genital herpes is spread by genital contact. oral herpes (cold sores fever blisters ) is spread by oral contact. genital-oral contact can cause herpes to spread if one partner has active lesions but if you do not have oral lesions you cannot spread it to his genitals (unless of course he already has it).
i have been diagnost with genital herpes and i was wondering if i give my partner oral sex if it would infect him too? . i was just recently told i have genital herpes and my partner may have it too but he hasn't been tested yet i was the first to show signs. because females show signs more then males do it seems.