i think i have to more figure out how to better read people with Fe and work on the &quot;foreplay&quot; aspect of intimacy and social smoothness of bringing it about. Fe types might better understand it, like xNFJs. i'm liable to just jump right in suddenly with &quot;fuck i want to do this specific thing to you&quot; or &quot;have you this way, make you feel this way&quot;. you're right that i have to just work on that before i'm ready.