i'm sorry you're going through this. it sounds very distressing. the only decent advice i can give you is to see a counselor or psychotherapist who has experience treating sexual issues. i applaud your commitment to your girlfriend not to cheat on her but i also hasten to reassure you masturbation is normal. i also recognize some religions frown on self-pleasure. so if this is an issue to you i again suggest you see a counselor. you also could make an appointment with your primary health care provider to discuss this issue. it's possible there is some type of medication that can be given to reduce the male sex drive. i'm not aware of what this might be. again i think you're being very noble by honoring your girlfriend. you also deserve to have your needs met however. and for that reason i hope you seek out a therapist who can help you sort through this. wishing you all the best!
hello i cannot find any info concerning frequent erections ie how to stop or slow them down. . my girl friend lost all interest during menopause and i wont go elsewhere or masturbate. but i feel like im going out of my mind