hi this is from webmd but dose seem you have both been let down but if you had both been thinking hygiene you would not be here. now from webmd. you can have a fulfilling sex life if you have genital herpes even though it may. always use a latex condom for vaginal sex anal sex and receiving fellatio. . make sure you wash the toy before and after and don't share it. sorry for you both you've been ley down. good luck
can you get an std like hiv/aids or genital herpes from anal sex toys? . both me and my partner were virgins and now we have genital herpes. my partner used a sex toy that they received from a friend that may have used it.