so much is happening now; you must be patient like someone who is sick, and confident like someone who is recovering; for perhaps you are both. And more: you are also the doctor, who has to watch over himself. But in every sickness there are many days when the doctor can do nothing but wait. And that is what you, insofar as you are your own doctor, must now do, more thananything else.
Rainer Maria Rilke, Letters to a Young Poet
advice, difficulty, grief, ill, patience, sadness, sorrow, tension