i'm very sorry to hear this. alcoholism is a terrible disease. from the symptoms you describe it does sound like your father's physical condition is an advanced state of deterioration. yellowing of the white parts of the eye is a sign of liver failure. fatigue and weight loss often occur toward the end of life. i'm sorry your father won't seek medical attention. and i'm very sorry you have to witness his deterioration. obviously no one can predict how much time any individual has left on earth but in general this situation doesn't sound good. as a person enters the actual dying process they lose the ability to walk lose control of bladder and bowel function and eventually enter a coma-like state before they pass to the other side. are you able to get hospice care for your father? virtually all types of insurance cover this care which could be a great comfort to you and your dad. if your father is reluctant you can perhaps reassure him you only want him to be comfortable during this time of life. hospice care focuses on comfort and pain relief. at the very least perhaps you can get a hospice provider to make a home visit to evaluate the situation. i wish you peace.
my dad is an alcholic and ill. we think he has liver kidney and heart problems. how long does he have to live? . he refuses to see a doctor but is very fatigued and is in bed all day. he also has developed a strange bruise on his chest near his heart. his appetite had diminished and he has lost a lot of weight. he also has yellowing/puffy eyes. he continues to drink daily (vodka). he has high blood pressure (and has most of his life). i also think he is losing his mental capabilities. i just would like to know how much time i have left with him.