it's hard to know without talking to a doctor but here are some things to investigate that may help you find your answer. do you use latex condoms? if so try some polyurethane ones. does she feel pain when stretched with fingers or a sex toy? if not it might be nervousness shame or fear about sex that is causing the issue and relaxation exercises might help. does she have sensitivity to a certain kind of lube? if she's shy could she subconsciously be feeling the pain because she feels she shouldn't enjoy sex? until you find your answer there are plenty of non penetrative sex options that you both can enjoy. hands mouths soft places on the body and toys provide nearly unlimited options for fun.
why does my girlfriend experience massive burning pain during penetration? . during sex my girlfriend suffers massive pain and we stop having sex. she seems to have a massive burning pain. this has been going on for a while now perhaps a year and a half. we are now put off from sex completely as a result of the pain and she is too shy and embarrassed to visit a doctor. we have tried using lubricant and we do engage in plenty of foreplay and believe that something else is wrong. we dont have any infections sti's or otherwise. please help