I feel like one of my exes was a narcissist. What are the signs of narcissism?
I feel like one of my exes was a narcissist. What are the signs of narcissism?
user
A lot of people hear that word and think it refers to extreme egomania, but in psychology, it actually means a lack of empathy.  Here’s one simple test: do you think this person would feel sad if you got injured in an accident?
assistant
I didn't know that. I thought narcissism was more about self involvement rather than a lack of empathy. I thought a lack of smpathy was more sociopathic.
user
The psychological study of narcissism is much newer than the field of psychiatry, which has been around for many years.  But people may have known about narcissism before they were named for it, as it’s often the case that people who are highly self-centered are not as focused on the needs or concerns of others.  There is a difference between someone who doesn’t care about others’ needs and someone who doesn’t have empathy, and this test is intended to reveal a lack of empathy, not lack of concern about others.
assistant
Do you think people over-diagnose others as having narcissism? i.e. someone seems selfish or disinterested in you, so you just assume they're a narcissist even though there are many other explanations for the behavior
user