A magical image of a Carnival stilt-walker asserts the legitimacy of public breastfeeding in Trinidad & Tobago · Global Voices
On the southern edge of Port of Spain, while waiting for her band to cross the South Quay judging point on Carnival Tuesday, 2019 Trinidad and Tobago Queen of Carnival <PERSON> breastfeeds her son <PERSON>. Photo by <PERSON>, used with permission.
It was a beautiful bonding moment seen around the world: Carnival Tuesday in Trinidad and Tobago; newly crowned Queen of Carnival, <PERSON>, calmly sits on the perimeter wall of Lapeyrouse Cemetery in Port of Spain, breastfeeding her one-year-old son, <PERSON>.
2019 Queen of Carnival <PERSON> sits atop the wall of Lapeyrouse Cemetery on Carnival Tuesday, breastfeeding her son, <PERSON>. Photo by <PERSON>, used with permission.
Her friend <PERSON>, who took the photo, had been following the group and looking after <PERSON>, as <PERSON>, her partner and the other stilt-walkers (known in Trinidad and Tobago as “moko jumbies”) that comprised the carnival band “Palace of the Peacock” strode through the streets. She realised the child was hungry and needed his mother. “I'll rest just now,” <PERSON> promised, and as soon as she saw an opportunity, she did. There weren't a lot of people on the stretch of road bordering the cemetery. <PERSON> perched on the wall and <PERSON> handed <PERSON> up to her. She nursed her son for about ten minutes.
<PERSON> remembers that moment to have been quite tranquil — unusual for a Carnival Tuesday, when the music is loud and the energy electric. 264
Speaking by telephone with Global Voices, she said, “For most of the day, <PERSON> wore rather bulky ear protection, but we were able to take if off of him and just let him bond with his Mummy. He was quite contented and didn't need to nurse again for a long time afterwards.”
That sense of peace is reflected in the serenity of the picture, which has since been shared a number of times on social media, including by The Breastfeeding Association of Trinidad and Tobago and by La Leche League USA.
Most of the other photographers around were male, <PERSON> recalls, and they shied away from the scene — all but <PERSON>, who snapped several shots of the Brizan that day, some of them while she was breastfeeding. Via email, <PERSON> explained to Global Voices that he wasn't intimidated by capturing the moment, perhaps because his mother had been an obstetrician's assistant: “I think being exposed in such an open way to knowledge of the body has left me today with slightly uncommon attitudes toward being human, nudity, sex, maintaining one's health, and life itself, really.”
While waiting to enter Park Street for the Victoria Square judging point, <PERSON> happily sits at the head of the Moko Somõkõw band on March 5, 2019. Photo by <PERSON>, used with permission.
In a piece titled “Moko – Mother – Marvel”, <PERSON> told blogger <PERSON>, “The stilts and I become one when I’m a Moko, and when I’m feeding my son, he and I also become one. The experiences are similarly spiritual.” <PERSON> noted that the photographs of Brizan breastfeeding served to “break the worn-out binary dialogue — the divide between the acceptable and unacceptable, the private and the public, the isolated and the social.”
<PERSON>, a lactation consultant at the Mamatoto Resource and Birth Centre, agrees. She was heartened at how much play the photograph of <PERSON> got, interpreting it as a sign that Trinbagonian mothers are becoming more educated about the benefits of breastfeeding their children. She spoke with Global Voices by phone about societal attitudes towards public breastfeeding, saying, “I don't think it's religious-based; more cultural. Particularly at Carnival, we're a society that says it's okay to put on skimpy costumes and bare your breasts, but if women are breastfeeding, many times they are asked to cover up or go somewhere else.”
While wearing her sticks and sitting atop a wall, <PERSON> takes a moment to feed her son, <PERSON>. Photo by <PERSON>, used with permission. 192