i'm sorry you're going through this. a healthy sex life is good for your overall wellbeing. i'd suggest you first consult a gynecologist to make sure there's no physical issue that needs to be addressed. at the same time you can discuss your lack of sex drive with your gynecologist to see if you would benefit from some counseling. perhaps a psychotherapist can help you with any emotional issues that are blocking you from having a healthy sex drive. you might also head over to webmd's sexual health communities to talk over the situation with other women who have the same issue. sometimes just finding someone else going through the same thing can be helpful. wishing you all the best!
i am 21 years old and have been married for about 2 1/2 years. however i have no sexual drive. what could cause this? . i enjoy sex once i have started it but i just do not have the desire to have sex.