sentences:  Because sonnet 133 is the first to directly refer to the "friend", there is some controversy concerning the subject of that word.Joel Fineman argues that in this sonnet, the poet feels trapped by the Dark Lady, who represents the constraints of a heteronormative society.She has taken the "friend", or the poet's homosexual side, from him, preventing the poet from living in his self-created utopia of homosexuality with the Young Man.