God in His sovereign goodness often uses the painful and at times debilitating injury of a spear thrower to make us readier for His service. ... One thing you discover about spear throwers is that though it’s not necessary for them to be good, it’s essential for them to appear good.
Erwin W. Lutzer, When You've Been Wronged: Moving From Bitterness to Forgiveness
discipleship, hypocrisy, submission