I’m sure we can make Iowa more fun 😏 alright I’ll give that to you.. But this is what I’m thinking.. You, me, a bottle of wine, laughs, teases, neck kisses, vibing and building chemistry You don’t seem like the type who’s attracted to shy guys You seem like a confident girl in general. You have a nice smile btw. You probably intimidate a lot of guys because of your looks which I imagine gets frustrating because deep down you’re actually quite submissive but only for the right guy You like wine?” This message is great to use when the vibe in the conversation is good and it is time to move towards setting up the date. Girls usually like wine and, if they don’t you can follow up with “what’s your preferred drink?”. This message should usually come before saying “we should split a bottle sometime soon”. This message can be edited to use something other than wine depending on what fits the conversation. For example, “you like bowling?”, “you like vodka?” or “you like ice cream? How’s moscato, white wine? We should split a bottle sometime soon” This message moves forward with the idea of a date and meeting up in person. The phrase ‘sometime soon’ is good to use as it is ambiguous and open to interpretation. It is usually better than suggesting a specific day to meet up as that particular day may not work for her. The phrase ‘sometime soon’ allows for you to open the dialogue of when the date will happen and should often precede the message “What’s your schedule like? I’m sure we’ll make up for that on our date 😉 I’m free Sunday or Monday , you? What would you like to know? It’s the most efficient way to move through the water, get your mind out of the gutter 😉 That doesn’t worry me 😉
The student matched with the girl on Hinge. She liked his photo of him working out in the gym.
 Do you happen to need a new gym partner? 😅 🫣
Her
 Idk… do you think you can keep up?
Student
 Possibly 😬 😬
Her
 Before I let you spot me give me the basics. Any kids? Tattoos? Fun kinks? Crazy Hobbies?
Student
 No kids, but I have a dog who is basically my child. Yes tattoos, w another one scheduled in a couple of weeks. And all i do is work bc Iowa is boring 🙃 hbu?
Her
 This message works here because she liked his photo and sent the opening message so there is already some sexual attraction from the girl. However, the message is ambiguous and can be perceived as sexual from the girl or related to some kind of activity. This is a good message to use to hint at the idea of a date. 
I’m sure we can make Iowa more fun 😏
assistant
 you think so?
Her
 got any ideas?
Her
 was wondering why I ain’t see you anymore 😂
Her
 wait… hold up.. You’ve seen me at the gym and didn’t come talk to me
Student
 Yeaaa i been seen you 😂 1. I get too nervous 2. I ain’t wanna bother you 3. I ain’t know if you single or what so i just assume
Her
 This message is good to use when talking about what will happen on the date. It shows the girl that you are emotionally mature as you want to vibe and build chemistry before anything happens but there is a sexual undertone and there is no ambiguity about it being a date when you mention teases and neck kisses.
alright I’ll give that to you.. But this is what I’m thinking.. You, me, a bottle of wine, laughs, teases, neck kisses, vibing and building chemistry
assistant
 I mean that doesn’t sound too bad 🫣 😉
Her
 Hey it’s (student’s name) the cute light skin 😏
Student
 oh he’s confident too huhhh
Her
You don’t seem like the type who’s attracted to shy guys
assistant
 i mean you probably aren’t wrong 🤷🏻‍♀️
Her
 what kind of girl do you think i am tho
Her
You seem like a confident girl in general. You have a nice smile btw. You probably intimidate a lot of guys because of your looks which I imagine gets frustrating because deep down you’re actually quite submissive but only for the right guy
assistant
 ok you’re pretty good, i’ll give it to you
Her
 This message is great to use when the vibe in the conversation is good and it is time to move towards setting up the date. Girls usually like wine and, if they don’t you can follow up with “what’s your preferred drink?
You like wine?” This message is great to use when the vibe in the conversation is good and it is time to move towards setting up the date. Girls usually like wine and, if they don’t you can follow up with “what’s your preferred drink?”. This message should usually come before saying “we should split a bottle sometime soon”. This message can be edited to use something other than wine depending on what fits the conversation. For example, “you like bowling?”, “you like vodka?” or “you like ice cream?
assistant
 depends on the kind
Her
How’s moscato, white wine?
assistant
 not bad. Is that your favorite?
Her
 Yes ma’am… risata moscato.. The blue bottle
Student
 yea that ain’t bad
Her
 i usually drink stella rose
Her
 This message moves forward with the idea of a date and meeting up in person. The phrase ‘sometime soon’ is good to use as it is ambiguous and open to interpretation. It is usually better than suggesting a specific day to meet up as that particular day may not work for her. The phrase ‘sometime soon’ allows for you to open the dialogue of when the date will happen and should often precede the message “What’s your schedule like?
We should split a bottle sometime soon” This message moves forward with the idea of a date and meeting up in person. The phrase ‘sometime soon’ is good to use as it is ambiguous and open to interpretation. It is usually better than suggesting a specific day to meet up as that particular day may not work for her. The phrase ‘sometime soon’ allows for you to open the dialogue of when the date will happen and should often precede the message “What’s your schedule like?
assistant
 I’m down 😌
Her
 What’s your schedule like
Her
 except i am a lil salty i noticed you at the gym but you ain’t notice me sooo
Her
 This message brings up the idea of their impending date. This is often a good message to use when something small but negative has happened such as not noticing her in the gym. The implication is that they will make up for the missed conversation they could have had in the gym during their date. 
I’m sure we’ll make up for that on our date 😉 I’m free Sunday or Monday , you?
assistant
 whatever you sayyy and i work this weekend but might be able to make monday work 
Her
 Alright Monday.. You..me.. And a bottle of wine
Student
 sounds fun 😉
Her
 tell me about you tho
Her
 This briefly puts the burden of leading conversation on her which is okay to do sometimes 
What would you like to know?
assistant
 everything
Her
 Of course.. For you I’d even be willing to give you private lessons 😏
Student
 oooo really 😇
Her
 we can practice in my pool
Her
 Sounds like a plan.. Ima teach you all the strokes.. My favorite is breaststroke 
Student
 Interestinggg why’s that
Her
 This message takes the idea that he is thinking about sex with his breaststroke message and frames the girl as the one who is thinking about sex, stealing the frame in the student’s favor. 
It’s the most efficient way to move through the water, get your mind out of the gutter 😉
assistant
 My mind wasn’t in the gutter i ain’t got no breasts to stroke anyways 😂 😉
Her
 Her previous message about having no breasts could be an insecurity she has so this message lets her know, in a way that is calm, cool and succinct.
That doesn’t worry me 😉
assistant
 good 🫣
Her