i'm sorry to hear you're experiencing this. how frustrating! being able to enjoy a normal sex life is a very important part of our overall health. so your situation definitely merits further investigation. you didn't say whether you injured your upper or lower back but since your sexual problems seem to correlate with the back injury i'd suggest you ask your doctor to investigate whether you may have damaged any nerves in the lower back that relate to sexual arousal. this could be a possible cause for your symptoms. i do believe it's true that orgasms for both sexes become less strong as we get older and may take longer to achieve. but since you're getting right to the brink but can't get over the edge i don't think aging is the issue here. i think you should see your doctor again. wishing you all the best!
why am i unable to have an orgasam after enjoying complete orgasams previously? . up until i injured my back 3 yrs ago i had no problems enjoying sex. i still enjoy it and my husband and i still use different stimulations for pleasure. i get right to the edge and just can't go farther no matter what we do. this is very frustrating for my husband as well. i'm 60 and my doctor says i don't need hrt.