How do I get my kids to quit complaining when I ask them for help?
How do I get my kids to quit complaining when I ask them for help?
user
Is it really hard to ask them to do something for you? Like get out the bin bag or pick up toys? Is there a sense of resentment on your part, or other problems with this?
assistant
yes, it is
user
Well it sounds like there may be some problems with how you’re asking the kids.  Would you like me to explain?
assistant
yes.
user
When you ask for help, do you ever ask, in a friendly and clear way, like: “hey kid, can you please do me a favor and put your socks in the bin.”  And does the kid ever say no?
assistant
yes i think i do. they do not refuse but grumble.
user