hii think the best thing you can do is get to an std/gum clinic get them to do some tests this will highlight any kind of infections you may now have. this guy you last had sex with may have been a carrier and he could have passed it on to you you can be a carrier and not know it it has a thing about hiding in tests gonorrhea that is. but p[lease get tested yourself this would be a big release for you to know how you stand if you clear then you can get back to having a sex life there's nothing better for us humans than having a good sex life very good for us. do hope this helps. good luck
if i have pid is it too late? did it affect my fertility? it's been 3 1/2 years and i'm scared! . last time i had sex was 3 1/2 yrs ago. guy told me next day he had gonorrhea blamed it on me though i never had it. i didn't go to a doctor and just got antibiotics from a pharmacy! i am scared now don't really have colored discharge but sometimes smell isn't too pleasant and i'm scared that i might have pid and be infertile. is it too late? how long does the pid have to go untreated for it to affect fertility? the thought of never being able to have children scares me!