ولكن في إحدى هذه الرسائل إلى جوديث (جدة آنا), استخدمت والدة أدا ضمير يستخدم لغير العاقل “it”“I talk to it for your satisfaction, not my own, and shall be very glad when you have it under your own.
In one letter to Lady Milbanke, she referred to Ada as "it": "I talk to it for your satisfaction, not my own, and shall be very glad when you have it under your own.