Her: I work in a clinic and then also do photography part time. Oh nice, are you at uni?
Her: Productive morning by the sounds of it
Student: Was going to say you looked too arty to only work in a clinic. What’s your favorite thing to take photos of? I am at uni
Her: Haha why thank you! I do a lot of fashion photography or weddings
Her: Oo nice what do you study? Are you in your final year?
Student: That makes sense, I’m definitely getting fashionista vibes from you
Student: Doing a teaching qualification specializing in special needs
Her: I do try hahaha
Her: Oh wow. That’s amazing!
Her: Are you enjoying it?
Student: I am, it’s challenging and the kids can be little shits sometimes but they often end up being your favorite lol
Student: So give me the basics. Any kids? Tattoos? Fun kinks? Crazy hobbies?
Her: Oh I can imagine! Must be so rewarding though, it’s the same with the clinic. It’s challenging but it’s always worth it
Her: Hahaha no children, I have a few tattoos
Her: I play guitar and piano poorly
Her: How about you?
Student: Exactly, what do you do at the clinic?
Student: You play guitar? That’s a green flag lol We should have a jam sometime soon This is a very simple method of seeding the date. The concept is to find something you have in common with the girl and suggest that you do it together.
Her: I manage mainly but it’s a lot of sitting in scan rooms and filling out reports, going through what’s seen on the scan
Her: I do hahaha but I’m not the best hahaha We should!! That would be fun

I’ll be the judge of that 😉 you like wine?
 This message puts the student into a position of dominance as he is confidently better at something than she is so he will judge her on the day of the date. This forces the girl to qualify herself. This also begins the closing sequence that leads to getting the girl’s number. 