What is a good way to tell someone to be more rational and less emotional without sounding condescending?
What is a good way to tell someone to be more rational and less emotional without sounding condescending?
user
You could just ask them directly.  For example, you could say something like, “Hey, what do you think of this issue?  I know it’s tricky and I want to hear your perspective. I’m interested in seeing what you think about it.”
assistant
That's a really good way to go about it. So basically you get to discuss it in a general sense without putting the spotlight on them?
user
Yeah, you're also trying to build a level of mutual trust so they feel more willing to open up about their ideas, which will allow you to really see where they're coming from.
assistant
Yeah, I can see how this would help me get to my end goal of eventually telling them to be more rational.
user