don't let her intimidate you into not putting them on her plate. in order for a child to eat a vegetable they must first tolerate the appearance of the vegetable. after a while you may talk her into touching them. smelling them. or even putting them on her tongue. eventually you can work up to getting her to eat a tiny piece. then a whole one. and then finally she may eat a full serving. it can take a while so be patient. don't use threats but you can use rewards if she understands money. give her about $10 worth of quarters and tell her she can spend them on on a toy. if she has any left at the end of the week. if she refuses to eat a green bean she can pay you with a few quarters. as she sees her stash going down she may reconsider and just eat one. in the meantime learn to puree them in her food. hide cooked vegetables in hamburger meat spaghetti or pizza sauce meatloaf etc. use veggie hot dogs. you can even give her gummi veggies. don't give up. you will win this battle eventually.
how do i get my 4 year old to eat vegetables? . she is a picky eater to begin with but i have tried letting her pick out the veggies when we shop and help me prepare them. i have tried steaming blanching saute and raw. i just don't want veggies to be a battle. i'm afraid she will never eat them.