see your gynecologist. there could be a discoverable reason why you are having painful sex so you won't have to use emla (an anesthetic cream).
can i use ky jelly and emla cream together for vaginal sex? is it safe to use both at same time. i find it very hard no matter how wet i am naturally. my husband tried ky jelly but it was not helpful. we are married for many year but did not have sex because of pain. i have no bad experience and psychological problem just cannot bear the pain