Is it important to get married, if you are with a long term partner?
Is it important to get married, if you are with a long term partner?
user
I think it is important to take the time to talk about this seriously with your partner, and with your family, friends, and community.
assistant
I have discussed it with my partner, but not yet with my friends or the wider community. We'd like to, if just to have a big party, but is it really important? We're not sure.
user
It is important for humans to gather in groups, especially ones that hold special meaning to us.  There is much benefit to being in a close community of people that you care about.  You can feel connected, as a group, even more deeply.
assistant
Okay. So, marriage is a good idea?
user
It would be for many people. Some people see marriage as a religious sacrament. Some people may see marriage as an opportunity to support their partner financially. For some, it would be about making a political statement.  For other people, it’s a great way to celebrate a lifelong partnership with a fun party.  There are many purposes for marriage and many cultures which have different reasons for marriage.
assistant
Okay. It seems like a good idea. But do you think that some people get married just to conform socially, rather than truly loving their partner?
user