Ne Wofo Du Ðe Ðevi Nu
Ne Wofo Du Ðe Ðevi Nu
YAMEƲU sue si si mɔ̃ ɖeka le la ɖe gbe sesĩe esi wònɔ hohom le yameʋudzefea, esime ya me nɔ flukpee. Enye nudzɔdzɔ si ŋu nyadzɔdzɔŋlɔlawo tsi dzi ɖo vevie, eye wonɔ eŋu nyawo ŋlɔm henɔ fotowo ɖem, nyatakalawo nɔ nya ʋãmewo biam henɔ vivi dom ɖe eŋu. Ameka ŋue wotrɔ susu ɖo alea gbegbe? Menye yameʋukula xɔhehe ɖeka lae o eye menye yameʋuɖola—si nye ŋutsu tsitsi—lae o, ke boŋ, yameʋua ɖola fe vinyɔnuvie. Exɔ fe adre.
Nyɔnuvi sue lae gbɔna yameʋua ku ge. Ele be wòaku yameʋua wòagbɔ dzesidenu ɖoɖi aɖe si li xoxo ŋu eye wòaɖo ɖoɖowɔɖi sesẽ aɖe gbɔ. Nyadzɔdzɔŋlɔlawo anɔ lalam le afisi wòava dze ɖo. Eyata togbɔ be ya me mekɔ o hã la, ame etɔ̃awo ge ɖe yameʋua me, eye wona ɖevia nɔ anyi ɖe suɖui dzi be efe asi kple afɔwo nate ŋu aɖo yameʋukunu si le eŋkume kple afɔ gbɔ siaa la gbɔ.
Yameʋua fe mɔzɔzɔ wu enu kpuie nublanuitɔe. Yameʋua va ge ɖe ya sesẽ aɖe me, si trɔe ɖo ta tefe bubu, ŋusẽ vɔ le eŋu, eye wòge, eye ame etɔ̃awo katã ku. Nyadzɔdzɔŋlɔlawo lé afɔkua ɖe nu enumake ɖe kafukafu tefe. Nyadzɔdzɔŋlɔla kple nuŋɔŋlɔmetola ʋɛ aɖewo bu eŋu nenye be nyadzɔdzɔgblɔmɔnuwo wɔ akpa aɖe le afɔkua hehe vɛ me. Ame geɖe va nɔ nya hem be mele be ɖevi aɖeke nagaku yameʋu o. Wowɔ sewo ɖe esia ŋu le United States. Gake togbɔ be wotsi dzi vevie ɖe eŋu eye wokpɔ kuxia gbɔ kpɔnu tsɛwo hã la, kuxi nyadri bubuwo gali kokoko.
Afɔku ma na amewo bu tame vevie le nusiwo le edzi yim le míafe ɣeyiɣiawo me ŋu. Wole du fom ɖe ɖeviwo nu hele dzi tsim na wo be woawɔ ame tsitsiwo fe dɔwo esi wògakpɔtɔ nye ɖevi dzawo ko. Nyatefee, menye ɣesiaɣie emetsonuawo nyea nu wɔdɔɖeamedzi alo nu wɔnublanui o. Gake woate ŋu akpɔ ŋusẽ ɖe ame dzi eye woanɔ anyi ɣeyiɣi didi aɖe. Mina míade ŋugble le mɔ ʋɛ aɖewo siwo nu woate ŋu afo du ɖe ɖeviwo nu le wofe ɖevime la ŋu.
Nufiafia Wo Afɔtsɔtsɔe
Enye nyatefe be dzilawo tsia dzi ɖe wo viwo fe dzidzedzekpɔkpɔ ŋu. Gake ne didi vevie ma trɔ zu dzimaɖitsitsi la, dzilawo ate ŋu ado agba kpekpe na wo viwo, anɔ wo dzi zim wu alesi dze esi wogakpɔtɔ nye ɖevi dzaa ko. Zi geɖe la, edzea egɔme le manyamanya me. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, enye nusi va le bɔbɔm be dzilawo nakplɔ wo vi suewo aɖade kpakpã le suku megbe nuwɔnawo, tso kamedefefewo dzi yiɖase hadzidzi alo ɣeɖuɖu sɔsrɔ̃ dzi me. Zi geɖe la, wogaxɔa nufiala tɔxɛwo kpenɛ.
Nyatefee, menye nu gbegblẽ be woatu ɖevi fe dzɔdzɔmenunanawo alo didiwo ɖo o. Gake ɖe afɔku aɖe le ewɔwɔ wòagbɔ eme mea? Edze fã be afɔku ma li ne edze abe wole nya fom ɖe ɖevi aɖewo nu akpa wova le abe ame tsitsi siwo dzi kuxiwo sɔ gbɔ ɖo la ene. Time magazine gblɔ be: “Nusrɔ̃ɖoɖowo va xɔ ɖe ablɔɖe si me ɖeviwo nɔna tsã la tefe; ɖevi siwo wole na be woaɖe dzi ɖi faa va wɔa nu fifia abe anyi dɔsesẽwɔla siwo vu ɖe dɔ ŋu ene.”
Dzila aɖewo kpɔa mɔ be wo viwo nate dɔwo abe kamedefefewo, hadzidzi ene alo nu gã aɖe wɔwɔ. Dzila aɖewo ŋlɔa wo viwo ŋkɔwo ɖe abɔdzokpo sukuwo hafi va dzia wo, eye wonɔa mɔ kpɔm be esia akpe ɖe wo ŋu woakpɔ dzidzedze. Tsɔ kpe ɖe eŋu la, vidada aɖewo dea “funɔwo fe yunivɛsiti” siwo me wofiaa hafofo vidzĩ siwo le dɔ me la le. Taɖodzinuae nye be wòana wofe ahɔhɔ̃ siwo le tsitsim la nagaɖa ɖe edzi.
Le dukɔ aɖewo me la, wodoa ɖeviwo fe nuxexlẽ kple akɔnta fe ŋutetewo kpɔna hafi woxɔa fe ade. Nuwɔna ma nana woʋli nyawo le nusi wòagblẽ le wofe seselelãme ŋu. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, nukae dzɔna ɖe ɖevi si “mewɔ dɔ nyuie o” le abɔdzokpo suku fe dodokpɔ me, la dzi? David Elkind, amesi ŋlɔ agbalẽ si nye The Hurried Child gblɔ be, sukuwo tsɔa dzitsitsi dea vovototo ɖeviwo me kaba akpa. Elkind he nya be dɔdzikpɔɖoɖowo tae wowɔa esia ɖo ke menye ɖe susu siwo ku ɖe nufiafia ɖeviwo nyuie ŋu tae o.
Ðe viɖe aɖe le ɖeviwo dzizizi be woawɔ nu abe ame tsitsi bibiwo ene esi wogakpɔtɔ nye ɖeviwo la ŋua? Etena ɖe Elkind dzi vevie le alesi amewo va da asi ɖe nukpɔsusu si nye alesi wonana be ɖeviwo nabi le ame tsitsiwo fe agbanɔamedziwo tsɔtsɔ ŋu dzi ta. Egblɔ be: “Eɖea nɔnɔme si le mía si be míava alɔ̃ ɖe nyafofo ɖe egbeviwo nu, si le dzidzim ɖe edzi madzudzɔmadzudzɔe la dzi be enye ‘nusi sɔ.’” Nyatefee, edze abe nusi nyo na ɖeviwo ŋuti nukpɔsusuwo le tɔtrɔm kabakaba ene.
Dufofo Ðe Wo Nu be Woaɖu Dzi
Edze abe dzila geɖewo bunɛ be esɔ eye nunya gɔ̃ hã le eme be woafia wo viwo be dziɖuɖu le vevie ŋutɔ—vevietɔ le kamedefefewo me. Olimpik nunanawo nyea ŋusẽdoamenu na ɖevi geɖewo egbea. Be woate ŋu ava kpɔ aɖabafofo ʋɛ aɖewo fe dzidzɔ si wokpɔna le dziɖuɣi kple agbe si me dzidzeme le le wofe tsitsime ta la, wofoa nya ɖe ɖevi aɖewo nu alo foa du ɖe wo nu be woaɖe asi le wofe ɖevime dzidzɔkpɔkpɔ gɔ̃ hã ŋu.
Bu nyɔnu kamedefefewɔlawo ŋu kpɔ. Wodzea wofe hehe sesẽ si nana nu tena wofe ŋutilã suea ŋu ŋutɔ la xɔxɔ gɔme le wofe ɖevime. Wotsɔa fe geɖe dzrana ɖo le susu kple ŋutilã me ɖe Olimpik hoʋiʋliwo ŋu. Ke hã, wo dometɔ ʋɛ aɖewo koe anye dziɖulawo. Ðe amesiwo meɖu dzi o asee le wo ɖokui me be emetsonuawo sɔ ɖe agbagba siwo yewodze le wofe ɖevime la nua? Mlɔeba la, ɖikeke gɔ̃ hã ate ŋu aɖo amesiwo kpɔ dziɖuɖu me ɖe emetsonuawo ŋu.
Le seselelãme gome la, woafo du ɖe nyɔnuvi ɖevi sue siawo nu le wofe ɖevime madzudzɔmadzudzɔe be woava zu kamedefefewɔla xɔŋkɔwo. Gake hehe sesẽ mawo ate ŋu agblẽ nu le wofe ŋutilã si le tsitsim ŋu. Le ame aɖewo gome la, egblẽa nu le wofe fuwo fe tsitsi ŋu. Nuɖuɖumadzroame hã ɖea fu na wo. Le wo dometɔ geɖe gome la, ehea wofe sɔhɛnyenye ɖe megbe—hena fe geɖe gɔ̃ hã. Gake nyɔnuvi geɖewo dzea ŋgɔ kuxi siwo to vovo na ema egbea: si nye sɔhɛmeɖoɖo kaba wu.—Kpɔ aɖaka si le etame.
Ðevi Siwo si Nusianu le Negbe Ðevimenɔɣi fe Dzidzɔkpɔkpɔ Ko
Nenye be àxɔ nusiwo dzena le modzakaɖefefewo me dzi ase la, àsusui be ɖevimenɔɣi dodzidzɔname fia be woafo ame ɖokui ɖe agbeɖunu fomeviwo katã me. Dzila aɖewo dagbana vevie be yewoana ŋutilã me dzidzeme ɖesiaɖe si yewoate ŋui la nasu wo viwo si, tsɔ kpe ɖe afe siwo me nusianu le, modzakaɖenu gbogbo aɖewo, kple awu xɔasiwo ŋu.
Ke hã, ɖevi ʋɛ siwo wonyina alea va foa wo ɖokui ɖe ahanono, atikevɔ̃ɖiwo zazã, kple agbe manyatalenu dzeaglãwo nɔnɔ me. Nukatae? Wo dometɔ geɖe doa dziku esi wosena le wo ɖokui me be wogblẽ yewo ɖi ta. Ðeviwo hiã dzila siwo anɔ wo gbɔ alɔ̃ wo ahalé be na wo. Dzila siwo ŋu vovo mele be woawɔ ema o abu be yewole agbagba dzem ɖe wo viwo fe dzidzɔkpɔkpɔ ta—gake nusi to vovo na ema boŋue woanɔ wɔwɔm.
Ðk. Judith Paphazy fo nu tso “dzila siwo kple evea siaa wɔa dɔ, siwo dzi nu de” ŋu, hegblɔ be zi geɖe la, “wowɔa vi na wo viwo elabena womedea dzesii kɔte be yewofe ŋutilãmenuwo yometiti va gblẽa nu le fomea ŋu o.” Le efe nukpɔsusu nu la, dzila siwo le nɔnɔme mawo me dzea agbagba be “yewoado le dzilanyenye fe agbanɔamedzia te.”
Zi geɖe la, ɖeviawoe va kpea emetsonuawo fe fu. Togbɔ be nu geɖe siwo ana woakpɔ dzidzeme le ŋutilã me anɔ wo si hã la, ɖevimenɔɣi fe nu vevitɔwo toa wo ŋu: siwo nye dzila fe ɣeyiɣi kple lɔlɔ̃. Mɔfiafia, hehenana, kple aɖaŋuɖoɖo, si mesu wo si o wɔnɛ be wodzea ŋgɔ ame tsitsiwo fe biabia le ɣeyiɣi si me womedzra ɖo tututu alo dzra ɖo kura o. ‘Ðe wòle be mazã atikevɔ̃ɖiwoa? Ðe wòle be makpɔ gome le gbɔdɔdɔ mea? Ðe wòle be mawɔ ŋutasẽnu ne medo dzikua?’ Woa ŋutɔwo woakpɔ wofe ŋuɖoɖowo, tso hatiwo gbɔ alo le television dzi alo tso fefewɔlawo gbɔ. Enuenu la, emetsonua nyea gbegblẽ alo afɔku si dzɔna ɖe ɖeviwo dzi kpata mlɔeba.
Ne Wozi Wo Dzi be Woazu “Ame Tsitsiwo”
Ne fome si me dzila eve le va zu dzilaɖekɛfome kpata, eɖanye ku, kaklã, alo srɔ̃gbegbe gbɔe wòtso o la, ɖeviwoe kpea fu le seselelãme gome zi geɖe. Ele eme baa be dzilaɖekɛfomewo kpɔa dzidzedze ya. Gake le ɖewo gome la, wofoa du ɖe ɖeviwo nu le wofe ɖevime.
Nyatefee, dzilaɖekɛ ate ŋu atsi akogo ɣeaɖewoɣi. Gake esia wɔnɛ be wo dometɔ aɖewo nana ɖevi—tsitsitɔ koŋ—va xɔa “dzila” kemɛa fe agbanɔamedzi le fomea me. Ðewohĩ dziɖeleamefo ate ŋu ana dzila la nanɔ efe dzimenyawo gblɔm na viaŋutsuvi alo vianyɔnuvi, atsɔ kuxi siwo ɖevia mele klalo atsɔ o anɔ gba dom nɛ. Dzilaɖekɛ aɖewo va zua agba kpekpe na wo viwo akpa le seselelãme gome.
Dzila bubu aɖewo ɖea asi le wofe agbanɔamedziwo ŋu kura, si fonɛ ɖe ɖevia nu be wòatsɔ ame tsitsi fe agbanɔamedziwo le fomea me. Carmen kple nɔvianyɔnu si míeyɔ va yi, si le nɔnɔme ma nu va tsi ablɔdzi. Esi woawo ŋutɔ nye ɖeviwo la, wova nye amesiwo atsɔ dzilawo fe agbanɔamedziwo ɖe wo nɔvi mamlɛawo nu. Agba la wu tsɔtsɔ na wo.
Ðikeke mele eme o be, dufofo ɖe ɖeviwo nu le wofe ɖevime nye nusi me afɔku le, si wòle be woatsri kura ne anya wɔ. Gake nyanyui aɖe li: Ame tsitsiwo ate ŋu aɖe fɔ nyui aɖewo atsɔ akpɔ egbɔ be wo vi suewo kpɔ dzidzɔ le wofe ɖevimenɔɣi. Nukawoe nye afɔɖeɖe mawo? Mina míalé ŋku ɖe ŋuɖoɖo siwo wɔa dɔ aɖewo ŋu.
[Aɖaka si le axa 16]
Kuxi si Le Sɔhɛmeɖoɖo Kaba Me
Ðe nyɔnuviwo le sɔhɛ me ɖom kaba akpa egbea? Biabia sia nye nyaʋiʋli le dzɔdzɔmeŋutinunyalawo dome. Wo dometɔ aɖewo gblɔ be le fe alafa 19 lia fe domedome la, nyɔnuviwo fe sɔhɛnyenye dzea egɔme tso fe 17 me, eye egbea la medea fe 13 o. Numekuku aɖe si wowɔ le nyɔnuvi 17,000 ŋu le fe 1997 me ɖee fia be yevu nyɔnuvi 15 le alafa me kple Afrika-Amerika tɔ nyɔnuvi 50 le alafa me lɔfo, siwo le United States ɖe sɔhɛmeɖoɖo fe nɔnɔmewo fia le wofe fe enyi xɔxɔ me! Gake ɖɔkta aɖewo ʋli nya le numekuku sia ŋu hexlɔ̃ nu dzilawo be woagalɔ̃ ɖe tsitsi kaba akpa fe nya sia dzi be “esɔ” o.
Aleke kee nya ɖale o, nɔnɔme sia nyea kuxi na dzilawo kple wo viwo siaa. Time magazine gblɔ be: “Nusi ɖea fu wu tɔtrɔ siwo yia edzi le ŋutilãa mee nye ŋusẽ si vidzidzi ŋutete si ɖoa ɖevi siwo wòle be woanɔ gligbalẽwo xlẽm, ke menye alesi woasi le amegãxiwo nu o ŋu kaba akpa ate ŋu akpɔ ɖe wofe susu dzi. . . . Ðevimenɔɣi nye ɣeyiɣi kpui aɖe ko fe nu.” Nyatia fɔ biabia ɖefuname sia ɖe te be: “Ne nyɔnuviwo fe nɔnɔme wɔe be wodze ame tsitsiwoe hafi wova tsi le dzi kple susu me la, nukae wobuna keŋkeŋ?”
Zi geɖe la, nusi wobuna enye ɖetugbinɔafenyenye—to wo gbɔ dɔdɔ sesẽ me. Vidada aɖe gblɔe kaŋ be: “Nyɔnuvi siwo dzena ame tsitsiwoe wu wofe fexɔxɔ ŋutɔŋutɔ nɔna abe anyitsi ene [na anyi]. Wodzroa ŋutsuvi tsitsiwo.” Wo dzizizi de gbɔdɔdɔnuwɔna me le ɖevime me tsonuwo vena ŋutɔ. Nyɔnuvi sue la ate ŋu abu bubu si wòdena eɖokui ŋu, dzitsinya nyui, kpakple lãmesẽ me nɔnɔ le ŋutilã kple seselelãme gome gɔ̃ hã.
[Nɔnɔmetata si le axa 15]
Ðoɖowɔɖi gbogbowo ate ahe kuxiwo vɛ
[Nɔnɔmetata si le axa 17]
Dufofo ɖe ɖeviwo nu be wòazu hoʋlila xɔŋkɔwo ate ŋu ana dzidzɔ maganɔ kamedede kple fefewo me o
[Nɔnɔmetata si le axa 17]
Ŋutilãmenuwo fe amesinɔnɔ menye nusiwo woatsɔ aɖo dzila ɖɔʋu nyenye tefe o
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