most helpful answer i'm sorry to hear this. it obviously distresses you and that alone warrants further investigation. you say you have "no medical problems " but have you had this confirmed by a gynecologist? the natural decline of hormones (both female and male) in a woman can cause a decline in sex drive. a gynecologist can determine if this is causing your decreased desire or not and provide treatment if necessary. if there's absolutely nothing wrong physically then i'd suggest you consult a counselor. a psychotherapist who specializes in sexual issues may help you figure out why your sex drive has declined. don't be embarrassed to seek this kind of help. a woman's sex drive is very complicated. a skilled therapist may be able to help you sort things out. you also might want to check out webmd's sexual health community to connect with other women who are experiencing the same thing. wishing you all the best! hi if you google dodson and ross its a great site for sex answers and this could be that your sex receptors need reawakening for women reading about sex is a great way for them to get in the mood so on dodson and ross its like everything you ever wanted to know about sex and was afraid to ask well its all there and more. if not see if you can find old mags called forum these go back to the late 60s but don't worry sex is sex if you can find them have a good read and like some couples did read them in bed together could turn you both on together. dr betty dodson she is a bit of a sex guru she runs life class's for women on how to masturbate and orgasm some one i know says she is a real gem. good luck hi chuckurt67 look i think your best bet would be to do your own post and tell what your problem is. see if i can find you then good luck nohard sex is weak for human skin i also hate sex so getintopc i have sex problem how to treat
i have no interest in sex. don't hurt enough lubrication get along great just don't care anymore--why? . i can't understand why i'm just not interested in sex anymore. . there is absolutly no pain i still produce plenty of natural lube me and my boyfriend get along great and have no problems at all. i have good blood pressure no medical problems so why do i hate the thought of sex? we have been together for 12 yrs and are still in love with each other and like i said we get along great with no problems. what is my problem?