No worries, you can make it up to me on our date 😉
Matched on a dating app. The student messaged the girl first.
 It’s always the discrete ones that are the most fun ;)
Student
 how’s it going?
Student
 Very well thank you ☺️
Her
 Are you fun? You’re not discrete 😉
Her
 Only one way to find out 😏 This message works to seed the date without the girl having to directly commit to it yet. It is a good way to get the girl to imagine spending time with you in person. 
Student
 Hm which way would that be? 😳
Her
 an adventurous night of flirting and drinks to see how fun we make each other feel. And perhaps other exciting things if the vibe is right This is a great message to send when she asks what will happen on the date. In this case it is how she will find out if he is fun. It paints a picture of a classy date with sexual undertones, with a confident man.
Student
 Don’t like the plan? This message is a good way to be persistent without being needy. It assumes that it isn’t him she doesn’t like, it was the plan she didn’t like. 
Student
 That’s a great plan ☺️
Her
 Great. What area are you in btw? I’m in (location).
Student
 (Location)
Her
 Is it dangerous there?
Her
 Ah not too far. It’s very safe, there’s a lot of kids walking around.
Student
 Hmm idk
Her
 I was aggressed there once
Her
 Do you live alone or with roommates?
Her
 Oh wow, I’m sorry that happened. I have roommates, It’s a really nice space
Student
 Oh that’s unfortunate
Her
 Why unfortunate? It’s a very big space and I still have a lot of privacy.
Student
 I live alone and got used to privacy…
Her
 Idk frankly speaking I can’t imagine being private with roommates 😂 and I want to be private lol
Her
 Haha I understand that. Once you see my place you’ll understand what I mean. It’s 7 floors, I don’t see my roommates often at all lol This is a good message to allay her fears about a lack of privacy. She needs to feel safer and more secure in the knowledge that they won’t be heard or interrupted during their date. 
Student
 ok then
Her
 You can invite me on a date 😂
Her
 Lol great. Do you like wine? This message is a great way to start a closing sequence. Most women enjoy wine and, once she says ‘yes’ it’s an easy transition from there to invite her to split a bottle together.
Student
 I do
Her
 I like all good things 
Her
 Great then you’ll like me a lot 😉 This message is a good amount of cocky humor, implying that he is good and that she’ll like him since she mentions in her previous message that she likes good things.
Student
 I’d like to take you to my favorite wine bar. We can have a drink there, flirt, and see where the night takes us. This continues the message from earlier as it maintains the idea of a classy date with sexual undertones, with a confident man.
Student
 Wait just to make sure
Her
 lol sorry I’m not coherent
Her
 What’s your favorite wine bar?
Her
 It’s called (venue)
Student
 Ok I’d like to go there
Her
 Hey what do you do?
Her
 Like for work? I’m an engineering lead at a tech company. Wbu?
Student
 I’m an analyst
Her
 Ok lol I’m sorry I got dramatized by your neighborhood 😂
Her
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No worries, you can make it up to me on our date 😉
assistant
 Well actually I’m free tomorrow as my plans got canceled
Her
 Would you like to save me from boredom? 
Her
 Absolutely, We’ll make it an unforgettable night then. Free around 730
Student
 It’s a question right?
Her
 Oh yes that was supposed to be a question mark lol
Student
 Nice
Her
 It’s good for me. 7:30 it is 
Her
 Okay great, looking forward to it. Send me your number, and let’s get off this app
Student
 Ok ☺️
Her
 (Phone number)
Her