it does not seem likely that you would be pregnant. menses can often be irregular for other reasons including stress. first sexual episodes can cause stress as well as fear of pregnancy. hang in there. relax. in the event that you totally miss a period or have more definitive signs of pregnancy you can always do a home test. you are wise to insist that your boyfriend use a condom 100% of the time; ejaculation or not. you on the other hand should now consider a back up form of birth control (contraceptive pill depo shot etc. ( which can be obtained at planned parenthood or by your medical provider. you are entitled to 100% confidentiality so insist on it.
could i be pregnant. my boyfriend and i had sex for the first time on december 12th. we used a condom and he did not ejaculate during sex. i bled a little after because it was my first time. however on december 15th my period came. i was not due until december 23rd. i had heavy bleeding and cramping for 3 days so other than it coming early it was a normal period. could i be pregnant? i had a headache this morning and am a tiny bit worried.