I get along very well with everyone at my workplace, but a recent situation is puzzling me. A colleague has just recently started behaving very coldly towards me, avoiding me when possible and barely interacting with me when we are in close proximity. I don't understand what happened and they won't tell me, instead insisting everything is "fine." It's not though and I don't know why.
I get along very well with everyone at my workplace, but a recent situation is puzzling me. A colleague has just recently started behaving very coldly towards me, avoiding me when possible and barely interacting with me when we are in close proximity. I don't understand what happened and they won't tell me, instead insisting everything is "fine." It's not though and I don't know why.
user
That sounds really hard. If it were me, I’d try talking to the person as soon as possible to find out what’s going on, rather than letting them stew in bad feelings about you for too long. If you do speak with the person, I’d avoid accusing them of being mad at you or telling them it’s their fault and ask them directly about what’s wrong.
assistant
I have tried to have a discussion with him on more than one occasion, but he won't tell me what's going on in his mind. He insists everything is okay but it's definitely not. He is not acting this way with anyone but me. I'm afraid more attempts to discuss it would just be more dead ends.
user