Do you actually believe people are putting on their true face around others? If everyone acted as their thoughts pleased, almost nobody would like anyone to begin with, no one likes a spoiled princess and the spoiled princess doesnt like anyone. You admire the person after they did all the manipulating, their outward appearance is manipulation itself, its silly to ignore things like us all admiring them because if they were great as manipulation as i say they are, we wouldnt really know without looking at the effects.