hi sorry for your problem i think it would be safe for you to have sex when ever you fill your up to it for my wife it was when she got home. but take it slowly use lots of lubrication see how it fills and take it form there but having sex after birth i know they give advice but end of the day its your body and its how you fill so if you fill your up to it go for it. but slowly do hope this helps you and your husband. good luck
when is it safe to have sex after having a stillbirth? . my husband and i want to be make love but the discharge papers nothing for 4- 6 weeks. would it be safe to use condoms? my horomones are all over the place. and when would it be safe to try again for aanother baby?