most helpful answer need to? probably not. desire to? you bet. studies have shown that 90% of all men masturbate and the other 10% are probably lying. religious dogma aside there is nothing wrong with masturbation for men or women. does it improve sex life? maybe but if done excessively instead of sexual intimacy then the answer would be no. your wife should not be shocked by this normal natural act of self-pleasure and you should definitely talk about it. every man masturbates; there’s nothing wrong with it and it actually helps improve a man’s sexual ability by making him knowledgeable about what stimulation his penis responds to and in many cases by helping a man learn how to prolong his need to ejaculate. it also seems to help keep the prostate healthier which is a great thing. masturbating often makes a penis sore of course so do regularly use a top drawer penis health cream (health professionals recommend man1 man oil) with a high end emollient like shea butter and a natural hydrator like vitamin e. hi found you some links they may help you both but it is a funny thing when our wives either catch us or find the wet hanky whoops? <link> <link> and this last link is so she can join you <link> there’s lots to read it wont hurt both of you if you read them together naked if you can the dodson ones your find are good. do hope this helps you. good luck
my wife is upset with me because she caught me mastubating but i read somewhere that men need to. is that true? . i read somewhere that masturbation is essential for men and can actually improve sex life. i want to know if this is true so i can talk to my wife about it. please advise.