get rid of your cats? change your boyfriend? only go to his house? these are really your only options. he may be able to be desensitized with a long series of allergy shots but he may not be willing to invest the time money and effort to do so.
what is the best treatment for someone with asthma who can't be around cats? . my boyfriend has had asthma since childhood and has been using an inhaler. i have two cats and he can only be in my house for a very short period of time before his lungs feel tight.