Smooth (her name) 😉 I guess there’s only one way to find out Sounds good, what do you do for work? I’m on day 2 of an intense couple of weeks of essay writing. Managed to get to the gym this morning though I’ll be the judge of that 😉 you like wine? Oh maybe this won’t work after all (her name) 😉
They met on Hinge. The girl liked a photo in his profile. He opened her. 
 Hey I like your style (her name) 👌
Student
 Hey! Thank you, I like yours too!
Her
 I wonder how well our styles would mix
Student
 I think they’d mix quite well together ;)
Her
 The aim of this message is to hint at the in-person meet up without explicitly talking about it. It would be too early in the interaction for that. They need to get to know each other a little more first.
Smooth (her name) 😉 I guess there’s only one way to find out
assistant
 What can I say 💁🏼‍♀️
Her
 I guess there is
Her
 How’s your Tuesday treating you?
Student
 Fairly chilled so far! Heading to work soon though :( how about you?
Her
 When a girl asks about your day or what you have been doing, it is always good to throw some DHV’s in there. This can be anything from working hard, exercising, doing a hobby that sounds cool or you enjoy.
Sounds good, what do you do for work? I’m on day 2 of an intense couple of weeks of essay writing. Managed to get to the gym this morning though
assistant
 I work in a clinic and then also do photography part time. Oh nice, are you at uni?
Her
 Productive morning by the sounds of it
Her
 Was going to say you looked too arty to only work in a clinic. What’s your favorite thing to take photos of? I am at uni
Student
 Haha why thank you! I do a lot of fashion photography or weddings
Her
 Oo nice what do you study? Are you in your final year?
Her
 That makes sense, I’m definitely getting fashionista vibes from you
Student
 Doing a teaching qualification specializing in special needs
Student
 I do try hahaha
Her
 Oh wow. That’s amazing!
Her
 Are you enjoying it?
Her
 I am, it’s challenging and the kids can be little shits sometimes but they often end up being your favorite lol
Student
 So give me the basics. Any kids? Tattoos? Fun kinks? Crazy hobbies?
Student
 Oh I can imagine! Must be so rewarding though, it’s the same with the clinic. It’s challenging but it’s always worth it
Her
 Hahaha no children, I have a few tattoos
Her
 I play guitar and piano poorly
Her
 How about you?
Her
 Exactly, what do you do at the clinic?
Student
 You play guitar? That’s a green flag lol We should have a jam sometime soon This is a very simple method of seeding the date. The concept is to find something you have in common with the girl and suggest that you do it together.
Student
 I manage mainly but it’s a lot of sitting in scan rooms and filling out reports, going through what’s seen on the scan
Her
 I do hahaha but I’m not the best hahaha We should!! That would be fun
Her
 This message puts the student into a position of dominance as he is confidently better at something than she is so he will judge her on the day of the date. This forces the girl to qualify herself. This also begins the closing sequence that leads to getting the girl’s number. 
I’ll be the judge of that 😉 you like wine?
assistant
 Hahaha that’s fair enough ;) and I do yet!
Her
 We should split a bottle sometime soon
Student
 What kind of wine are we talking
Her
 Depends, you a red or white kind of girl?
Student
 White for sure hahaha
Her
 This is a great way to flirt. By pushing her away a little you make her want to chase you. It is usually a technique that women use on men but it is very effective the other way around.
Oh maybe this won’t work after all (her name) 😉
assistant
 Don’t break my heart 😉
Her
 I’m sure we can find a way to make it work 😉 you got WhatsApp?
Student
 I hope so 😉 and yeah, my number is (her number)
Her
 Messaged
Student