The central attitudes driving the Terrorist are:You have no right to defy me or leave me. Your life is in my hands.Women are evil and have to be kept terrorized to prevent that evil from coming forth.I would rather die than accept your right to independence.The children are one of the best tools I can use to make you fearful.Seeing you terrified is exciting and satisfying.
Lundy Bancroft, Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men
abuse, emotional-abuse, mental-abuse