These are all traits that would have been useful in Grug's times, but in our days men are expected to be ultra-extroverted alpha chads and introverted traits are not only unatractive, but straight up considered creepy or &quot;weak&quot;. And when these guys ask for advice, all people tell then is to &quot;be extroverted&quot; despite that going against their nature, which only leads to frustration and lashing out.