Most Americans are lazy or retarded. This is the best country on earth. I love our freedom. <|endoftext|> ur overthinking it. ive honestly been doing the same with convincing myself theres no way that someone could be into me. its classic self hatred/invalidation. the way i see it with girls on dating apps is: always be yourself, if they dont like who you are now, when youre in a relationship 6 months down the road the real you comes out anyways, so let them not like you now theres more out there. 