Update on my gf’s cat
So I called a couple shelters to surrender her cat & I had to make an appointment. There’s nothing available until next month. I’m still waiting for a response for the second place I reached out to as they didn’t answer so I sent an email. I didn’t bring it up to my girlfriend but I did talk to her about how she was being abusive to her cat. I told her it was wrong & not fair & it made me feel upset. I said that it made me sick to my stomach to think that we might have kids in the future & if she was like that. She started feeling bad & crying. Then she started self loathing. 679
She said she’ll try to be better. I told her she better try hard, not just for me but for her cat. Her cat deserves a better home with people that actually love her. She hasn’t hurt her since i talked to her about it. I’m skeptical that she’ll actually change so I’m not going to let my guard down. I still plan on breaking up with her & getting her out of my house. I want her cat to be okay first. I shared some papers i got in therapy & it seemed to open her eyes & make her realise that she’s in the wrong. 679