Once the wind and the sun came to have a quarrel. Either of them claimed to  be a stronger. At last they agreed to have a trial of strength. "Here comes a traveller. let us see who can strip him of his clock," Said  the sun. The wind agreed and chose to have the first turn. He blew in the hardest  possible way. As a result , the traveller wrapped his cloak even more  tightly around him. Then  it was the turn of the sun. At first he shone very gently. So, the traveller  loosened his cloak from his neck. The sun went on shining brighter and brighter. The traveller felt hot. Before long he took off his cloak and put it in his bag. The wind had to  accept his defeat. 
Fury or force cuts no ice where gentleness does the job. 