i'm very sorry you're going through this. i strongly suggest you make an appointment with your doctor to have this situation evaluated. many conditions can cause a frequent urge to pee and the source of the problem also can depend on whether you're a man or a woman. your doctor can perform a physical examination to determine the right treatment for the cause of your overactive bladder and urinary incontinence symptoms. meanwhile you may feel more confident by using pads or briefs designed for urinary incontinence. that way if you don't make it to the bathroom you'll have a pad to catch the pee instead of getting everything wet. i wish you all the best with this!
i have frequent uncontrollable urge to pee and many times cant make it to the bathroom