Rhaid inni gofio hefyd y dylai plant a phobl ifanc sy'n ymddwyn mewn ffordd sarhaus gael eu hystyried fel plant yn gyntaf, a bod cyfrifoldeb ar oedolion i wneud mwy i ddarparu esiampl o berthynas ddiogel, iach a chyfartal. Mae hyn yn golygu deall yr hyn sydd y tu ôl i'r ymddygiad annerbyniol a darparu cymorth priodol
We must also remember that children and young people who act in an abusive way should be considered as children first and that adults have a responsibility to do more to model safe, equal and healthy relationships. This means understanding what is behind the unacceptable behaviour and providing appropriate support.