the problem usually doesn't occur in the wrist but the elbows. it is quite easy to painfully dislocate the elbow (subluxation of the radial head). this is called the "nursemaid's elbow". it is best not to do this.
what are the problems with picking a 24 pound child up by her wrists? . this child is 20 months old and has been subject to this since she was crawling. please advise.