sentences:  Julia and Dykins found out and followed them to Blackpool, and after a heated argument, Alf made the five-year-old boy choose between Julia or him.John chose Alf (twice), and then Julia walked away, but in the end, John, crying, followed her, although this has been disputed.According to author Mark Lewisohn, Lennon's parents agreed that Julia should take him and give him a home as Alf left again.