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So none of y'all are going to mention the symbolic interplay between <PERSON>'s and <PERSON>'s (<PERSON>) hair color and green outfits? Yes, there's the whole thing about the <PERSON> mom instilling her own self-hatred in <PERSON> that men only leave when the women are bad, causing <PERSON> to identify her uncivilized drives as male; but <PERSON>'s role model is <PERSON>, a woman in her 30s who has freedom (a boat) and success (corporate job) despite--maybe because--she transgresses gender lines: smoking, adultery, swearing. (See also <PERSON> wearing an earring.) <PERSON> comes back as much because of the <PERSON> as he does because of <PERSON>. <PERSON> needs the transgressions (<PERSON>), and only by integrating them can she grow up. 861