you need to inform your doctor secretly. when your mother is not in the room. just ask for a little privacy. the doctor cannot really tell if you had an abortion based on examination but the doctor definitely needs to know that you have been pregnant in the past. you are entitled to confidentiality so the doctor is prohibited by law not to reveal this information to your mother.
can a doctor tell by pap smear that i've had an abortion? . three months ago i had an abortion at 9 weeks and am pregnant now. i very much want to keep these pregnancy. i have to get a physical and pap smear done and my mother is coming with me. i do not want her to know. will the doctor be able to tell i've had an abortion and then say something in front of my mother?