if the gender role was reversed and a man was writing "should i dump my girlfriend because she won't have sex? " how would you respond. sex is the deepest and most intimate form of communication but don't forget about talking. ask him? just because he is a guy does not mean he is a horn-dog. he may have some deep concerns fear of stds fear of pregnancy performance fears impotence shy about his body or even a fear of intimacy. there could be religious reasons too. if your relationship has lasted two years there is something there. ask him if he would be willing to have couples counseling. see if a third-party can break the ice. hi and there is another side to this you both could be a sexual miss match so if after 2 years you have nothing then if it goes further and still nothing don't think there is much of a future. but first a question just how far have the two of you gone with sex or has it been a complete blank when it comes to sex not even any touching from him or from you how does he react to sexual touching to you or to him? if its nothing and you want a sexual relationship then i think its time for a split but do sit with him and tell him why. good luck
my boyfriend won't have sex i'm stuck should i forget him and move on or can you tell me what i can do? . my boyfriend won't have sex with me. however i have caught he and another friend ( male) watching porn and jacking off. he tells me he is not gay and he wants to have sex with me but he's not ready yet. i have asked him how can he watch porn with another guy and jack off but not have sex with me. we have talked about this. but after 2 years still nothing has happened. i am in my late 50's and i like sex very much.