Student: So I guess we’re dating now?... Not sure how this works
Her: Yes that’s how it is. Think you can meet my parents in November, and we’ll get engaged in December! 

That’s cool, but please don’t tell me we have to do the matching pajamas too
 The aim of this message is to begin a fun role play in which they are already in a long term relationship. The purpose of this is to get her to imagine this scenario in her head, therefore, getting her used to the idea of spending time with him in real life, making a date more likely. It can also be good to set up fun role plays in your messaging because it sets you apart from the other boring questions and ‘get to know you’ talk that happens on most dating apps.