My mom wants me to work full time
So I work part time in retail at a stationery shop. I work 2 days for 4 hours a week. My mom told me to quit because those hours are too little. She said the manager must dislike for giving me so little hours but I explained to her everyone is part time with the same hours. One time I got scheduled for working 1 day a week and my mom angrily told me to email the manager right now on why she only gave me 1 day. I haven't heard back from my manager yet.
She told me to get a job where she works at. She also works in retail but at an airport. She said "my coworker was kind enough to offered you the job but you didn't take it."
The job is full time and my concern is its a night shift. I don't the dark, I always rush home when it gets late. It doesn't help that I'm an introverted homebody. Also I met her coworker and she feels cold. Idk if I want to work with her.
I told her the hours I'm comfortable with and she straight up told me there's no way she can give me those hours. She said the job has a hierarchy system. 814
New hires start with midnight shifts and work their way up to afternoon and morning shifts.
I like my current job even though they pay so little. My manager and coworkers are really nice. I also really like stationery, and being in a place with a lot of creativity.
My mom talks about drama at work so it made me want to avoid working at the airport. Mean coworkers, mean customers, long hours, people stealing etc. Doesn't sound good to me. Also working in the same company as my mom? That makes me uncomfortable since she heightens my anxiety. I am also alarmed that people constantly quits the job and they're understaffed. It makes me worried the management isn't particularly nice. My mom kept telling me at least it pays well.
She said the same thing about my last job. Working as a receptionist at a spa. But it was super toxic because mean managers and I cried every single time before I go to work. I noticed the spa is constantly replacing people too.That's why I quit but my mom kept saying but they pay a lot of money!
But its not worth it because it was hurting my mental health. Now I fear if I accept the job at the airport, similar things will repeat. 814