good for you for trying to help your partner! i can only imagine how this takes a toll on you. i agree that she should see her doctor again and get a few blood tests done. if she is losing that much blood she may be anemic causing her to feel weak and tired. try to get her to a gyno and go with her if possible. i personally would be most worried about the drinking and paranoia. alcohol is a depressant and is more than likely making things worse though she may feel a bit better at the time she is drinking. there could also be some underlying depression. until she gets to the doctor do your best to be patient and kind. she is clearly not herself at this time and probably feels bad about how she treats you afterwords. try distracting her and getting her to do a bit of excersice (a walk around the park) as it can help some period symptoms. worse comes to worse offer chocolate!
how can i help my 50 yr old fiancee' through issues in her menstrual cycle? . prior to menstruation she not only is irritable but easily angered and flies into rages she becomes despondent and paranoid starts to drink heavily often becoming drunk. when her flow arrives it is extremely heavy clots and heavy pad soaking in 2 hours or less. she becomes weak and tired. she has been prescribed 20 mg evanapril once daily for during menstruation but does not take it. she is a little overweight but active and in good health non smoker. what should i do to assist her?