one thing to examine is the chemical attraction. is this still at pretty much the same levels as when this relationship started or has it deteriorated too? new post marriage annoying personality physical and/or behavioral discoveries could impact chemical attraction and lead to difficiencies in otherwise perfectly normal individuals. you may want to in addition to testing your t levels re-assess that side of the relationship.
i am 24 and married but feel as if my sex drive is dwindling. any reasons as to why? . my sex life with my wife is just getting worse. my drive performance and stamina has been going steadily downhill and its emotionally straining on both of us. i never had any issue until i was married and now i don't have the drive and my performance/stamina is pitiful not what it used to be (short lasting sometimes loss of erection or lack of one completely). i work out at least 3x a week and eat fairly healthy. i am 73" and weigh 180-190 (fluctuates) and i do smoke (hope to quit soon). help!