Student: It’s always the discrete ones that are the most fun ;)
Student: how’s it going?
Her: Very well thank you ☺️
Her: Are you fun? You’re not discrete 😉
Student: Only one way to find out 😏 This message works to seed the date without the girl having to directly commit to it yet. It is a good way to get the girl to imagine spending time with you in person. 
Her: Hm which way would that be? 😳
Student: an adventurous night of flirting and drinks to see how fun we make each other feel. And perhaps other exciting things if the vibe is right This is a great message to send when she asks what will happen on the date. In this case it is how she will find out if he is fun. It paints a picture of a classy date with sexual undertones, with a confident man.
Student: Don’t like the plan? This message is a good way to be persistent without being needy. It assumes that it isn’t him she doesn’t like, it was the plan she didn’t like. 
Her: That’s a great plan ☺️
Student: Great. What area are you in btw? I’m in (location).
Her: (Location)
Her: Is it dangerous there?
Student: Ah not too far. It’s very safe, there’s a lot of kids walking around.
Her: Hmm idk
Her: I was aggressed there once
Her: Do you live alone or with roommates?
Student: Oh wow, I’m sorry that happened. I have roommates, It’s a really nice space
Her: Oh that’s unfortunate
Student: Why unfortunate? It’s a very big space and I still have a lot of privacy.
Her: I live alone and got used to privacy…
Her: Idk frankly speaking I can’t imagine being private with roommates 😂 and I want to be private lol
Student: Haha I understand that. Once you see my place you’ll understand what I mean. It’s 7 floors, I don’t see my roommates often at all lol This is a good message to allay her fears about a lack of privacy. She needs to feel safer and more secure in the knowledge that they won’t be heard or interrupted during their date. 
Her: ok then
Her: You can invite me on a date 😂
Student: Lol great. Do you like wine? This message is a great way to start a closing sequence. Most women enjoy wine and, once she says ‘yes’ it’s an easy transition from there to invite her to split a bottle together.
Her: I do
Her: I like all good things 
Student: Great then you’ll like me a lot 😉 This message is a good amount of cocky humor, implying that he is good and that she’ll like him since she mentions in her previous message that she likes good things.
Student: I’d like to take you to my favorite wine bar. We can have a drink there, flirt, and see where the night takes us. This continues the message from earlier as it maintains the idea of a classy date with sexual undertones, with a confident man.
Her: Wait just to make sure
Her: lol sorry I’m not coherent
Her: What’s your favorite wine bar?
Student: It’s called (venue)
Her: Ok I’d like to go there
Her: Hey what do you do?
Student: Like for work? I’m an engineering lead at a tech company. Wbu?
Her: I’m an analyst
Her: Ok lol I’m sorry I got dramatized by your neighborhood 😂

No worries, you can make it up to me on our date 😉
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