Sounds like you could use some stress relief” This message is a good segway into asking for the date. Can usually be followed up with “I hear drinks with a handsome, (something else about their physical appearance, hobbies, job) man does wonders for stress I’m great, just got home from my brothers birthday, but still managed to get a workout in this morning, looking nice and sharp for our date I’m a sucker for girls with lots of tattoos. The more the merrier. No flaws here btw haha Absolutely. I could maybe do with a few more tattoos if we are being picky Cute, we’ll see when you’re handcuffed to the bed i’ll be sure to add handcuffing to tomorrow nights agenda You, me, a bottle of wine, laughs, teases, neck kisses. That sort of thing. Vibe and build chemistry We can swap out the bottle of wine. That and pulling you close and letting our lips touch, but not kiss Think you can handle all that? Not cocky, just confident. We will have some fun
Context:The student met this girl out while at the bars. He got her number and text her a few days later
 Hey (her name)
Student
 Hey (student name)
Her
 How’s your Thursday been treating you ?
Student
 Not bad, just got home from work, exhausted
Her
 What about you ?
Her
 Shit.. what do you do ?
Student
 This message is a good segway into asking for the date. Can usually be followed up with “I hear drinks with a handsome, (something else about their physical appearance, hobbies, job) man does wonders for stress
Sounds like you could use some stress relief” This message is a good segway into asking for the date. Can usually be followed up with “I hear drinks with a handsome, (something else about their physical appearance, hobbies, job) man does wonders for stress
assistant
 This message dhv’s while also bringing up the idea for the date.
I’m great, just got home from my brothers birthday, but still managed to get a workout in this morning, looking nice and sharp for our date
assistant
 I’m a nurse.
Her
 The only stress relief tonight is vodka and bed haha
Her
 Where is home ? Pumping the guns for the bid day ? I assure you i will not be doing the same haha
Her
 Orange county is home. As long as you pick a cute outfit you should be okay
Student
 hahaha should be ok ??
Her
 It’s all good then
Student
 So tell me a bit about yourself (her name). Any weird tattoos? Kids? Fun Kinks? Crazy hobbies?
Student
 hmm I always feel like I’m boring answering these types of questions. I work a lot and let loose a little on the weekend. Lots of little tattoos but all of them mean nothing to me
Her
 Kinks is a great question but definitely one for real life chat
Her
 What about you ? Musically inclined I see
Her
 I like tattoos, are you at the point where you stopped counting ? I have 6.
Student
 That’s fair, we can discuss kinks on Wednesday. Ya, I play guitar, love reading, writing, and exercising. 
Student
 I think 9-10 but stopped counting. People like you make me feel guilty, creative, healthy, and all. What are your flaws?
Her
 This message gives the girl some validation while being curt and succinct. 
I’m a sucker for girls with lots of tattoos. The more the merrier. No flaws here btw haha
assistant
 Ya, lots of random doodles, forget I have them honestly. Completely flawless and perfect huh?
Her
 This message is slightly sarcastic but works because it gives false modesty. 
Absolutely. I could maybe do with a few more tattoos if we are being picky
assistant
 A few more for yourself or a few more on a girl?
Her
 Just re-read, and got it
Her
 I meant me, but don’t let that stop you from getting more haha
Student
 Oh trust me, you couldn’t stop me from doing anything
Her
 This message is bold but establishes a sexual frame and asserts dominance.
Cute, we’ll see when you’re handcuffed to the bed
assistant
 Cute, haha fuck off you’re 24. You’re cute
Her
 But ya, handcuffing sounds right up my alley
Her
i’ll be sure to add handcuffing to tomorrow nights agenda
assistant
 Oh what else is on the agenda?
Her
 This is a good message to send whenever a girl asks what you will be doing on the date. It shows the girl that you are emotionally mature as you want to vibe and build chemistry before anything happens but there is a sexual undertone and there is no ambiguity about it being a date when you mention teases and neck kisses.
You, me, a bottle of wine, laughs, teases, neck kisses. That sort of thing. Vibe and build chemistry
assistant
 That sounds very nice
Her
 Tell me a bit more
Her
 Oh and I don’t drink wine or whisky, anything else is fine
Her
 This message builds the sexual tension.
We can swap out the bottle of wine. That and pulling you close and letting our lips touch, but not kiss
assistant
 Gave me butterflies in my stomach. Can’t wait to see what else you’ve got
Her
 Slightly challenging towards the girl but also gets consent from her.
Think you can handle all that?
assistant
 I enjoy your cockiness
Her
 How do you know you can handle me ?
Her
 This message is short and succinct and gets across the student’s level of confidence. 
Not cocky, just confident. We will have some fun
assistant
 haha i’m sure we will, but I actually like cocky so keep that in mind
Her
 I’ll keep that in mind for tomorrow, say 7:00?
Student
 Sounds good to me
Her