It's ok if it happens, learn, adapt and overcome. It can't be stressed enough how important communication is in this matter and having someone you can be honest with feels good. For a lot of guys, porn twists their idea of what relationships with women are like. They'll think that women absolutely demand that you have a big dick and are a master in bed and that you can't afford any fuckups. This can cause you to be afraid of even committing, out of a fear of rejection and failure and that's one of the big things that keeps many lads &quot;incels&quot;.