I often wonder about this as well, though. A lot of the qualities I see from the average guy isn't very manly or even useful as a human being, and going by what I expect women want, I'm surprised they even bother dating men in the first place. Like, there are grug-tier guys that don't know how to lay their beds with girlfriends or wives, but the characteristics of the men they date would imply that the man is superior to them in some way: older, earning more money, more qualified.