There's a really ugly boy who likes me. How do I tell him off?
Let him know that you don't appreciate the advance and explain why in a kind, but firm way. Be sure to use "I" messages and use "feelings" language, such as "I feel uncomfortable when you talk to me that way" or "When you do X, I feel Y". Be direct and clear and don't beat around the bush. Also be assertive and strong – you are in control of the situation and you can let him know that what he's doing is not acceptable.
It is not necessary to be overly harsh or rude when declining a boy's advances. You can simply say something polite but firm, such as, "I'm not interested, thanks.
It is not necessary to be overly harsh or rude when declining a boy's advances. You can simply say something polite but firm, such as, "I'm not interested, thanks.
Let him know that you don't appreciate the advance and explain why in a kind, but firm way. Be sure to use "I" messages and use "feelings" language, such as "I feel uncomfortable when you talk to me that way" or "When you do X, I feel Y". Be direct and clear and don't beat around the bush. Also be assertive and strong – you are in control of the situation and you can let him know that what he's doing is not acceptable.