most helpful answer this can be a complex issue so start with his medical provider. go with him and make sure he addresses both his lack of libido and his possible erectile difficulties. you may also benefit from some couple counseling if you can convince him to do it. you may find this comprehensive approach with open communication more effective than just dancing naked in front of him to entice sexual activity. you can get the spark back in your sexual relationship but you must first determine where the problem lies.
husband has no resopnse to visual sexual stimulation. nothing short of touching will gain an erection! help! . never has had a morning erection! erections have never been rock hard either & now that he has turned 50 we have had the required tests done found nothing physically wrong. he is on. 5mg zestril for blood pressure that's it! we have been married almost 10 years & up until recently i was mostly the initiator of sex. i grew tired i felt that i was making him do it! he is never turned on by me being naked or wearing lingerie. i am clueless!