this can occur with men as they get older and the prostate may not totally seal up after urination is over. it can also occur after prostate surgery or with a low grade infection that makes you think that urine is still there in the urethra. i suggest that you see a urologist get a urine check to be sure there is no infection. good luck.
when still i have a feeling of leaking urine though i stay dry. feel like i need to hold it in but never actually pee. even when i relax to test my bladder i don't actually unrinate. if i'm occupied with other things the feeling goes away but once i sit or stand for a while it returns. doesn't matter if i've just gone to the bathroom or it's been a while same feeling.