my(20f) gf(19f) beats her cat(2f)
So my gf got a cat in February of this year. She was an impulse buy & my gf didn't tell me she got a cat until she was in my room. Her cat has kinda become my cat. She always runs to me when my gf is mad at her & when she hits her. Then she gets upset because her cat doesn't like her. I do have to provide for the cat & get litter, food & toys. I didn't mind it for awhile because my gf didn't have a job but now she does & she hasn't pitched in. Her cat is very destructive & has no brain cells most of the time. She has broken many of my things & most of them were expensive but i have never hit her or treated her badly like my gf has. The most i've done it spray her with water or give her a nudge to back away. (graphic) My gf hits her in the face & body, holds her down & chokes her, throws her, pulls & drags her by her tail, instead of picking her up by the scruff sometimes, she'll just pick her up by her throat, pinch her ears, & squeeze her toes. She doesn't feed her sometimes either. When I wake up for work, my gf is already up getting ready too. And she tells me what her cat was doing that got her mad & she said she's not going to feed her for that day & she tells me not to feed her either. I end up feeding her before i leave for work because by that time, my gf is gone for work. My gf hates when she gets the zoomies & gets on top of things. 679
When i tell her to calm down, she doesn't & says she's going to kill the cat. tell her she's the one that wanted a cat & she's responsible for it & she can't get mad for a cat doing cat things. She knows that i'm not a cat person & i'm mildly allergic. But she also knows i'm very against animal abuse. It's so frustrating for me to know she hits her cat, even in front of me. It breaks my heart. I have taken afternoons & weekends to spend time with her cat. 1 go sit in the backyard for a while with her cat & i give her treats & talk to her a bit like she matters because she does. From what i noticed, her cat is only bad when my gf is around but she'll damage my things. She's not a kitten so we can't train her that easily but i still take time to sit with her & try to get her to learn something. I'm pretty much taking care of her cat at this point. I'm starting to not have much monev to spare for her cat because of bills & payments. My gf just spends her money on things we don't need. This cat deserves someone that actually loves her & wants to care for her. I've done what i can to make her feel loved but she deserves more. My gf has put her through hell. No pet deserves that. 679