you know the desire to experience and see those things is normal. and men are very visual that’s why women’s clothing is so suggestive with the lace and the little flowers and everything. men visual is what stimulates them and gets them going it’s what stimulates them. and they play up with that on the internet. and i think what you need to do is sit down with the son and explain that what he’s doing is normal but that the images that he’s seeing are not normal that it’s not part of a normal healthy relationship and that you would prefer him not to do that. and if he’s not going to control himself with frequency and amount and the bizarreness of what he can see then you’ll have to intervene. and it’s becoming a hidden taboo issue out there. a hidden issue in that boys and men are becoming sex addicts. they can go online and have access to these images and no longer need to interact with women or it becomes an obsession for them. 55 instead of a normal once-a-day it may be five or eight times a day. so they’re having to deal with these issues it’s another whole addiction that’s been brought out by this industry. and if you do it at work you can be fired. if you do it on somebody else’s computer you can get in trouble. if you download inappropriate things that are illegal such as child pornography the police can come barging in your door confiscate everything and arrest you. or arrest your parents. so it’s not every freedom comes with responsibility and you need to understand what is appropriate and what is not even when you can do it privately.
what can i say to my son who is watching internet porn?