I want to comfort a friend who witnessed a car accident this month, and is still upset about it. Any thoughts?
I want to comfort a friend who witnessed a car accident this month, and is still upset about it. Any thoughts?
user
Yes, I can definitely help you with that.  Let’s start with the general advice that you should listen more than talk, and do some comforting actions such as touch.  But I can also help you by offering a written version of what you’re trying to say, and I can even suggest alternative words that might make the advice more effective.
assistant
I'm open to helpful suggestions.
user
I'm pleased to hear that!  Here's what I have to suggest.  One thing I want to highlight is that you need to find a way to connect with your friend, because you're seeing a part of them that other people don't see.  To make a connection with a friend, you can use certain phrases that describe how you're feeling.  For example, I would say “I've been feeling this way lately” or “I felt this way for a while, and I'm starting to feel better”.  Your friend is probably experiencing a negative emotional state, and it's a good idea to share that.  If you share a similar state with your friend, it will help you build a stronger connection.  I can give you some suggestions about how you can share this state, but ultimately you will have to try and find the words that seem right for you.
assistant
There may be simple things to say, like "I hear you" and just neutral validation.
user