the birth control pill is highly effective in preventing pregnancy so as long as you both do not ever (now or in the future) violate your monogamous agreement you can decide to give up condoms and withdrawal. if you both have had prior sexual partners and not had a prior std and are now testing negative you are probably good to go. remember that no birth control is 100% (unless it is abstinence and sterilization). the 98% or so effectiveness from birth control pills can be improved a bit by using condoms as well but that will be your mutual choice.
we are exclusive. she has been on the pill for months. we have both been tested for stds. is condom use needed? . we are both really ocd about pregnancy and stds that's why despite the fact that she is on the pill and has a cellphone alarm to ensure she takes it at the same time everyday and we've both been std tested we still have just used condoms. what is the risk of pregnancy if we didn't use condoms? is this reasonable to do? should i still try to pull-out?