see your gynecologist to make sure there is not an underlying structrual or anatomical issue like a retroverted (tilted) uterus etc. unless your sexual partner is a trained psychotherapist he should not be diagnosing you with an emotional problem or implicate a trust issue. most of these issues can be solved but more information is needed.
painful intercourse. the pain i am experiencing w/ intercourse is not a matter of lubricant i do not feel pain with oral or hand use it is only when the actual act is being done. it is as if there is a wall preventing entry 1/4 of the way in. it is painful feels like a muscle block. my partner feels it is emotional or in my head. i. e. a feeling of concern of if this relationship is real or will last and he feels when i feel more trusting i will be able to "open" up. .