hi first you have to remember not all women going through there menopause get tenderness hot flush's or mood swings. my wife never but a blood test for your hormones will tell you if you are but then a blood test will also tell you if your pregnant i think now may be a good time to get a blood test or a pregnancy home test. do hope this helps. good luck
how can i tell if i am pregnant or starting menopause? i am 1 month shy of 50 years old but my peiod is very light. more like spotting. i do not have any other signs of either pregnancy or menopause like tenderness or hot flashes or mood swings. we had sex around day 9 of my cycle. i started spotting on the day i was to start my period. i have never been pregnant so i have no prior knowledge. should wait a few more days or should i get a pregnacy test?