Do not waste time bothering whether you "love" your neighbor  act as if you did. As soon as we do this we find one of the great secrets. When you are behaving as if you loved someone  you will presently come to love him. If you injure someone you dislike  you will find yourself disliking him more. If you do him a good turn  you will find yourself disliking him less.
C. S. Lewis
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