agree to 60 days without sex means that he doesn't have to worry about feeling guilty for avoiding sex or rejecting you and you don't have to worry about getting rejected if you were to try to initiate. it can also inspire you to find other ways to be affectionate or loving with each other. .
what is a "no sex contract" as part of sex therapy?