well that may be good for you but what about your partner's needs? sex isn't just about you. while the frequency of sexual activity is not as important as the quality of the intimacy. some people have sex in order to be loved/hugged and some people hug in order to have sex. sex is the intimate form of communication so if your sexual activity is not balanced with your partner you will need to talk about it.
marriied for 18 years - have sex once every 2-3 weeks. sex is overrated and not necessary to make me happy.