when a man is often able to orgasm but takes a very long time (typically 45 mins or longer) this may be called "delayed ejaculation". this is different than "inhibited ejaculation" which can result in a man often not having an orgasm at all. there are a wide range of causes and often this is helped by meeting with a sex therapist. meeting with a doctor to rule out medical conditions that may be getting in the way of penile sensation is also often helpful (conditions such as diabetes). in the mean time some men find it helpful to use a vibrator together with their partner. increasingly there are more couples vibrators available on the market including the we-vibe which is worn partially inside a woman's body during intercourse. less expensive but also somewhat less intense are vibrating condom rings available in many drug stores. some men orgasm more easily with intense vibration such as the accuvibe or hitachi magic wand. couples may hold this between partners' bodies which can feel pleasurable for both partners. some men alternatively find pleasure from holding the vibrator to their penis while their partner kisses them. this can help to ease orgasm for the man while making it easier for his partner to assist as well.
how can a man orgasm more quickly?