hi some symptoms in men don't show like tric chlamydia or gonorrhoea and the last one can hide in tests. sorry but if he wont go and get tested please find another guy but a clean one if you have not been tested do so and soon you just need to go to an std/gum clinic to get tested the staff are helpful. do hope this helps you. good luck
if i was std positive most than likely the person i had sexual intercourse with should also be positive correct? . he still has not been checked for the std according to him he does not show any symptoms. what if we use condoms then it would be less likely to get an std?