it is probably your current boyfriend (just a guess) but your previous boyfriend could have spread it to you as well and the virus has not reared its ugly head until now. needless to say one of them gave it to you and you are partially responsible too since you permitted unprotected sex. if your current boyfriend refuses to be tested this is just a like a suspected drunk driver refusing a blood alcohol test. according to the law refusal to be tested is equivalent to guilt. since herpes often accompanies other stds you would be wise to be tested for more than just herpes.
first initial outbreak of genital herpes did i contract it from my current partner or from previous partner? . i have never had any signs of symptoms of genital herpes and after being with the same boyfriend for over 2 years i had intercourse my boyfriend states that he has never had any symptoms and refuses to be tested. he claims that i had it before i met him. i just want to know the truth could i have had it prior to this initial outbreak and not know it or did i contract it from him and could i have intercourse with him for 2 years before i finally contracted it from him?