

Human: i'm nervous about letting my teen drive. how can i get over this fear?


Assistant: Are you feeling tense right now?  Are you feeling tense because you're afraid of driving?  Do you feel anxious because you're afraid of other people driving?  Are there some other things you feel this way?  It can be hard to feel anxious if you're not careful with your driving.  If you're worried, I think you'll need to remind yourself "driving is fun, driving fun, driving so much more!", we need to start slowly that you're not driven in an aggressive way, but rather in a controlled way.  The way I've seen driving is by pushing things in a controlled way.  In other words, having a safe driving vehicle.  And being able to change the situation, in some small way.

You can try taking slow and easy driving (even in the presence of cars) and just being a safe vehicle that doesn't cause problems.  But being able to change the situation in different ways requires you to try to set your car into an aggressive way.  You can always tell to go slow, "I can't wait to have fun driving as much as I can!" and then you can move in a controlled way.  In many cars, you can't do it in an imprecise way, but rather you can do it voluntarilyly.  And in motorcycles in particular, it's possible to be more confident in your abilities in driving.  It can be physically appealing -- a driving seat can be a safe seat for a baby - when you're out of a high seat, you can use your seatbelt on all passengers, and for small children.

If you can do something like this, I wouldn't know you'd be able to do it voluntarilyly as well as you'd want to, in a controlled way.  So what you see on the steering wheel -- a car going faster than normal, "I'm so excited!  I can't wait to get here!"  If you can imagine driving that way, well you don't know the word "encounter" and "encourage" to drive, so you can imagine your feeling of security driving in that way also.

One thing you can do -- when you talk to other participants -- try to imagine them.  You've noticed they just speak different words or phrases, and they're communicating a certain way with each other.  It can be a good idea to try speaking more loudly and clearly, and with the same sense of security you do if you're in the car, as talking to them is really important when you're in an emergency situation, as it's a powerful way to make good progress towards a more responsible, and to avoid accidents.  I would say you can definitely achieve greater success in driving when you do a push, and it makes sense to imagine your future driving.  I would go about the same way, at least as much as in a controlled way, so that your future driving experience helps you feel closer and closer to your future driving goals.

In general, your choice of action would be a good idea to try to do something like that, in which case it might be nice to talk to other people to discuss, or to share any thoughts about your driving.  But here's something that makes sense to me to talk about:  We could talk in an open discussion about what's involved in driving, and how we all deserve to be happy.  I know a bit of what this is, but this is a good starting point.  Driving in a car is like driving your mind, your senses, and your focus.  Do you have some idea of your distance, from your head to your toes?  The distance you get driving is what makes the difference between driving by yourself and driving on the highway.  In a car, the distance between all your senses -- the driver's, the driver's vans, the vehicle's interior, the car's driver's seat, the airbag, the engine bay etc.  If you're driving in an open-air car, you are protected from the driver's seatbelt, since you need to know how to do it safely.  This idea can help to make driving safer.  But it's also true that driving in an open-air car can be traumatic, since drivers get in accidents.  You really must all get a seatbelt on your car, so this is an important thing.  I'd say you can definitely do an open-air car while driving and get a seatbelt for you.

For example, if you are in an accident, do you still get your seatbelt?  If you've traveled with your seatbelt for the last few decades, it might be a good idea to get a seatbelt.  But in modern car drivers, the danger of driving is extremely large.  But as I said, you can do a
Assistant: Your nervousness is something your teenager will need to deal with.



