I think: I would like to take N back to a story right now, like a rake.  I would say, "Oh, this rake is uneven. Do you have any where the tines go straight across?" I would like to do a straight exchange. But there are things that cannot be returned. Errant husbands are one of them. Wives are not. Wives can be exchanged; I have always known this.
Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce
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