disinterest in sex is not uncommon but can be very complex. there can be many many different reasons -- impossible to sort out in the forum. if having a pleasurable sex life is important to you and i know that it is your first step would be to see your gynecologist to see if there is some organic reason for your lack of libido. the next step assuming a medical reason is not found would be to see a counselor -- a therapist that can help you uncover any psychological reasons for this issue. this problem can be fixed i am sure but you have to take the first step.
get bored having sex. sex has isn't very fun to me. it feels more like work than play. my boyfriend has been trying different things to help me but i just don't have fun. the first 5-10 minutes are fine but after that i'll hurry to fake an orgasm so he will ejaculate. he gets upset because he is always the one seducing me but the reason i don't seduce him is because i just don't like it! i don't know how to enhance my sex drive its really annoying.