the birth control pill alone offers you excellent protection against an unintentional pregnancy but offers you no protection against sexually-transmitted disease. even the most honest and trustworthy males can have an undisclosed sexual transgression with another person exposing them to an std. this std can spread to you. temporary break-ups arguments and a dozen other reasons may give a boy the implied permission to have sex with someone else. they may only disclose this transgression after you are diagnosed with an std. humans tend to lie about these things. i don't know you. or your boyfriend but in order to protect yourself from a possible std. no matter how unlikely this may be. insist on him using a condom for your protection. the added contraceptive value is another plus since no contraceptive method is 100%. given the non-negotiable choice of "no sex" or "sex only with a condom" a male partner will use a condom. recreational sex is your personal choice but an std or unintentional pregnancy is always a possibility.
is it okay to have sex on the pill and him finish without protection? . i am on lo loestrin fe. i have been on this pill for about 4-5 months now. i got on it to help with my menstrual cycle. a few months ago i started having sex with my boyfriend (of almost 2 years). we have used a condom for extra protection but a few times haven't used anything and he finished. i take my birth control at the same time every night the latest i may take it is maybe an hour or an hour and a half off (but not often at all). are we not being smart about this?