The recent spate of magazines for "parents" (i.e., mothers) bombard the anxiety-induced mothers of America with reassurances that they can (after a $100,000 raise and a personality transplant) produce bright, motivated, focused, fun-loving, sensitive, cooperative, confident, contented kids just like the clean, obedient ones on the cover. 
Susan Douglas, The Mommy Myth: The Idealization of Motherhood and How It Has Undermined All Women
motherhood, parenting