hi this sounds like the round in your lower back has moved and now pressing against a nerve that could be the reason your now wetting your self. good luck
tingling all over sometimes loose 10sec of memory and wet self know nothing of it till after it happens. . have not a clue. been shot 3x 2x chest 1 still in lower back 1x in right temple. still there 23 yrs ago. lost about 40lbs nothing in diet has changed. dr. did complete blood work up and x-rays everything good. plz help