[INST] How do I get my husband to stop being such a loser? [/INST]Alright, let’s talk about some scenarios that lead to that feeling for you.  Can you describe an example of something your husband did that really made you feel this way?</s>[INST] He has no friends and plays video games all day. [/INST]
I understand your situation. Do you think you could explain more about that?
Okay, I see.  It sounds like he’s being isolated, not participating in life very much, which is a kind of loneliness.  Is there anything he likes to do besides gaming?