get pregnant and have your baby when you want it. you cannot rely on the judgment and family planning recommendations of a three-year old. you don't need to reassure him now that having siblings is not a bad thing. if you are waiting until he is four your son will be a different stage in his development and the idea of being a big brother may not seem as bad. six months into your next pregnancy is plenty of time to prepare him for a new baby in the home. since most four year olds go to pre-school and develop friend relationships a sibling will not likely be an issue.
how can i help my 3 year old son to want a sibling in one year or more to come. he just wants mom&dad no siblings. i plan to have my second child when my son is 4 and a half. he is 3 years old now and i started talking about it to him to get him ready for that but he would say i don't want a sibling i just want you and dad. how can i make my son interested in it so that he won't be aggressive to new baby when it comes to family? we don't see new born babies around us in our relatives or friends to get him interested in the subject so i need to know how to help it. thank you so much.