i am not sure exactly what "fleshy area" you are talking about so i would suggest that your bring this up during a gynecological exam so that your practitioner can address this concern. most normal female anatomy does not interfere with intercourse but if you have some sort of a unique anomaly then a medical provider will need to see it. the urethral area alone can be quite sensitive from intercourse. in the meantime please ask that your partner exercise a bit more caution during sex so that any sensitive area is not traumatized.
what is the fleshy area between the urethra and the vaginal opening? can it get in the way during sex? . mine sometimes feels like it's blocking the entrance which is uncomfortable at the beginning of sex.