hi this is from medical. mit. edc how does herpes spread? hsv-1 is spread through contact with saliva including kissing and mouth-to-genital contact (oral sex). hsv-2 is usually transmitted by direct genital-to-genital or genital-to-anal contact. in the past hsv-2 was responsible for most cases of genital herpes. however recent research suggests that almost 80 percent of college students with genital herpes have hsv-1 probably due to high rates of oral sex in this group. remember a person with herpes doesn’t need to have symptoms to spread the virus to someone else. and this would include not ejaculating as there possibly could have been some pre-cum and it would have been in that. hope you told her. good luck
i am a male and a girl gives me oral sex and i don't ejaculate will she get oral or genital herpes