I'm moving to a new town for work. Any suggestions on how to make new friends as an adult?
I'm moving to a new town for work. Any suggestions on how to make new friends as an adult?
user
Sure. You can go out and talk to people at parties, or online, or through organizations, or go out of your way to approach people and say hello. People who do those things are often good at making friends, but if they're not you, it can be a challenge. And I'm sure you know this already, but friends can make everything better.
assistant
I'm very shy and struggle to initiate conversations though.
user
It's normal to feel that way. People who don't feel that way can sometimes be kind of annoying to others because they're always trying to strike up a conversation, and people who do feel that way can sometimes be seen as standoffish. People who are good at making friends often have tricks up their sleeve to encourage the shy to talk to them and to not seem so standoffish. They can show that they're not as socially awkward as you, and that you're not as strange as you think you are. How about you think about the type of people who seem good at making friends, and look for ways they act or things they say, and then maybe try to do that for yourself.
assistant
Do you have any suggestions of good conversation starters for someone shy, like me?
user