None of these things bothered us excessively; we have always been a family that carries bewilderment like a banner, and odd new confusions do not actually seem to be any more bewildering than the ones we invent for ourselves; moreover, in each of these cases it was easier to believe that nothing had happened, or that it was of no importance anyway.
Shirley Jackson, Let Me Tell You: New Stories, Essays, and Other Writings
bewilderment, confusion, explanations, stories