i'm sorry to hear you go through this and if it helps i'll share this: it happens to me too! some people are just naturally prone to flushing when they're embarrassed angry or otherwise experiencing heightened emotions. have you ever noticed whether or not your neck flushes for no reason at all? mine does. sometimes i can just be sitting around minding my own business get up to go to the bathroom and notice my neck's all red. what the heck? ! i don't know if there's any medical explanation for this. i've noticed personally that it seems to happen more in fair-skinned people of north european descent. it could simply be that flushing (which is caused by increased blood flow just beneath the skin) is more visible in fair-skinned people. i don't know. if possible try to learn to live with this unique trait. when people tease me about this i laugh right along with them. i say things like "some people wear their heart on their sleeve. i wear my emotions on my face! " if the anxiety aspect bothers you don't hesitate to seek counseling from a trained psychotherapist. anxiety can be managed through cognitive therapy (talk therapy) and medication if warranted. a counselor also can help you cope with the embarrassment you feel about the flushing. i wish you all the best as a kindred spirit!
when i am nervous i shake sweat have facial flushing and red blotched areas on my neck. why does this happen? . i suffer from anxiety so i feel nervous most of the time especially at work and in social situations. i also flush profusely when i'm embarrassed when i laugh cough get angry or excited. this is disturbing to me as many people comment on it which i feel makes me even more self concious.