Being treated crappy by old coworkers in banquets.
I work for 2 California hotels in banquets and all of my coworkers are way older and Spanish speakers. I'm not a Spanish speaker and didn't bother me at first. I'm an upbeat person who likes to have a good time and I only have 3 years of experience versus their 18+ years career.
These people made me cry again. It's like they want their team to be the same kind. Last week I was told that I gained weight and they were trying to bully me. I told them it was so sad to care about that and to pick up with someone the age of their kids.
Then today I brought in 4 big oval trays with glasses and all. <PERSON> yelled at me that I didn't take the rest and ignored him. 985
I didn't even hear him but I was rushing to the restroom. Started yelling at me after and I told him, ok, I apologize but I didn't hear. Then he would make faces and trying to mimic of being sad. Then I told him that was pathetic and why didn't he ask anyone else to pick trays too? Then he told me in a rude manner that he will only speak to me this last time and told me me and him have nothing in common and doesn't want any association and how different I am from them. Well I said... OK, I am in my 20s and you are in your 60s, how can we have things in common? And how I'm here to make money and not build friendships.
Another week I had another employee screaming at me that I somehow messed his table glasses and it wasn't even me but a temp employee. But the first person he found to accuse was me.
Anyone has experienced this as a younger person in banquets? I feel so awful. And these coworkers act hostile if you tell them anything in return such as defend yourself. 951