the bleeding is the most concerning. he will need to call and see his surgeon. it is really not normal to be bleeding from one of the laparoscopic sites for this long. since he is also having pulling pains in his groin there could be some internal bleeding going on as well.
my husband just had his appendix taken out 11 days ago and the doctor told him to return to work 3 days ago. . however; his belly button has been bleeding dark red blood and a good amount on the bandage for 3 days now. he lifts about 20 pounds at his work daily. is it normal to have this much blood and it being dark and to have it "soak through" the bandage? also he has a pulling "slight pain" from the area down to his groin that just started.