it is okay to use pull-ups in day-care. for now otherwise you may be looking for another place for him to be during the day. many day-care facilities require that he be completely potty-trained. he is going through a very rough time with the divorce so this may take time and understanding. if need be you can consult a child psychologist to help him but things should improve. absolutely no punishment if he soils or wets a pull-ups but positive reinforcement is important when he does use the potty. do not talk about the divorce in front of him or allow him to overhear you on the phone when you are talking to your friends. reassure him that his parents love him and that this will not change. he may be very worried about moving. or living in two different houses. so you need to help him. the divorce was not his fault but he is suffering too.
should i put my son back in pull ups? . my four year old son was fully potty trained until my husband and i started our divorce. the daycare he attends wants to put him back into pull ups but i feel that would be back-tracking. what should i do?