Wow ice Cream and fries on our date?! When is this happening? Sure! Well I’d prefer to meet in public before going inside. I feel better like that Maybe. If you’re as fun in person as you are over text and the vibe is right Haha I feel like it’s too early to give you my address. Let’s grab a drink first :) Because I need to make sure that you’re not a serial killer or a catfish first ;) That’s actually a relief Perfect. I like to take things slow and I’m not looking for cheap hookups It’d be kinda weird if you just came straight over to my place on the first date 😂 what if you’re awkward or something? It’s important for me to have chemistry on the first meet If you’re looking for a hookup then I’m the wrong guy for you. If you’re looking for something more meaningful than that, then this may work. It’s really important for me that I want to see the girl more than once. I’m glad you’re different from other Serbian girls I’m glad you understand why I always want to meet in public first. I don’t think you’re one of those people but you can never be too safe these days Monday actually works really well for me! Sounds amazing! Shoot me your WhatsApp
They matched on Tinder. He messaged her first. This interaction contains some examples of misinterpreting what she says and reframing them. This is not an example of a perfect interaction as there is little to no ‘get to know you’ conversation and, so, very little comfort and connection created for the girl. There are points in the interaction where she is understandably confused. The examples of misinterpretation and reframing are to be used when objections occur, not as the basis for the whole conversation. The number he got from this interaction is not likely to be a strong one and there is a good chance she will flake unless they have some ‘get to know you’ conversation or vibing over WhatsApp.
Wow ice Cream and fries on our date?!
assistant
 the best thing ever
Her
 Misinterpreting what she is saying to mean that she is referring to their date.
When is this happening?
assistant
 Our date?
Her
 Misinterpreted as her asking him out.
Sure!
assistant
 Why u wanna go out with me
Her
 This message reframes her as the chaser. It also preemptively handles a safety objection she may have. 
Well I’d prefer to meet in public before going inside. I feel better like that
assistant
 Going inside? 
Her
 This message assumes she has already agreed to coming over. It frames him as the one who is not sold on her yet.
Maybe. If you’re as fun in person as you are over text and the vibe is right
assistant
 Inside where?
Her
 This message has misinterpreted her previous message as her asking for his address and frames her as the chaser. It also assumes they will be going back to his place after. It also preemptively handels another objection.
Haha I feel like it’s too early to give you my address. Let’s grab a drink first :)
assistant
 Why would i come over after one drink?
Her
 This message pushes her to qualify herself while also preempting another objection women commonly have on dating apps.
Because I need to make sure that you’re not a serial killer or a catfish first ;)
assistant
 Hahahahaha
Her
 I’m not, but anyways why would i still come im not gonna sleep with u or anything like that
Her
 This message steals the frame as positive for him. 
That’s actually a relief
assistant
 Huh
Her
 I wouldn’t even ask about going to ur place..
Her
 This message steals the objection from her and reframes it as positive for him.
Perfect. I like to take things slow and I’m not looking for cheap hookups
assistant
 Then what should I think about ‘well i’d prefer to meet in public before going inside.’...
Her
 This message misinterprets her previous message as her trying to go straight to his place while also baiting her to qualify herself as not awkward. 
It’d be kinda weird if you just came straight over to my place on the first date 😂 what if you’re awkward or something? It’s important for me to have chemistry on the first meet
assistant
 Why would i even come on the second date? Hahaha don’t get me wrong yah, i’m very normal, but it sounded like ur inviting me for a hookup
Her
 This message deals with a potential concern the girl man have and flips it back on her.
If you’re looking for a hookup then I’m the wrong guy for you. If you’re looking for something more meaningful than that, then this may work. It’s really important for me that I want to see the girl more than once.
assistant
 Im not looking for a hookup
Her
 I don’t like those
Her
 Im not even on Tinder as looking for a guy
Her
 This message qualifies her while also implying preselection and the options he has in the other women that want to hookup with him.
I’m glad you’re different from other Serbian girls
assistant
 Yeah u can meet a lot of crazy people here
Her
 I downloaded this app with my friend we were just talking to people of course ignoring those idiots
Her
 This message deals with a concern that was previously brought up in the conversation. The last part makes it easier for her to agree as it is likely to be something that she is thinking.
I’m glad you understand why I always want to meet in public first. I don’t think you’re one of those people but you can never be too safe these days
assistant
 Yeah of course i agree
Her
 But im not free until monday
Her
Monday actually works really well for me!
assistant
 Until monday if at my work they don’t change my shift
Her
 They were talking about something 
Her
 What r u doing in Serbia anyway
Her
Sounds amazing! Shoot me your WhatsApp
assistant
 (her phone number)
Her