difficult as it may be i would try to take a deep breath -- and -- i would definitely not pursue any surgery at this stage. if you want to explore medical causes i would strongly encourage you to go to a pediatric endocrinolgist for evaluation. in addition to doing some blood work for hormone levels he or she may also order some straight-forward genetic tests. hopefully you have this type of specialist nearby; if not i would suggest you make arrangements to see one in a neighboring city. if you cannot do this immediately you could also get another opinion from a different general pediatrician. but i woud still push for the sub-specialty consultation.
my 3 year old daughter was a micro-preemie. her health is perfect but her clitoris is abnormally large. what can we do? . should we have corrective surgery performed or is there specialist who can offer us some guidance?