you must first permit a proper examination so this may involve bringing a trusted friend with you get a compassionate female medical provider and even ask for an anti-anxiety medication before your gynecological visit. this is not an uncommon problem and the causes can be very complex both medical and psychological -- not something that can be easily solved over the internet. the medical name for this condition is dyspareunia. if you are to have a satisfying sexual life it is important that you follow through and see a specialist in this area.
intercourse. i have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and i do not enjoy having intercourse. every time he tries i scream /cry that it hurts and i push him away. i've been to gyno 4 times but never gone through a check up because i scream/cry and push the doctor away. also i do not wear tampons. i am not a virgin. i am tired of this problem that is preventing me from living a normal life. someone mentioned hypnotherapy. is that a possible solution? please help!