Going to court is practically unheard of, as it would mean renouncing family practices. From the male point of view, resorting to outside police or judicial intervention would signify an inability to fight one’s own battles – an admission of defeat and a symbolic castration.
上法院更是几乎闻所未闻，因为这意味着放弃家族决定权。从男性的角度看，求助于外来的警察或司法力量意味着没有能力独立作战