i'm not sure exactly what you mean by " why has it not shown up for me during both my pregnancies". i assume you mean that it is not showing up in the blood work that you physician iis ordering during your pregnancies. since you are aware that your husband has the virus i am sure you and your husband are abstaining from sex during his outbreaks. by abstaining during his outbreaks your chances of the virus being transmitted to you is only 5 to 10 percent. i can only guess that so far you have not be infected.
if my husband has had herpes for 5 years why has it not shown up for me during both my pregnancies?