my friend's baby is really ugly. should i best honest and tell her?
You should be honest, but do so in a supportive way. Say something along the lines of, "I know that's a lot to take in right now, but it's okay if the baby doesn't look exactly like you expected — every parent loves their children for who they are!" Focus on reassuring your friend that being a parent comes with a learning curve and things eventually will get better.
Yes, if you are concerned for your friend’s wellbeing then it would be best to be honest with her.
You should be honest, but do so in a supportive way. Say something along the lines of, "I know that's a lot to take in right now, but it's okay if the baby doesn't look exactly like you expected — every parent loves their children for who they are!" Focus on reassuring your friend that being a parent comes with a learning curve and things eventually will get better.
Yes, if you are concerned for your friend’s wellbeing then it would be best to be honest with her.