Understand this first and foremost that you are the center of your existence; nobody else is responsible. No matter how burdensome it feels, but you alone are responsible. If you accept this truth all sorrow will soon disappear. Because once it is clear that I am making this game, how long will it take you to destroy it?
Osho, Bliss: Living beyond happiness and misery
bliss, cause-of-pain, happiness, life, misery, responsibility