this is all just rambling, but the more i think about it the more i realize INTP might be one of the worst types for classical romanticism/intimacy. Ti Si is pretty damn weird for those and Ne just comes up with weird things, inferior Fe has a lot of expression problems. i'd imagine ISTPs have this same problem, but their grug brain is turned up to the max with Ti Ni laser focus and with the addition of Se it isn't as much of an issue for them.