as a teacher of sex education yes it should be fine to begin sexual interaction with your boyfriend. you may find that exploration by your boyfriend may break the lining of your hymen. initially a sharp pain with cherry coloured blood is normal. use protection and make sure that your boyfriend's hands or fingers are clean before any manual insertions.
i'm a 13 year old girl who has not begun her period. would it be safe to begin sexual interaction with my boyfriend? . i'm a thirteen year old girl who has not begun her period. would it be safe to begin sexual interaction with my boyfriend? we both have permission from our parents are prepared to prevent pregnancy by the use of condoms and have been together for two years. at times we have become wet for each other if that helps any. i want to know if it is safe to have him finger my clit and hit my g-spot. what are the dangers?