you are probably not pregnant if everything you say is true but they only way to be absolutely sure is to take a pregnancy test if you miss your next period or have any other signs of pregnancy. a headache or lower abdominal pains are not definite signs of pregnancy. as a matter of fact the birth control pills can contribute to certain types of headaches. lower abdominal pain could be many other things from constipation and intestinal gas to bladder pain. this should be investigated if your symptoms persist or worsen. if you truly worried about an unintentional pregnancy insist that your boyfriend to always use a condom. (no glove. no love! ). given a firm non-negotiable choice of no sex or sex with a condom most men will use one. your birth control pill is an excellent form of contraception but it can be near-perfect if you have him use a condom. too many people don't seem to realize "pulling out" does not prevent pregnancy! sperm leaks out before a man fully ejaculates. not to mention ejaculation isn't that controllable. also the birth control isn't fully effective until you have taken it a full week after your period. even this isn't a solid law. things like that are affected by too many aspects. for instance: how long you have been using the same kind of birth control your diet how easily your body flushes estrogen etc. etc. i suggest you more fully educate yourself on the reproductive system and safe sex practices. nobody can tell you whether or not you are pregnant. if you want to know for sure take a pregnancy test.
am i pregnant? i had sex w/o a condom two days after my period ended and im on birth control & he said he pulled out. i've been on birth control since may my period ended two days before i had sex w/o a condom. i also started my new pack of birth control the day before. my boyfriend said he pulled out before anything happened but i'm still worried. i've been getting headaches and some lower abdominal pain as well.