so there was this woman and she was, uh, on an airplane and she was flying to meet her fiance sailing high above the, the largest ocean on planet earth and she was seated next to this man, who you know, she had tried to start conversations and the only, really the only thing she heard him say was was to order his, his bloody mary and she's sitting there and she was reading this really arduous magazine article about a third world country that she couldn't even pronounce the, the name of and she was feeling very bored and very despondent and then, uh, suddenly there was this huge mechanical failure and one of the, the engines gave out and they started just falling thirty - thousand feet the pilot's on the, on the microphone and he's, he's saying'i'm sorry, i'm sorry, oh my god, i'm sorry'and apologizing and she looks at the man and she, and she says, she says she says'where are we going?'and he looks at her and he says'we're going to a party it's a birthday party, it's your birthday party happy birthday, darling we love you very, very, very, very, very, very, very much