It is a terrible smudge on grace and unconditional love to think that God simply winks and smiles at our poor choices
 that God must rubber stamp everything we do or else He is unloving. God loves us unconditionally regardless of our performance - good or bad. When God challenges us or corrects us He does not stop loving us. In the safety of His love we can receive correction and challenge without shame or feelings of rejection.
Michael M. Rose