your birth control pills will also prevent pregnancy something that i think you are definitely going to need if you continue with this risky sex-play it is only a matter of time before you both decide to "go for it" so why not carefully plan for the inevitable? spotting or a milky discharge can be many things from a minor vaginal injury (from that rubbing) and your own vaginal mucous. it could be a yeast infection if you are also having itching or irritation. see your medical provider if you are concerned. ejaculation on or near the vaginal opening is a bit risky. while it is not very likely you got pregnant this time since you are on the pill and the ejaculation was not vaginal you want to really avoid as much live viable sperm as you can. you really can't trust your partner during these heated moments of passion so must make him use a condom even if you have not consented to going "all the way". this will contain his semen. if you have a normal period and no signs of pregnancy you won. this time but please keep in mind that thiings could change. be prepared and be pro-active.
could i be pregnant if we were naked and we just rubbed and stuff until he came? i am. having some spotting and milky white discharge? help please i'm 19. i also am on a low bc but its only to regulate my period.