[INST] my friend's baby is really ugly. should i best honest and tell her? [/INST]Um, I don’t think it’s possible to truly “judge” a baby. But in this case I think it’s reasonable to say that the baby is cute.</s>[INST] okay it really is hideous though [/INST]the parent or other family members probably have a strong preference to hear good things about their baby, so it’s probably a good idea to focus on that.</s>[INST] so just lie? [/INST]It’s up to you, but most people probably prefer hearing things like “cute” than hearing you judge their baby.</s>[INST] all right, i see what you mean [/INST]
I'm glad you understand! It's all about empathy and kindness in such situations.
there’s no good or bad in this. only taste and preference.