i read your query and understand your concerns. although we assume in one or the other way but it is not like that. the fact is first someone becomes topper successful and then his style are appreciated leading to wider recognition. we as a society focus more on successful people and try to imitate them in the way of writing or dressing but it is not the style which makes somebody a topper. it is the hard work and intelligence that make you topper. i mean to say that things are in different order. like successful person leads to the identification of his style. so you definitely need to get into how you can achieve something rather than trying to imitate others. do not have much spare time to engage in these thoughts and have some work which helps you in achieving something. whenever you are alone try to connect with friends and family. use stop technique. just say stop loudly when you feel there are excessive thoughts. for further information consult a psychologist counsellor online --> <link>
how can i overcome the problem of assuming things?