you can see your own therapist or request that his therapist include you in a future session. your husband would have to agree however.
how can i request to be in a therapy session with my spouse? . my husband has been going to a therapist for ptsd for several years. was never invited to a session. told him that i didn't like his anger and short tempered ways at times says mean things to me and makes me feel left out when he talks to people referring to himself only. i feel sad anxious and left out. he told me to read a book on ptsd which i did. not sure how these issues are from ptsd or is it who he is. need help to understand him & cope.