there are "natural ways" of contraception like the rhythm method or coitus interruptus (pulling out before ejaculation) but most people who practice these less-than-perfect methods end up being parents. non-vaginal sex like oral sex mutual masturbation etc. is effective but perhaps not enjoyable as good ol' fashioned intercourse. you can use a diaphragm or a cervical cap. basically you both need to see a good gynecologist or visit planned parenthood for a consultation. birth control pills when properly prescribed are safe. the do not have "high risks of side effects" like you believe. there are few natural ways of preventing pregnancy since getting pregnant is really the natural way. humans are designed to conceive; not to prevent pregnancy. hi try having a look on www. dodsonandross. com you may find some info on there or post6 to dr betty dodson she may have something up her sleeve to help you but without full vaginal intercourse its down to oral mutual masturbating or anal sex your find all the info you need for all 3 on dodson and ross site lots on info on the sex your find quite interesting lots to read. do hope this helps you and your man your find its a long and bumpy road marriage that is but getting sex right your there. good luck to you both. hi there! i'm using persona it is made by unilever and it's different from babycomp because it does not use temperatura (which may vary a lot during your cycle) but urine tests to check for your hormonal levels. it takes a bit for it to get to know you so it will ask you to restrain from sex (or use a barrier method) for more days during the first 1-3 months. then you will probably get "red" (no sex) days about 3-7 times a month.
how to avoid getting pregnant the natual way? . i'm 25 and engaged. my fiance and i agreed we avoid getting pregnant for the first few years of marriage. he doesn't want to wear a condom and insists on that i should take birth control but i disagreed. i don't believe in birth control due to the high risks of side effects. eventually i want and would love to get pregnant but after a 3-4 years of being married. i would like to know is there natural ways of having sex and not getting pregnant?