I'd like to go on my first date before 2022, how do I make that happen?
I'd like to go on my first date before 2022, how do I make that happen?
user
This is a complicated question, but let's unpack it:
assistant
I'm not totally done on working on myself but is it okay to engaging on dates?
user
I'd recommend finishing on improving yourself first.  If you don't do that first, then your dates may be a waste of your time and energy.  Or you might have an unpleasant experience with a date.
assistant
Does it necessary to improve self to be able to be in a relationship?
user
The romantic relationships I've heard people describe are often about sharing values and helping each other, but also having conversations.  The question of if you can “just be in a relationship” while improving yourself is a bit more complicated.  I'd recommend thinking through what “just being in a relationship” means to you.  Do you want to be in a relationship, or do you just want a series of dating partners?  Do you want to be monogamous or have casual dating relationships?
assistant
I want to be in a serious and long-term relationship and i think while in a relationship can also improve myself.
user
I can see a relationship like that, where a couple lives together, spends time together, grows together, and does activities together.  Can you think of some ways that could happen?
assistant
Yes. Sharing each other's thoughts and from that I learn that I can be toxic sometimes and I'm working to fix it.
user
I'm glad to hear that.  I know it can be difficult to be honest about your flaws, and it's important to be able to do that.
assistant
It was really happy to have a partner that listens and tells your flaws.
user