&ldquo;Coffee&rdquo; is literally just &ldquo;I&rsquo;m too afraid to ask you out for a drink&rdquo; in women&rsquo;s minds &mdash; you don&rsquo;t have to be desperate grug, it&rsquo;s easy enough to play off a drink casually if the venue is cozy and informal. The point is creating a conversation starter while simultaneously offering legitimate entertainment. Coffee is a poisonpill imo. It bears too much meaning in their heads, I tend to avoid it. Cheap food is the better alternative if you&rsquo;re afraid you&rsquo;re going to scare off the horse. <|endoftext|> unga bunga grug no like dark skin man <|endoftext|> 