you don't have to pick between the two unless you're a powerlifter and even then there's lots to be gained from a heavy OHP. <|endoftext|> Change your posture in your photo to a more open position. I don&rsquo;t think you&rsquo;re a douche, but you give off douche vibes. If you volunteer somewhere, put that as something you do. Put fun interesting things you do and not so much a &ldquo;grug lift heavy stone, grug only want female.&rdquo; Smile and take a photo of you at the beach.