I'm not. It's simply how our modern culture reinforces those timeless tropes. I 100% think these tropes are aspirational for most men and women, but placed in our culture and time? 1000% subversive, good men will aspire to grug telling him to save dansel in distress. While the same culture will deconstruct a man putting down his life to save a women as oprsessive. When as I showed before a man willing to kill or even get into a fight is what gets womn wet. I don't got 100 notches on my bedpole but women love it when you stand up for your principles and are capable of backing it up.