allow your partner to take an active role on putting on that condom for you and continue active foreplay with the condom on until you achieve an adequate erection again. there is even a way for a partner to put on your condom with the mouth during oral sex. there is no physical reason why you would be losing your erection but there may be psychological reasons. take your time. don't hurry sexual activity. a supportive and understanding partner can go a long way in helping you correct this issue.
trouble keeping it up (condoms). i'm a 22 year old male and i have trouble keeping it up when it's time to make love. during foreplay i'm rock hard but when i start to get the condom out of the drawer unwrapping it and putting it on i go soft. i put the condom on and i slowly lose my erection. eventually i'm able to get him back up but by then the mood is killed. how can i fix this? how do i maintain my erection during that break of getting the condom and putting it on?