your partner should make a trip to the gynecologist's office to find out what the issue is. many things can cause painful intercourse in women including a yeast infection std and vaginismus. the first step in solving the problem is a physical examination. the gynecologist likely will test for a variety of possible infections before moving on to other potential causes of your partner's painful intercourse. your best bet is to refrain from having sex until an std is ruled out. finger insertion and oral sex both can spread stds like herpes and human papilloma virus (hpv or genital warts). better safe than sorry. once an std has been ruled out keep in mind there are other ways to enjoy the intimacy of sex without insertion. until your partner can resolve the pain issue you can show your love for her by suggesting the two of you enjoy intimacy without pressuring her to have intercourse. wishing you both well!
we have been trying to have sex everytime i insert into her vagina she says it hurts alot to the point we cant have sex. -have had sex before with less problems. . -finger insertion slowly will work. . -when she wants to move on to full insertion she tries by being on top and controlling cant get past 2 inches without saying it hurts too much.