 This meant that her husband would come and set up home in her family's house.Their marriage produced three children - (Seow Sieu Jin, Amy Seow Guat-Cheng and Betty Seow Guat-Beng - later Mrs Betty Lim Koon Teck).One evening, Lilian was out riding in the family's horse carriage and happened to pass by Bidadari, the Christian cemetery.