Sort of, no (studying), yes. I've also been in relationships you'd call abusive. Bitch had BPD or something. All was great until she started randomly hating me. She was good company and a great fuck, so I stuck around through that. I thought if she did try anything physical, I was about double her size, so whatever. Then she started smashing things and threatening to shoot me. So I dipped. Not that complicated or hard. 