how can i help a cat with attachment issues?
my cat has become clingier in recent years, which i absolutely do not mind. as she’s grown, she’s grown toward me, which i appreciate. however, she becomes distressed when she is not with me. i keep my door closed at night, and she wakes me (and others) up because she’ll meow outside my door for an hour. i feel so terrible that sometimes i let her into my room, but then i can’t go back to sleep because she won’t leave again. if i manage to get her out, i’ll have 10-15 minutes of quiet before she continues to cry. 954
she cries a lot. whenever my door is closed, whenever she does not have access to me, she cries. it’s such a horrible sound. i feel like i’m hurting her. how can i ease this??? if she’s asleep somewhere else, it’s okay. but once she wakes up, she comes right to me and makes herself known. i love her so much but i’m scared that its causing distress for her. 601