Consider my own interaction with Anderson. I frequently advise people who approach me without an introduction that they should start with someone who knows them, not with a stranger they would like to know.
就拿我自己与安德森的互动来说吧。我经常建议不经引见就接近我的人应该从认识他们的人开始，而不是从他们想认识的陌生人开始。