hi so you know how your cycle works yes day 1 being first day of your period well day 14 give or take a day is ovulation day so you need to have unprotected sex around day <negative_smiley>9 it takes male sperm 3 days to reach your womb and sperm can live in you womb for up to 10 days max. so you ovulate after the sperm will be there waiting. if you get spotting around day 21 then you should be pregnant. do hope this helps you. good luck. ps look throw away the test kits just leave it to nature relax take a deep breath your get pregnant when your body is ready outside of that get a sperm test done you never know?
i have been getting positive ovulation tests but late temperature rise (~8 days after) in some cycles. is this normal? . i have been trying to get pregnant since about 10 months now. in about 4 cycles i have had an issue with ovulation testing. in these months although i get positive opk test around calendar date 15-17 (which is when i normally get it) my temperature doesn't rise until about a week after. is this normal? in other cycles i get a temperature rise a day or two after positive ovulation test. i always get my period 16 days after the temperature rise. . thanks!