i was just diagnosed after being faithfully married for 10 yrs and only 1 other partner before him so i would like to know the answer to your question as well. i am sure you feel just as hopeless as i do and i still have so many unanswered questions it seems. <negative_smiley> life is so unfair.
how long can herpes stay in your system before an outbreak? years? . been married for 16 1/2 years no infidelity but he's not my first. is it possible to have contracted the virus that long ago and not have an outbreak until today?