hi coconut oil is a good choice but try the extra virgin or almond oil this is recommended by dr betty dodson if these don't affect you there's good old baby oil and olive oil if your in the kitchen for kitchen sex. just enjoy your sex life. good luck
i am post menopausal and my partner has had a vasectomy. can we use coconut oil safely as a personal lubricant? . we obviously don't need condoms so that is not an issue. no condoms needed.