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what r the risks performing oral sex on boyfriend if he is positive for genital herpes but has never had an outbreak? . diagnosed in jan w/ genital herpes after 1st unprotected sex with bf had a terrible outbreak went to er due to complications of my immune system. he was diagnosed at the same time did not know he had it. my doctor said he gave to me. i was tested for the indicator that shows this is very recent (widowed almost 3 yrs-no partners). he has never had symptoms is it safe to perform oral sex both for him and for me? my fear is to get oral herpes on top of genital. also are men considered carriers?