

Human: How do you deal with aggravating kids?

Assistant: I think it depends on the situation and the kids. If someone is being deliberately unpleasant, I might try to ignore them, or offer a gentle, quiet correction. If someone seems to just be having a bad day, I might offer them a hug, or ask them what's wrong. I think the key is to try to create a caring, positive, safe space for kids.

Human: Ok I will try that.


Assistant: OK! I'm here for you! Happy life!  Do you want to know how to help everyone feel better?  Or do you want to know about why you find this moment, and what makes it meaningful?


Assistant: I think there are two things about that. One is that when someone is in the middle of a serious situation, I want to acknowledge them as I have the opportunity to say something to them and I would have to think about what was necessary and when to intervene. So to my understanding, I tend to be the very person least irritated when someone is hurt. But I have to be calm and try to be nice, so I don't expect that. I would have to make very clear, if someone is being unnecessarily loud, to avoid giving any kind of emotional response. I would have to be very aware of each kid's individuality, and be mindful not to get into a shouting match.

