most helpful answer hi coconut oil (extra virgin) is a very good choice it does one thing that ky wont do it helps to fight yeast infections and it gives lots of slip its a good all round your body help. you just carry on with that but do go slowly for now. your sex life in an adventure. good luck you can moisturize your finger with the coconut oil but it would be best to find a water-soluble lubricant like k-y jelly or the equivalent. pharmacies and grocery stores carry them usually in the tampon department. don't be nervous. this is your body and it is wise to become familiar with your anatomy. assuming your hymen is intact go slowly and gently. coconut oil would be good especially if it's pure. you can use a lot of things as lubricants. the moisturizer may be fine but be careful in case there are fragrances that might give you problems. when people advise against using oils as a lubricant that's because they tend to break down latex condoms but that doesn't apply in your case. @nohard @rohanvynn i tried fingering but my vagina opening is very small even if i insert one finger it's very difficult for me. nd it pains a teeny little bit. moreover my vagina is descending downwards nd it is hard for me to reach because of my pubic bone. my pubic bone covers almost my entire vagina is there anything i can do other than vaginal dilators?
i have never used any tampon or even inserted my finger inside i am now trying to finger can i use oil as lubricant? . i have never used any tampon or even inserted my finger inside my vagina but i think i am ready now. i am very anxious to even finger myself. i am really shaky every time i try to insert anything but slowly i am getting there. but i need some lubricant. i am currently in college and in a hostel so i cant go to a shop nd buy anything can i use my ponds moisturizer or coconut oil as lubricant around my vagina?