thanks for using this forum. its painful when your near ones take you for a ride but at times you are helpless. time is a great healer. ithink you should attend few sessions with the therapist and then reason out things logically. you have your kids to take care off and the baaby needs you so stop thinking and get into action mode will help feel you better. dont worry everything will be fine. take care.
i let my brother and his family live with me becaue i felt bad that he lost his house. he has 2 kids 9 & 10 and 3 dogs(what am i thinking) he told me he would pay a few of the lower bills in the house which equal up to 200 a month. i am a single mom with 1 boy 9 and a 1 year old. finances have been pretty tight so i can't allow someone to take advantage of me. he started to make really good money (which i was happy 4 him) i told him he needed 2 help out a bit more so it could be a bit more equal but he got angry saying how he is ******* broke and he is not making any money(i know he was making 1800 wk take home) he promised 2 do things 2 help me around the house and never followed through with it. ex. his wife talked me into purchasing a pool which i could not afford but. she said they would pay 2 level the ground he would do the electical and they already had the pump and filter 2 give me. i thought it was a good deal for all 2 enjoy. they r now leaving me with all 2 to do!